Does she still Love me???

I understand by your words that she accepted your proposal.Then she should be loving you.But now,something is bothering her.try to find out.Is there any economical differences between you that made her lose hope of continuing the relation?Or her family is so orthodox to accept love marriages?or are you both from different castes?Anyhow,don't avoid her,keep in touch,you both can continue love when you finish your course and earning a nice job.Until then,do not let your love die.Hope for the best!Cheers!

Youre still you and she also is. Talk to her about your relationship. Her family problems might be one of the cause, but there might be other causes. Talk to her and or write her a letter asking and telling her why. If still dont answer and remain silent, forget her. She is not the girl you should fall in love right now. You still can look for another one.

Good day... That's a very hard question to answer specially when one is second guessing. One thing for sure though for a relationship to work there should be open communication because without it any relationship won't work. I guess you have to ask her sincerely and personally you can see it in her eyes.

if she has not outright said that she does not want to be with you anymore than do not give up! some people act differently when they are going through hard times. She probably just wants to hide her feelings and act cold as a way of defending herself and not get hurt by whatever is happening. A true lover sticks by her side no matter what. As long as you both know you love each other, then everything will be okay as long as you hang in there. She is lucky to have someone like you, and I am sure she is aware of that. She just needs to get herself settled down and gather her emotions in the right place. Eventually it will be over and things will go back to normal.

The one that claims to love you should be able to share anything with you, granted they haven't gone through some sort of emotional turmoil that makes it difficult for them to open up. I would have a talk with her and ask her why it's so difficult for her to express her emotions. Maybe there's a dark secret in her past that you should be aware of, you never know. If she still won't open up, then at least you tried.

Hey buddy, i've totally been there and at the time when I was hopeless in love with who I thought was my 'true love', i, too, was an emotional wreck. But what I learned from that experience was that time truly heals all wounds and the scent of another woman heals them even faster:) Put yourself back out on the market and you'll realize, even though you still have strong feelings for this lady, that she may not, in fact, be what you want from a relationship. You're in college, prime time dating, don't pass up on every mans dream picking-up-on-woman opportunity. BTWT, there is nothing worse then dating someone who shuts you out...they've got baggage and therapist bill so expensive you won't be fit to pay.

Don't Give up... this could be a test of your relationship. and true love is worth fighting for. you said she is going through some family issues, just be there as much as you can without smothering her. give her some room to think and clear her head because if she truly loves you and adore you like you do her then she will be back to her old ways...just give it time...and keep loving her theres nothing wrong with that.

zeusonfire, You are both in college, you are 18 and I am assuming that she is relatively as young, if not slightly younger than you. Yet, I cannot believe my eyes that you are even looking at marriage now when this relationship is at its infancy stage. Look, the both of you have just gotten together and there are so much to go through together. One of it will be personal problems, and I am sure as successful as you are in school - let me remind you that you are not immune to problems to befall on you. You may not be in one now but that does not mean you will not be in the future. I think you need to respect and understand that people have a knack and different way of resolving problems. Her acceptance of you does not mean that it is a full acceptance of disclosure to you. Sometimes, you just need to be patient and understanding to let time take its natural course. Respect and trust her, that she should be able to resolve her problems independently. Give her the space and open arms to reveal and come forward to you when she needs and feels that she can rely and depend on you. Sometimes being there for someone, just does not mean that you need to be literally and physically present. It does not even need to be audible too. You are all grown ups, and I am sure you have your ways and methods to resolve the everyday challenges and problems you personally faced. I am sure you just wouldn't want to be seen running to her every single little bit, or do you otherwise? Have a nice day as you ponder here.

You love her and she loves you too,this is a wonderful thing in itself. Secondly true love never gives up.Ask her polietly to tell you her problems and you both will make up your way through this hard time I'm sure of this.

If you truely love her, then you should continue showing it to her. For it is the only reason that she will soon realized how deep your love is for her. If you will leave her without confronting her on what she's thinking about your relationship or what are the things the bugging her, then it's your great lost. You should talk to her, who knows there is a major problem bugging her. If you will insist asking her, then if she truely love you, then probably she will tell you everything, and that's the time that you can show your love to her by being on her side and by trying to give her moral support.

well i really couldn't tell if she's really in love with you because communication in a relationship is very much important... it's too early for you to think about marriage by the way... :) please don't do get offended... :) try to open up your problems with her in a way that she won't misunderstood your confessions or something... and then, if she's ready to open up her side, listen&comprehend... and if she's not yet ready to defend herself, then give her enough time to have a moment by herself... maybe she's having problems right now...

wow..... i thought i am the only one whose experienced this kind of situation...well similar situation..... my love(former) also does not tell me "i love you" nor "i hate you" but feel the changes happening in our relationship.....i felt that the excitement of seeing me has lessen to my love......sometimes i thought the love we had before is beginning to fade away....although we are together now,i still have the same feeling for my love up to now... and i am still hoping we could be together again... now for you zeusonfire i think you should give her time......do not rush her..... if are pushing her to tell you her problem it will only be harder for her....i think it would help he if you would do LESS talk and MORE action.... make her feel that you are willing to wait until she is ready to tell you her problem.... maybe she do not need your mouth today..... what she needs is a SHOULDER TO CRY ON....do not loose hope..... hope this help you....

Your problem is the same problem my wife had in the past. Just like you, she's get a crush to a boy, loving him so much. At that time I still her sharing friend, no more. She tell me almost everyday that how much she loves him. But the big problem is she doesn't really know their story will last long until marriage. Until one day, her "boy friend" tell her that he will leave her, with smooth words like "you are too kind for me" or something like "You deserve a better man, not me" It is still a words of love ending. After that day, she loose control of her self, she said to me that her world is tear to peaces, she desperately want him back to her, but that is not the story goes. Until some time of sadness, she raise her head again, try to make a new step and forget her past. May be fate and cupid came across us the same time, I see her as a new girl and start to falling in love with her, she also feel the same, so the story goes and finally we got married. This is the second years of our marriage. I hope my story could inspire you. If you already choose your way you must follow it through, there will be light, as long as you get away from the shadow behind you.

First think you have to do that always love her and do not try to be out of her. If you do this she will realize that how much you love her. Try to take her attention towards you. She may have some problems she might not be telling you thinking how to say her personal problem with some one. You have to build a confidence & feeling on her that you can do any thing for happiness. I think love is sacrifice. Do not try to get your love any how if you do you will never get it. If your love is true one day she is obviously came towards you

The true love will be there. you can ask her to say what is her problem. May be she is thinking you will not feel good if she shares the problem. you can request her.

A man ever said that "Conmunication is the best way to learn someone ".So, just try to talk to her .

I wish u a happy life

as long as she loves u or u love her it will work out..