Did you ever actually listen to somebody?

I, recently had an exciting thing happen... and I am one of those that love to talk about it.. when I am excited. My mom said.. ok.. thats great. but I dont want to talk about it all weekend. Well, I already knew I couldnt talk about it during the weekend.. as It was something that I relitivly have to keep as a secret. but.. I dont know... It just really h urt my feelings, because I was like.. jeeeze... I am just talking about all of the doors this is opening for me!... So, my method was,, a few tears rolled down my cheek (I am an overly emotional type of person). And then she felt bad and appologized.

when they yelling to me shut up..i screaming more loudly.. that the way i give my message..

Being a kid sister has its moments of frustration and reward but I know the feeling all to well when adults tell us to shut up. This is one of me pet peeves in childhood and I always dreamt of growing up and never having to hear this again. My mom would always tell me to shut up whenever I answered her back. Now of course I have my own family and nobody really tells me to shut up but your discussion brought back those memories.

I listen to many people many time. I try to take good and positive things from advices. At times it seems very boring. But when I cool down, I try to look at them.It helps many times.

yes, exactly the same as your when we had a little argue with my mother and she said shut-up....i follow her i keep my mouth shut-up the whole night and when someone ask me i will just reply to them at once....hehehhee.....

i dont think your mom is right to tell you to "shut up",with totally no offense. my mom doesn't say that kinda things to me. and i do actually listen to everyone.anyone who talks to me I can listen and try to understand them though im not clever enough.my friends tell me some secrets.I will ask them wether i should keep them. if they say yes, i can keep the secrets for many years.they are very satisfied with me on that point.

Well you are not alone, this has happened to me more than a few times. I think that you are doing the right thing by getting the point across that you are upset. Regardless of what you might have said to your sister, your mom should not have told you to SHUT UP, there are more mature ways that she could have spoken to you to get HER point across. Hopefully once they realize that they have upset you, they will try to make things better. I know that personally I have a lot of friends that speak first and think later and no matter what they say, I would not talk to them that way. I think that telling a person to shut up is a sign of ignorance and a lack of manners, as your mother she should know better. I hope that things work out for you and that everyone is happy again. Take care and happy mylotting.

i hae ever done that to someone else.actually i feel guity after did that but sometime i am in a big trouble and ihad to fix it immediately,i do not want somebody disturb me cause it willnot make me consent to finish my job fix the problem,but after that ll is done i ussualy ask some apologize to people that i have do that,i explain my situation and i hope that they would to understand me,but if they do nt understand,that is their problem.i had do what i should do.

Yes to my father. I think that he is the point is saying something and as i listen to it is sensible and that i have nothing to disagree with. I am always in the point of following this person because he is my best friend and father.

haha, yep but sometimes I ignore them, but not for long, that's when they really upset me