Have You Ever Fallen In Love With Someone You Could Never Have?
By threnos
@threnos (216)
Canada
June 27, 2009 2:51pm CST
Have you ever found yourself falling in love with someone you know you could never be with? It has happened to me and it took ages to finally get over them. That was about 2 years ago. The same thing happened to my sister. She didn't know but the person she loved was married.
19 responses
@Bloggership (1104)
• Indonesia
27 Jun 09
Yes i do ever fallen in love with someone that i could never have threnos... I was fallen in love with Wynona Riders... To bad she was so far way from indonesia.. But even she was here, i'm not sure she will llove me anyway.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
22 Jul 09
Hi threnos
I think I have long time back. I fell for him even knowing very well that it would be unrequited. Luckily I got over it soon. It was more of a crush. I can understand you for its really difficult to get over real love.
@rockydam83 (846)
• Italy
29 Jun 09
Yes that happened to me i fall in love with a beautiful girl and i was unable to tell her that i love her and then she left the town and i have never seen her again but she still lives in my heart. Only a lover can understand the feelings what i have experienced.
@Letitia30 (64)
• United States
2 Jul 09
Yep...not a cool feeling at all. You just have to ride it out. I think everyone has that special someone that got away or can never have.
That special one is always in your heart and in the back of your mind.
@tjsunshine (12)
• United States
5 Jul 09
Yes, my best friend. I've tried so hard to get over her, but it's tough, especially since she is still my best friend. I'm finally at the stage where i realize that i just need to find someone else and accept it. It hurts, but i can't do anything about it
@lucy67 (819)
• China
28 Jun 09
i have had such experience and more than once. but i was wise enough to prevent myself from falling in too deep. when i found i have a kind of special feeling with the one i shouldn't fall in love with, i tried to stop it before it was too late.
@kevsgirlalways (5883)
• Malaysia
28 Jun 09
i've experienced this before. it is indeed painful to like someone you know you could never be with. i was down most of the time and it took me long to get over that person too. in a way i'm glad i've finally moved on!
@pratheep87 (1227)
• India
28 Jun 09
Yes this will hurt your heart if you had a true love on him or her. Still i didn't experience any bitter love like this but one of my friends love a married guy and she felt so bad
@maikarumike (457)
• Malaysia
28 Jun 09
That happened to me as well,I felt in love with a girl who is 12 years older than me and she was married.However i still go out with her and we are still close but she takes me as her brother alone and not more than that and she never knew i take her more than a sister.I think it is a bit wrong and finally i just stick to the relationship of sister and brothers and that lasted until now and i am glad of that.
@agv0419 (3022)
• Philippines
28 Jun 09
It is hard to move on if you are falling in love in a person you couldn't have. It is also happened to me up to now I still overcome that feeling and I gave up. I know that I couldn't get his love and it is difficult everytime you I see him to fight the feeling. I stop thinking and seeing him to fight what I feel for him it really works for me.
@angelajoy (1825)
• Philippines
28 Jun 09
Thankfully this has never happened to me. The reason for this is that I don't really go looking for love. I've had boyfriends in the past, and I have one right now, but I didn't really find them because I was looking for them. They just came into my life. I've never gone looking for love because I'm happy even if I don't have a boyfriend. Don't get me wrong. I really love my boyfriend and I really think he's the one, but if I'd never met him I would still be very happy with my life. I guess I'm just the type of person who's always happy with herself. I really don't need anyone to complete me.
@cookiecrumbles (629)
• United States
28 Jun 09
To many times to count. But I am satisfied just to love them in silence and be around the and do things for them. Have them just think I am a nice person. Kind to others around them makes them love me in a different way and that is just fine for me in some ways. With some people that I have fallen in love with that is all that I can ever have with them and that is just fine. Some are married, some are to young and some are just well, it could never be for reasons I could never talk about. But they are very special to me and people that should be loved.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
27 Jun 09
Some of the biggest decisions, that have the most profound affects on our lives are things we can't control. Like falling in love. Though you try to resist you can't....because love is a mighty powerful thing! Yes....it's happened to me. And I still love him.
@OConnell87 (1042)
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27 Jun 09
yeah there is this guy i went to school with and we had a connection even then, and kind of still do, but he is madly in love with his girlfiend and they are expecting their first child in sept, and although both of us know how each other feels we dont act on it, firstly because he is with someone and we are both not the kind to cheat or anything like that, and secondly in a weird way we know we are better as friends
@SummerChick (513)
• Philippines
27 Jun 09
Yes, bitter but one way or another you have to realize that you have to move on and let the person be. That's just part of how life is.
@alyssakenzie (462)
• United States
27 Jun 09
I did many years ago and at the time we were both at different places in our lives so even though I knew I loved him very much and it hurt to be away from him I never told him how much I really cared for him. We were around each other all the time and we would watch movies together for hours. I had never felt so safe and secure in someones arms. I guess it must have happened slowly but we all started hanging out at different places and it got to where we saw less and less of each other. I would think of him often and what could of been but I moved on and I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years now and we have 2 kids. Well about a year ago I ran into the other guy and we talked for awhile and I found out that he had wanted to try and make things work between us even if it was difficult and he just thought I wasn't ready. It hurt me so much but I knew that there was a reason that we didn't know that back than and I have two wonderful kids because of it but I will never forget that feeling and wish I could feel it once again.
@sherryzheng (27)
• China
28 Jun 09
I think it`s a really miserable thing.In my opinion,loving someone is a happy thing.If you cannot be with someone,maybe you should keep this beautiful feeling on your own mind.We shouldn`t make love as the reason to hurt others or ourselves.