What do women want in life?
By vijayanths
@vijayanths (7877)
India
June 22, 2009 11:58am CST
Women seem to be very unpredictable. They are not frank in most occasions. Sigmund Freud one of the greatest psychiatrists of all time did a big research on woman's mind and behaviors and finally said, "God knows what these women want"
So women, can you tell me want exactly you want in life?
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10 responses
@roberten (3128)
• United States
23 Jun 09
We want love and security. Women, contrary to popular belief, do not need men for their survival; they need men to complete them. If by chance a woman has to exist alone, she is able to do so very effectively. Instead of being physically needy like men, women are emotionally needy. We a so complicated until we're simple; a little glance, a tender touch, a kind word or loving smile will go a long way to winning a woman's heart and, more importantly, her confidence.
Learn to open your heart to a woman, and she's yours! And remember, the two most important words you will ever say to a woman are: "Yes, dear."
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
23 Jun 09
yes, dear, You are 100% correct. So I think this could be the best answer for my question. Great reply from you,thanks.
@byfaithonly (10698)
• United States
23 Jun 09
First I have to say I don't believe anyone can say 'this is what women want' - each and every women is an individual with different wants, needs, and beliefs. Just because I want something does not mean the next women will want the same thing.
As for being 'frank' disagree with that also - I know many women who are very very frank, to the point sometimes that it embarasses me but doesn't them at all, again, women are different.
What I want in life? For my children and grandchildren to be happy and healthy and a job for me that I can do with joy in my heart not dreading it each day.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
23 Jun 09
byfaithonly, we can't take exceptions as examples.
What most of the women want is what exactly the question. For any matter there will be exceptions.Suppose 70% of people including me find you beautiful. But 30% may find you not attractive.
In general we can say you are beautiful, is it not?
Most of the women want love, care, money, children, good health and good life of children.
@vivianchen (2646)
• China
23 Jun 09
You know what? If you did not try to listen to your woman careful, then you said you don't know what do they want. That is so unfair! Why? Ask yourself, of course you know what they want, what a woman will like? A man who love her so much, a happy family, a loving child. And of course some beautiful surprise from you, some gifts, hearing you say she is the most beautiful girl in the world, and lots of kisses and hugs. Most importantly, the understanding!
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
23 Jun 09
I know what may woman wants. I am asking here what most of the women want in life.
Women are not frank. What they talk may not be what they really think.
a woman's heart is so deep and full of mysteries. I am not telling this. May psychologists had told like this about women.
@charlenmendoza (922)
• Philippines
28 Jun 09
This is what i want. I want to make my live my life to the fullest. I want to be successful in my professional and personal life. How? I want to have a job that i love to do and i love my co workers, the management, i want to be earned bigger than my daily needs so i can still save money for the future. I want to work abroad, i want to go and travel the world. I want to have a house near the lake or sea. It makes me peaceful. I want to swim everyday and see either sunrise or sunset. I want to help other people, those unfortunate one. I want to meet my one true love, the guy who will love me and take care of me. He may not be perfect but next to perfect.
@my_name_is_coco (4333)
• Philippines
29 Jun 09
it differs from one woman to another.some would like to have a family of their own.some would like a stable career.some would like to have their own business to manager?me? all I want is to have a stable career in fashion and culinary arts,earn lots of money,nice vintage wardrobe, lots of shoes,a car,and my own business.
@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
23 Jun 09
As others have said, each woman in the world is different like each man is different.Not all woman want the same things out of life. I for example want to have a successful writing career, get married and adopt a few children. Some woman have no interest in parenting and others have no interest in writing. See my point?
@Savvynlady (3684)
• United States
28 Jun 09
There is a song I like that say that a man travel the world,cross the seven seas, get a college degree but in the end, he just cant understand a woman. I don't think it's hard to figure out what we want. So I'll tell you. A fair shake in life. First and foremost. There are too many women being mules of men, catching hell just because they are a woman, not being given the right to vote, hold office, own property, have her own etc.In the very USA, women earn way less than a man. President Obama just signed the Ledbetter Act hopefully changing that though stuff still the same if you ask me. Although most countries allow for a woman's freedom and perogative, there are still places that places restrictions on females. The reason that men probably can't understand us is for the simple fact that they don't want to hear what is REALLY on our minds, and we hide it so that when they DO ask, we keep it from them, so now you have this quandary where a woman won't disclose her business and men cannot understand them. Hope it helps.
@hanah87 (1835)
• Malaysia
23 Jun 09
Women also like men,they have different thing and want in their life.As a woman,i want a happy life without worry and money for continue my life.I like other people who want to have good life and don't want has any problem.Not all people have the same mind and want the same thing.So,i think women is like men too and cannot be make sure waht they really want.Thank you.
@candy4321445 (4)
• China
23 Jun 09
In my life,as a woman I want a happy family ,my husband loves me ,my baby grows up healthly every day ,my father and mather keep health .