With whom are you more close, Mom or Dad ?
By suj123
@suj123 (1067)
India
June 20, 2009 10:22am CST
Well i am more close to my Father. We are just like friends. I can go and talk openly with him about everything. I know whatever decision i take he will always will be with me but it does not mean i don't love my mom. I love both of them. But more close to my Dad.
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@wolferking (33)
• China
22 Jun 09
i am more close to my mother. my mother is more amiable and easy to approach,we get well with each other just like friends.
facing to my mum everytime, i can say anything what i want. and she is very familiar to me, most ideals in my mind hardly escaped from her eyes.
maybe my father has always been very busy, there is limited time that i can share with him, so we do not have enough communication.
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@mflower2053 (3223)
• United States
22 Jun 09
I'm closer to my mom then my dad. I can talk to my mom about anything. She is more of a friend also my aunt is the same way. I don't stay in touch with alot of my friends from school anymore so its nice to have people to talk to and since they are family they are not going anywhere.
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@23uday (2997)
• India
20 Jun 09
hi
i love both my parents very much.and i am almost open with both of them and i never hide any stuff from almost in most cases.but i am more close to my mom ,rather than my dad,i can be more free with her rather than my dad,though i do share my feelngs openly with my dad too.
happy mylotting
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@Solitudefreelancer (135)
• Philippines
20 Jun 09
I'm also close with my father than with my mother because that he taught me not to get into trouble at the same time that he even taught me and my sibling not to give up or run away a fight (not in a violent manner most of the time).
I remember that he told me that not to be like my mother (you see that she's the type of person who carries grudges and keep thing to herself as always which led of having health problems).
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
24 Jun 09
well i must admit that i am more closer to my mom on sharing things, i and mom discuss more about girls and matters like that... you know
:P
dad and i discuss more boy matters, things that i should and shouldn't be doing and that sort of... well sharing things with mom is more interesting ... lol... she always advices me on girls and that is pretty interesting...
@zearah (5381)
• Philippines
23 Jun 09
i am closer to dad since i could start to talk until eight years old, because he had the longest time available than mom. then after eight years old until to the present i'm closer with mom, even both are busy, mom could talk to me often times than dad, maybe because of gender factor, we have many things in common with regards foods, music, movies and in some aspects!
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
20 Jun 09
hi suj123,
you love your mom,dad and as well as your friend, donot leave any body for any body
wish you all the best
@ddfreedie (690)
• India
23 Jun 09
it is not the matter of closeness or something like that...it is the fact that how open you are in your thoughts and how trustworthy you are...so for me it is my mom...anything and everything my mom comes first...not that i dont like my mom..but it is that i like my mom a inch more than my dad...
happy mylotting
@geniustiger (1694)
• Philippines
20 Jun 09
I am close to mom than dad. Its because my mom is so
loveable , kind , and caring to me.My dad is so strict
in terms of management and discipline. Im gonna afraid
of my father even in his voice I will be attentive to him
because he whip me if i could not follow the instruction
well.
@Ammudoll (549)
• India
21 Jun 09
I love my Dad, but when coming to sharing the secrets, I tell them to my mother. I am in love with my friend and I did let my Mom know about it but my father doesn't know yet. He is the best father ever, I am very happy and thankful to god. He is very nice and friendly. Except my boy friend matter he knows everything about me :). Well about my bf mom will take care to let him know about our marriage.
@jules2653 (74)
• United States
22 Jun 09
I was closer to my mom growing up but now I am closer to my dad. I had to put some distance between my mom and I. She can be hateful at times. My dad has been very helpful while I was going through my divorce.
@dabombmom6558 (23)
• United States
20 Jun 09
Growing up, I was closer to my Father. He got me ready for school in the morning. Made my lunch. In High School, he drove me every morning. I could have taken the bus, but didn't want to.
As an adult; it was much easier for me to talk to my Father than my Mother. I could talk to him about anything. He would help me with anything I needed.
My Father passed away in August 2000 after a battle with cancer. My Mother is still alive but we are not close.