Are you happy with your love life now?
By allenbucks
@allenbucks (289)
Philippines
June 27, 2009 7:15pm CST
Well, I would lie if I say that I am happy with my love life. Because the truth it, I don't have a love life. I don't have a love life since I was born. And I'll be turning 20 this July 30 without even experiencing having a girlfriend. But I don't regret it. Because I can say that I am happy with my life now. I am happy living my life surrounded by many friends. I am happy living my life serving God.
How about you? Are you happy with your love life now?
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19 responses
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
28 Jun 09
yes allen...i am very happy and contented with my love life...
i am 5 years married to the man i really love...he's my first boyfriend and been together for 5 years also before we got married...
i believe that he's really the one for me and he's the answer to my prayers to God...
we are both happy now with each other even though we don't have kids yet....
our relationship is not perfect...we sometimes have misunderstandings, a little quarrel, we have our flaws...but because of love and our value in our marriage...we were able to solve all problems that are coming through and these problems make our relationship stronger...
we are very thankful to our Lord for being with us and He is the center of our relationship...
in your case...its good that you are happy with your life even without a girlfriend, and very nice that you are happy living your life serving God...and that really matters...
about you having no girlfriend since birth...well its really okay, i believe its your choice? coz i remember in your other post that you never court anybody?(correct me if im wrong...)
if you really wanted to have a lovelife or a girlfriend in the future...well don't rush things...it will surely come in a place and time that you never expected...you will just feel it and say...yes this is love!hehehe
and also...ask for God's guidance...it works for me...it will work with you too...
but now, just concentrate with your studies and continue live your life happily...
have a nice day! blessings!
@allenbucks (289)
• Philippines
28 Jun 09
Yes, you are right. It's my choice not to have a girlfriend and you we're also right that I never courted anyone. You have a very good memory ckyera. Thanks for your comment here. Hope to see your comment in the discussions that I will make.. Happy posting..
@carrotman92 (446)
• United States
29 Jun 09
Well i am in love with a girl, i have never had a first kiss. i have never really had a constant girl friend, and this girl is the one. that can give me all that. i happy with my life and then again i wish that i could have her. I love God!
@seruhELIZABETH (3)
• Canada
28 Jun 09
definitely not;
i'm still young, but i believe love happens when you're ready. i know i was ready when i was with my [now] ex, mac. i'd do anything in the world to get back together with him, and he claims the same to me. he has a girlfriend now though. he's making everything so much more complicated. i'm not even sure whether or not i can believe the things he says now. he says he misses me, and everything else, that he loves me too, all that good stuff but then he tells the other girl, probably the same things. he broke up with her for three hours. said we would get back together. he ignored me for a good two days after that. we only dated for a short period of time, but i never found a single flaw or reason to be mad at him. if something upset me, i couldnt stay upset no matter what when he was around. after that break up with him though, everything went wrong. i really dont know what to do with him. i guess just hope for the best. id much rather be with him but ive been trying to move on. its hard and im so unhappy dealing with this kind of thing but i dont much have a choice. [imissyousomuch Mac]
@kaybabyii (1)
• United States
29 Jun 09
i am not happy with my love life at all. ive been in this relationship for only 7 months and feel like its not working.i've tried talking to him about it and everything. my boyfriend has been talking to other females for 5 out of the 7 months we've been together.at this poin im really fed up with it. i dont really know what to do at this point, i do love him alot and want to be with him im jus not sure if its right for me. im emotionally breaking down.
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
28 Jun 09
yes i am... i had been married for 3 and a half years now and very happy with my hubby... we are planning to have a baby soon and hopefully God will bless us with one soon... i am undergoing some treatment at the moment and hopefully it will work this time... my love life will be more complete if we can have the token of our love which is a baby... please wish us luck... take care and have a nice day...
@littleone3 (2063)
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28 Jun 09
Yes I am very happy with my love life. This is the happiest I have been ever in my love life. I have a wonderful partner who I want to spend the rest of my life with. He is my soulmate.
We also have a three year old son together and he treats my other four children just like they are his own.
He is the best man that a girl could have and I would not be without him.
@jhoanne1215 (290)
• Philippines
28 Jun 09
yes!i'm very happy wiht my love life now..hehehe i don't know ho to explain it but i am very thankful for what i am experiencing right now. but don't be sad, always remember that God always make happy endings,if it is not happy,then it is not the end, you will soon meet your special someone,maybe not now.. but i'm sure he will come..C:
@doormouse (4599)
•
28 Jun 09
I wasn't happy with my previous boyfriends for years,but i'm now with a great man who i can honestly say i truely love
@postlover (191)
• China
28 Jun 09
I am happy with my current love life, although we do quarrels with each other for some little things.But it is happy that there is a man who is worried me if I get back lately.
20 years old is too young, so it doesn't matter if you have no girlfriend.
@Ammudoll (549)
• India
28 Jun 09
I am really very happy with my love life, he makes me feel as if I am in heaven. We are in love for the past 1 year and friends for 4 years. Even my mate have no girl friends untill I entered in his life, ofcourse he concentrated more on his carrer and life which made him not to think about building up new realtions. So you are right, no need to worry that we do not have a lover at the age of 20 just concentrate on career, there will be someone waiting for you!! All the best
@ryaeneolver (87)
• Philippines
28 Jun 09
Oh yes. Im happily married now, having two kids and a very good husband.
@entrepinoy (709)
• Philippines
28 Jun 09
I have been in love and out of love twice and had my share of heartaches and pains. But right now, I can say that i am happy that I found my special someone who loves me as much as I love her. I can say that God gave her to me since she came 3 years after I experience heartache.
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
28 Jun 09
No, i'm not happy at all. Like you, i don't have a lovelife too. My broke up with my girlfriend for almost a year now and counting. Well i had some flings but they just don't make me happy. I was a legal and serious girlfriend. My lovelife is pretty much colorful and i've had enough of trouble relationships. I've been cheated and betrayed too many times. Well you're still young. I had my first girlfriend when i was 22 so i'm sure you still have time to catch up.
@my_name_is_coco (4333)
• Philippines
28 Jun 09
I have experiences falling on love and getting my heart broken.I'm single right now.I am happy.I am happy and enjoying my freedom.I am happy with my family and friends.I am happy because I get to spoil myself.
@geniustiger (1694)
• Philippines
28 Jun 09
So far my love life is so good and fine.
Hope it will last forever until the end of our life.
I know you can find a true love as you go along
your way. Look and search , time will come that you
will have it , and make it your inspirations in your actions.
Still go on praying who she is and it will come to you.
@VampireChick5 (114)
• United States
28 Jun 09
I have been in love, had my heart broken, and been in every situation that you never want to be in. I've had to choose between friends and I've had tons of realationships with real jurks. I've done everything imagineable wrong, and I'm still happy. I'm single, and I'm in love with someone who hates me. And I've wanted something, got it, and then wanted the other thing back. Like they say, the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. I'm happy, though. No matter which side is greener, you have to make do with what you got. And make yourself happy.
@countrysun2sea (161)
• United States
28 Jun 09
I have been in love-been out of love-been hurt and hurt others but I can honeslty say--I have never been as happy as I am and in love as I am right now. My love life couldnt be better.
Great question.