do u believe in true love..??
By drdivu
@drdivu (1011)
India
June 13, 2009 2:37pm CST
i have gone thro one and it was really kind of using and modifying me, rather than the guy correting or even thinking if he was ever wrong..!! more so , he had put my restrictions on me and my movements but kept saying that u are free...!!
now i dont at all believe in true love and blah blah...!! its simply fooling onself and changing for the other..rarely guys adjust in return, only if u r lucky enough..!! though not in my case...moving out of one is rather tough..!! wat are ur views..?? are u a beleiver or not..??? do discuss...
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@khayshenz (1384)
• United States
13 Jun 09
I believe in true love - and what you just describe is not true love. Sorry to burst your bubble.
Why do I believe - for multiple reasons - one of which is my parents. My parents have been together for more than 25 years - and the love that they have for each other still shows, not just to me but to people around us. It's not always easy for either of them - I know, I grew up watching their love for each other - and there were days that I felt that my dad was unfair to my mom, and vice-versa. YET they stuck it out, and are still together. That right there is TRUE LOVE.
My bf's boyfriend are the same way - they've been together for more than 25 years. And they've been through A LOT of things - my bf's mom was a war survivor, and every now and then she would have terrible flashbacks when she was little and war was all over. It's not easy for them - yet they're still together. That right there is TRUE LOVE.
I'd like to believe that what I have with my bf is true love - it's not always easy. And there were times when walking away was an option that I'd consider. However, when the good outweighs the bad - you stick it out. Relationships are never easy - they just require hard work and some sacrifice. Not easy, but definitely well worth it.
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@angelajoy (1825)
• Philippines
14 Jun 09
Very nicely said! I'm also a believer.
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@nchap36 (556)
• United States
13 Jun 09
Tell you the truth I really don't know. I believe maybe just maybe it someone out there for everyone. But talking about the Prince Charming and sweeping you off your feet nah I don't believe. This is just my opinion. Good question maybe we find the answer one day. Happy Mylotting..........
@jaisundar (215)
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14 Jun 09
I believe in true love. For example our mother's love is boundless. Even we commit crime we are forgiven by her. True love help maintaining good understanding and also expectations are limited.
@angelajoy (1825)
• Philippines
14 Jun 09
Based on my experience, true love really exists. I know because I have a true love. I'm lucky because I've found a guy who's willing to do things that he's never done before to make our relationship work. I do the same thing for him. I've learned to adjust. It wasn't easy at first, but we managed to do it through love, patience, and understanding.
@artofreed (130)
• Indonesia
14 Jun 09
I just say that The TRUE LOVE is just for the Parents to their children.
But... may be. the true love happen if we always hope someone to love or beloved just in our heart.. Not physically.
@veedhya (72)
• Mauritius
14 Jun 09
Personally I believe in true love......but sometimes we expect more from our partners and feel depressed when they are not able to stand on our expectations.....
I also think that if someone loves u truly, he will accept u as u are and will not impose anything on you...
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@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
14 Jun 09
i'm a believer of true love... why? because if it doesn't exist then i don't think other people would learn to settle and to be satisfied with their partner. i mean a lot of people contributes risk in order for them to finally found their true love and i don't think that if doesn't exist, people would still continue to search for it.
