My Onesided Love Story .......:(

actually i want to ask you:what if she has married,will you tell her your feelings?

Yes, you are right, we should never keep our feeling, we may lose a lot, I am a girl, so I always wait the boy say that first, this is a little hard for a girl to express her feelings first, but now I think I understand, if you love somebody, you should tell her/him, so we won't miss the person in our life.

Sometimes secret and pain in heart is another kind of happiness. Although you could not express it, you keep it forever. Several years later, you can taste it differently, when you have your true love.

hi, i'm sorry to hear that. i suppose it's too late now. another thing i wanted to ask you, is swathi her real name? because you seem to disclose quite a lot of information which can put her in trouble. you mentiond her name, where she moved to and the employer's name! i think you should think twice before disclosing such information as you should know about indian culture very well!

I'm sorry to hear that.... for me u have to try express your feeling to her.. forget about your different stream.... and forget if she accept or not... the point is your must free your feeling and keep moving forward... :-)

Time and tide wait for none is an age old saying... should be in Modern world include Girls too ??? Think about it ! Another modern day secret is - Never run behind bus, train and girls.. one goes the next one is sure to come... What say ??? Feeling better already ? That is the way life is !

i also have similar story like you... i have a crush on my schoolmate when i was still in secondary school but i just keep it to myself... my classmates already encourage me to tell him but i ignore them because i am very shy... but i didn't regret it... now i am already married with a wonderful man who loves me whole-heartedly... take care and have a nice day...

Man i m sorry to hear you story and i have the same experience as you.is there any possibility for you two to make a progess beyond friendship? i still like her nowdays,i treat her as my best friend and i also have a gf already.But i clearly know that if she ask me for help,i will try my best to do her favor.that's only what i can do. You are right,man should be brave enough to express his feeling,love needs courage.if you still have the oppurtunity,i suggest you should hold it. good luck,you are a good man.

yes better you let it out what your feeling inside coz you don't know what will happen then in the future. even she will reject you at least she knows what your feeling to her.

I am sorry for you shan, You should have atleast tried an attempt to express your feelings, if not have enough courage then atleast try to make friendship initially. Whatever it may be u are saying she is committed so just move on, I know it is hard to forget someone whom you loved for 4 years but she is already committed as u said. so go for another girl or concentrate on your carrier.

That's a lesson in life you have to carry with you and share. I know that our shyness can often get in the way of how we run our lives, but we have to sooner learn how to put it aside if we want to get somewhere or be with someone. You should never be shy or too afraid to let someone know how you feel, you may never have a second chance. Life always offer us oppurtunities and it's ourselves we can blame when we do not take it. Next time, when you find yourself having feelings over someone, invite that person out and have a good time knowing each other. If she doesn't accept your invitation and is not interested, at least nothing is lost. You would not go on with life asking, "what if..."

yes that is so true to not keep your feelings to yourself..I learned that myself when I was in High school. Well all I can tell you is to move on and start looking for another girl. That is the only way you will get over it,or you can just surround yourself with a bunch of friends and go out every night.

uuhhh... so true! you should never keep your feelings to yourself. you should always express what you feel for others eventhough they did'nt notice it or they are just being numb. atleast you cannot blame yourself of not showing/expressing your care and love for him/her. :D

i have not experienced what you have gone thru.. or even close to it but one of my close friend has. my adviced to her was to do exactly as you mentioned. though its hard to do especially when you're the shy type, but there are other ways to express your feelings to that special someone..even anonymously at first.. who knows what will happen you know :)

Right about that, I guess you learn the lesson the hard way. Well for you I guess the best thing to do in that situation is either to move one and find another to love and love you back in return or you may try to risk telling her what you are feeling for even at the last moment that you have with her. At least you have release that feeling and regret in life that you haven't express in the past 4 years. That may also serve as a moving on letter on your part if she wouldn't respond on it anymore.