Are you a person who think a lot, before to take a decision?or just not think be
By icesmile
@icesmile (7160)
Romania
June 24, 2009 1:33am CST
People say that who think to much before to take a decision, usual take a wrong decision, ...are you a thinker?
Many times you just stay and think in something for long time and like to analyse , and thinking again?
How much you think before to take a decision in your life?
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18 responses
@danishcanadian (28955)
• Canada
21 Aug 09
The larger the descision, the more time I take to think about it. If it's just something small, I don't take that much time to think at all, but if it's something larger, I will take more time. For example, last weekend I wanted to go to Toledo Ohio in the USA (I'm in Canada) for a friend's birthday. I planned for about a month, because I needed to make sure I had the money to do what I wanted to do. If I'd just gone ahead and done it without thinking, I would have messed up, and maybe not planned things right.
@SViswan (12051)
• India
5 Jul 09
I think a lot before taking a decision....sometimes I even ask for others (imp. people in my life) for advice...might or might not take it...but still need to hear it and think about it.
I've never taken a wrong decision because of it. Things could have been different if I had made other choices..but I don't regret the choices I made after thinking long and hard on those.
@cobrateacher (8432)
• United States
25 Jun 09
Hi, Icesmile!
In most cases, our first instinct is better than any judgement we make after a great deal of though and consideration. Of course, we put a lot of thought and cnosideration into buying a car or a house, or even a pair of shoes. But other than doing comparison shopping, most things are best on first instinct.
@zhuhuifen46 (3483)
• China
5 Jul 09
Mostly, I depend on intuition or first judgement for making a decision. It does not mean related thinking or logic is needed, but the knowledge and experiences accumulated help to reach the instant. But before action is taken, I would allow myself to wait for a reasonable time. If there is no change or regret, the decision is set and action taken.
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
24 Jun 09
hi icesmile,
i have leave all things to fate and i sleep without any disturbance
@pratyushtamhankar (859)
• India
24 Jun 09
Ya I take a long time to think. I keep thinking the same things over and over again... Maybe I've done so many mistakes in my life that I've become a bit paranoid...
Just don't wanna run any more risks.
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
hello ice,
i am a person who decides most of the time using my instinct.
but when i know that it is a major major decision, i usually study it first and then decide later.
nothing is perfect in this world hence if you decide on something and it turns out to be wrong, just move on and correct what needs to be corrected. that way, you learn and get it right the next time.
friend,
ann
@lulu1220 (1006)
• United States
24 Jun 09
I have made rash decisions and usually it does not turn out well. So I try to think about it for a while and maybe do some research (my favorite thing to do).
As for anything else, I wil think about it for a while. I do a lot of thinking when I drive and when I am trying to go to sleep at night.
@midgefaria (273)
• India
24 Jun 09
It is very important to think before you take any decision.To take any decision one has to think over the pro's and con's of the decision over that particular situation. Most important is that you have to focus on as what you want the out come of the decision to be. One more thing the more longer you think the more difficult it gets to take the decision.
@midgefaria (273)
• India
24 Jun 09
It is very important to think before you decide. Keep your mind forced as what you want the out come to be of your decision. Every decision will have its pro's and its con's so, you have to look at both and then take your decision. One more thing the longer you take to think the more difficult it becomes to take decisions.
@solitudine (603)
• India
24 Jun 09
I am not a thinker in this regard..I always take a very fast decision and it usually depends on the circumstances.I do whatever my heart says....I often take decionsion that is related to me and which I think is good for me... I find it terrible to think about a problem always that I am facing.I may get tensed if I do it.
@babshish (1387)
• India
24 Jun 09
Definately I think a lot before talking any decision, if it is critical decision I do take time to think about all the pros and cons possible related to the decision. I think every one should think before taking any decision and also think for long term and not short term, because short term might look good, but the ultimate effect in long term may be different. So think accordingly and then only take the decision.
@marianna45 (1399)
• Romania
24 Jun 09
For sure that i am a thinker, and i think a lot before to take a decision....but i am not sure that is very good, because many times, i take wrong decison....maybe is better if we take some decision just with our instincts, this make us sure that we can t blame somebody for our decision. Sometimes instincts are the best.
@corrycrystal (1775)
• Malaysia
24 Jun 09
It depends on what I am thinking of... When it needs a fast decision, I can be spontaneous, but when it involves many things that I need to weigh between the pros and cons, it may takes time for me to decide before taking any actions.