What would you do if this happen to you? I really need your thought!!!

They are not related. It should be okay for them to have a relationship, accept for it being a bit weird. They are grown ups and should be able to process the relationship and let their kids be who they are. Who they are at the moment is 2 young people in love. Their parent should just deal.

I would like to be optimistic with this. Yes I agree it is stressful. But as a mom, she has to explain to her daughter why their 'puppy love' cannot go any further. its ok to be friends with the boy, but still they are blood related. She has to make her daughter understand this. Don't treat the boy indifferently either. Act normally but with rules of being friends with the daughter.

pretty nice storry in fact. Now, I wonder why should they not be able to be with each other. I mena, the mum and dad has a history, but the children should not be involved with that. This is a different story from mum and dad. And mum and dad should be able to handle this in a god maner and keep out of it. I mean, just becouse it did not work out between mum and dad, do not mean it would not work out with boy and girl. You do not say anything about the childrens age, or why the adult no longer were married, so it is hard to give a fair advice here. So my question is, why would the mother to the girl tell her she should not be involved with the boy? What is the reason she do not like that?

I will tell my daughter that the boy she fall in love with is her half brother. There's no other way but to tell the truth. It will be hard for both parties but the relationship must be stop at all cost. They are young they can still learn to forget that forbidden love.

In my point of view, your friend want to tell the real thing to his daughter.. And telling the truth was the best there was no any other option to think and waste the time...

How old are the children? It is a very difficult situation,your baby that is falled in love with the son of your ex!! If they are youg maybe the love will end but it is a very strange situation. Maybe your friend could talk with her ex husband if they talk still and tell to him this situation, to ask a suggestion to resolve this situation....Love is strange!!!

i don't think that there should be any problem at all if they are not related by blood... and since they are still so young, i think it is just a puppy love and it will go off after some times... so why don't the parents just let them to have fun and see what happen in the future??? of course they have to be monitored as well... if they start to get out of hand, then that is the only time the parents should interfere and say something... take care and have a nice day...

I don't really see anything wrong with that since the kids are not basically related. However, if your friend still has hang ups about her previous marriage but that would be a problem for her, BUT, not her daughter. I don't think that it would be fair if she would drag her daughter to her issues about her ex husband. So what if if the boy is the son of her ex-husband? Her daughter is entitled to fall for the boy that she likes and make her own mistakes. Her past should not be allowed to cloud her daughters experience and happiness.

i don't think it is necessary to separate them. and they don't have a same relation . so i think they can have a marriage. it doesn't matter, ever you told them the rule of the this thing.

I think it was just okay. They should both leave the past behind and not to say that to her daughter. Let her daughter discover it. There is no blood relation to their children so it was all legal in the eyes of morality.

Let me tell my point of view as I see it as an Indian. Our ideas, principles and ethics are quite different from the west. First of all, in India, any marriage is a relationship not confined to the two individuals but to two families. When a couple marries, two families come into interaction. That interaction ideally should be smooth, trouble free and aimed at enhancing the bondage and relationships in the long run. Though the case discussed by you strictly is not a relationship of a brother and a sister medically, but morally it is such a relationship only. The boy's father had shared the bed with the girl's mother in the past. Father's ex-wife too is nothing but a mother for him in principle. One cannot marry one's own mother's daughter. What will happen if (this fact is hidden to the boy and girl now but) they come to know of it in future? "My father and your mother had shared their bed in the past". What sort of feeling will it develop in their minds? So, the best course of action for the girls's mother would be to inform the girl about the relationship and explain about the awkwardness and embarrassment it would create to the parents if the marriage were to take place. I am sure the girl would understand.

i think it should be ok for the two young children to fall in love and anyway they are not related , if for me ,my opinions only, i will tell my daughter and let her decide herself before she found out herself and get angry with me, and i think i will tell my husband about it too , ex-husdand if possible become my daughter father-in-law , really don't know how to face it

I can only tell you , it needs its own choice.we will only affect you,then i believe you can solve any problem in this world,i am sure that you are a good person.will not be intimidated by difficulties. not the well-being of many families, the growth over time, i believe that the well-being of everyone on earth. bless you always,good luck.

they shouldn't have to not be together because of their parents. separating them for that is wrong. just because the parent don't have the best history doesnt mean their unrelated kids cant be together.

why,whats wrong ,they are not brother or sister, why keep them apart?

I think the kids should be left alone. After all they arent blood related or even related for that matter. Because she and her first husband divorced should have no bearings on the kids lives. Live, grow up and let go. They had their lives to live and now it is the kids turn to find their way in life.

This is awful.Genarally they should accept each other as a brother and sister.I feel give them idea about it.And let them decide what to do.May be they themselves will broke it thinking its morally wrong idea.

since the two kids are not related by blood i think there is nothing wrong with it. i am just wondering how did both parents separated, i think it also affects why the mom is really bothered by it. if both parents were okay after the separation, then it would seem to be okay too if their kids, get into a relationship. the best thing for the mom to do for now, is just to see what will happen to the relationship, and since the mom likes the boy so much, then there is nothing for her to worry about now... or she could tell her daughter about it, in a nice way that it would not be like she is trying to separate the two, and then ask her daughter what she thinks about the situation... it could confuse her child though. it would really not wise to separate the two, or her child may rebel against her.

If I'm the mother of it I will tell my daughter the truth. Its up to her to do whats the best as long as I will tell that the father of her boyfriend is the ex of me. There is nothing with that relationship because they havent got a kids. They are not related but the memories of her mother still there in her heart and mine that she is only the one knows of it. I know the truth will set her free from puzzle.I will let my daighter decide what's her reaction of it after telling the past.

Past is past and i won't let my daughter get hurt because of my selfishness. I will tell her the story then let her decide what she'll do. I will not force her to do what i want because she has her own decisions.