Why does girls do this......

India
June 26, 2009 1:21pm CST
This thing happened to me trice today. i was just going and some girls were passing by......i eye just on this one girl just for a nanosecond....... and she looked her body and ajusted her clothes. her friends then saw me and gave me an angry stare....i wasn't doing anything ....was jsut passing by and done nothing wrong . Still that girl's act made me look bad........ once its okay but three times....too bad....
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
26 Jun 09
her mathematics is different from yours, your nanosecond seemed like a minute to her!
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@piya84 (2580)
• India
27 Jun 09
hahaha good response rated ya !!
@voldrox (7191)
• India
27 Jun 09
much much thank you! :)
• United States
27 Jun 09
Harsh- I'm not sure why some women play this game to be honest. I tend to revel in the eyes I get when I'm out. It's a compliment, or should at least be viewed that way, if you can make a man turn his head without doing anything. Perhaps I am very found of the Geisha, but if I can do such a task without doing anything but walking past a man I feel very content. I only adjust my clothing if a strap falls or such thing. Or when I'm standing up from sitting and need to smooth down my skirt or such. Now, there is an old saying all good things come in threes. Perhaps there is something good coming your way! Namaste-Anora
• India
28 Jun 09
Yeah i have that.... good thing comes in threes and bad in twos..... you are always so supportive ..... thanks
@savypat (20216)
• United States
26 Jun 09
Well you must have dangerous eyes. Is is easy to read your thoughts by looking at your face. Now honestly which would you rather have no one notice you or a few sharp looks from girls you will never see again?
• India
27 Jun 09
i tell lies like no other so no one can read my face.........and i like not getting noticed.....
@mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
27 Jun 09
Well, don't look at them then, it sounds like they think they are gogeous so they make you look at them and they pretend to be angry that you llok at them or something... I have heard of friends telling me before... I dont'know what it is but I don't care because I look at people, people look at each other, it's normal, that's why we have eyes...
• Philippines
27 Jun 09
I think she thought that there's something wrong with her dress,that is if what she's wearing isn't revealing.she thought maybe a button or two are unbuttoned,or her jeans aren't zipped.maybe she just got conscious of your stare.if her dress is revealing,she may have thought that you're looking at her,uhm, "goods".either way,it really depends on how the girl interprets it.
• India
27 Jun 09
thats their psychology...........
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
27 Jun 09
i am a woman and i will feel uncomfortable if i see a man staring at me as well... but if it is only for a nanosecond, i think i will just ignore it... i think the girls you mentioned are just over-sensitive and over-reactive... just don't think too much about it... it's just not worth it... take care and have a nice day...
@orevro (715)
• Philippines
27 Jun 09
it's not wrong, it's just that girls feel uncomfortable when being stared at. how would you feel if someone stares at you? or maybe those girls had a bad experience with guys looking at them. Maybe they got disrespected the first time someone stared/looked at them. It's just a coping mechanism
• United States
27 Jun 09
i wouldnt worry about it. i mean its prob just them having paranoia probs or something.. i know what you mean though.. kind of like those people that scream at you asking you what are you staring at when you werent even looking at them.. you were thinking about stuff or daydreaming lol
@agrim94 (3805)
• India
27 Jun 09
Hi Harshrosicky, Hmm this is very sad that this happen and make the guy feel so bad and low and think what they might be thinking of me. This happens lots of time and some girls do think every guy is trying to take off her clothes in his brain. May be these girls had bad experience that they might have been victim of verbal lewd comments or something by guys but before giving angry looks her friends should have at least asked her what happened.. and if there is a beautiful girl walking on road then of course she would attract at least one glance but that doesnt mean anything bad or something vulgar.
• Philippines
26 Jun 09
Probably it is in the way you look at her, you must have made a stare that looks like you are undressing her so she acted like that. Besides staring in impolite. If you have said that you have stared at her for nanosecond, then she must have been so sensitive on how people look at her that is why she snoop herself and check herself if something is wrong. Ohh boy, if you should have stared at her for quite some time, i might have given you a popcorn just like watching a movie, heheh!. Again my friend, some girls don't mind a look but if you keep on looking and staring, well that will be annoying.
@geniustiger (1694)
• Philippines
27 Jun 09
I think they just curious why you stare at her. Might be ther's something in herself that can see not common thats why she touch her clothes. Girls are like that when we get to be look at by somebody I'm curious whats on me that you look up to. Whether I got wrong wear that clothes or stain in my suits or whatever that makes you stare at me.
• India
26 Jun 09
well, do not really feel bad about the girl who adjusted her dress. she is not unduly worried about it. as for the other girls, they are simply upset about not getting the attention. all this is true, unless you are an absolutely shabbily dressed young man and whose glance is similar to oogling. which i am sure is not the case.