Whom do you like ??? Sexy body or a Good Hearted Person ???

India
July 1, 2009 8:19am CST
This is an open question for both men and women. What type of people do you like the most and please do tell me what kind of relation do you like to share with them??? I personally feel that a true heart ed person is a much better companion for life but at the same time for just a little time pass the other case is best suited. . Good Luck. Take Care. Keep Smiling.
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26 responses
• India
2 Jul 09
good hearted persons are more better than sexy body... coz, beauty will fade when we get old, but good herat will never go till the last breath.... so good hearted people are better......
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• India
3 Jul 09
True Priya. Welcome to My lot. Hope you will find it interesting and useful. The best part is you opened your account with such a good reply you have a long way to go. By the way which place are you from?? In India..
• India
3 Jul 09
ye s am from india... thanks for your support
• India
3 Jul 09
tamilnadu...
@SusanLee (1920)
• United States
1 Jul 09
I'll take a good heart over a sexy body any day. To many good looking people with gorgeous bodies have no heart at all.
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• India
1 Jul 09
Well buddy, that's is a perfect choice and i do feel the same. But i have seen quiet a few who are good at heart but when i approached them then i got the complete picture.
• Malaysia
2 Jul 09
Hm, maybe a person's really gotta dig in better to find a good-hearted person. You have to get to know a person to know this, not just see it from an overall picture, that's where we may be wrong to judge.
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• India
3 Jul 09
ya that's correct..
@orevro (715)
• Philippines
2 Jul 09
i prefer a good heart over a sexy body. What will a good body do to you if you can't get along with that person simply because they irritate you or they can't understand you or they're criminals. Having a good heart makes for a better partner in life:)
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• India
3 Jul 09
Wow that's a different way of thinking but it is true as well and i do agree with that.
@mrakobesie (1246)
• United States
2 Jul 09
My personal favourite is a good hearted person who isn't ugly. I don't care much about looks, but is person is so ugly that I'll be ashamed to be seen next to him, then well... maybe he should work out or do something about acne. There are very few ugly people who can't do anything to look better, so almost all good hearted people can look good enough to be datable. As for relationship, I like having loving trusting relationships. Don't care much for marriage, it's meaning rather changed now. It used to be that when you marry someone you will be with this one person your hole life, but not people get divorced all the time, so I don't see the difference between living together for 10 years and being married for 10 years.
• India
3 Jul 09
Well huh these days every thing is changing these days and so what can we do but i think we can just stick to our principles that's the maximum that we can do. That's it. A good choice indeed.
@srganesh (6340)
• India
4 Jul 09
How can you judge a good heart in the first sight.The physical structure is in our vicinity and we have to take it first.A good heart or not can be found out after a relationship.And a you measure others with your level of maturity.So,a good hearted person to me may not be the same for you.So,look at the person and if he have some appealing looks then take them.Cheers!
• India
4 Jul 09
Well what you have said is correct. But my point is in order to find out the beauty of her/his heart you don't need to be in a relationship right. You can just do it by the way they behave. It is the physical beauty that attracts first but in long run it is the beauty if the heart that dominates... What do you say???
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@srganesh (6340)
• India
5 Jul 09
But we fall in love just with the physical appearance first.Love is always like that.You can't wait to judge their character.Then it will be mere calculations and just making use of people in the name of love.A real love accepts people with all qualities.Yes,in the long run heart rules a relationship.But the start is always physical.Cheers!
• United States
2 Jul 09
I think at first when I am interested in someone it has to be based on an attraction. But after the fact me getting along with the person is way more imporant than what they look like. Now if you were to ask me would I date a ugly person I would say NO, but to me everyone has a good feature of some sort beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Take care and happy mylotting to you.
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• India
3 Jul 09
Very well put up. Just the same thing that happened in my case. take Care.
@tjades (3591)
• Jamaica
2 Jul 09
Oh if I could have them both that would be super!!!! If there was a choice then it would be bye bye Mr sexy body. My true happiness is worth far more than anyones sexiness.
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• India
3 Jul 09
Well done buddy.
@orochi (318)
• Denmark
2 Jul 09
why not both? That would be a real clincher allthough something like that only happens in 1 out of 100.000.000.000 cases. Shame :( well i wouldnt be with a girl who just used me for her own good but i wouldnt be with a girl with the face of a whitch (no offence). Well id rather see the girl as just ok good looking and still be a kind and carering person who isnt too fat. Now that will be a dreamy girl :) oh well take care
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• India
3 Jul 09
perfect man you are correct and you haven't told anything wrong.
@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
2 Jul 09
Goodhearted persons are most likely the type of persons we'd like to share life with. Good looks and sexy body however please others never minding what kind of attitude their future life partner may have. Only later they would realize they should have preferred those who were kindhearted. Cheers to those who never have a second thought of choosing the true hearted people.
• India
3 Jul 09
Ya that's a cool answer well i feel this so lets have it "everyone here in My lot : Three Cheers to the once who have chosen the once who care them the most rather than the people with good looks as a life partner without giving a second thought." .
• India
2 Jul 09
Even if a good hearted person has average body... i will definately choose her... after all its the heart that matters the most...
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• India
3 Jul 09
Perfect brother...
@doryvien (2284)
• United States
2 Jul 09
Can't we just be lucky and have both? Okay, I have to choose. I'd go for the good hearted person because if I can convince him to work hard to look good, then there is a chance that he will be sexy and have both qualities, right? But for the sexy body that doesn't have a good heart, there is a slim chance that he will eventually have a good heart, because inner qualities are more difficult to change.
• India
3 Jul 09
WOW i am also waiting for that miracle to happen in my life.. Lets see what happens..
• Philippines
2 Jul 09
sorry. this is a barbaric question. of course i choose good hearted person.
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• India
3 Jul 09
that's is the easiest answer.
• India
2 Jul 09
It would be so great if one gets a combination of both....:) But if we don't I prefer a person with a good heart. The reason being is the sexy body will get lost some day but the heart remains.And more I would not want a show piece (sexy body) as my companion but a real person (with love, passion and a bit of jealousy [lol]). I want someone who can embrace me, pamper me. But a sexy body would pamper himself rather than me.LOL! So a beautiful heart rocks for me!
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• India
3 Jul 09
Well Said Megha.. Just more than what i expected.. Every body think like this but i am not sure how many of you girls do that in real life, Because i have seen many girls telling this but doing it the other way round and i felt bad. Anyways your answer rocks just like you.. Take Care. Keep Smiling.
@KawaiiInu (143)
• Uruguay
2 Jul 09
Definitely Good Hearted Person, the body is not the most importan thing, but the Soul is.
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• India
3 Jul 09
Correct. I have seen my soul mate but still waiting for her approval. What about you???
@jellymonty (2352)
1 Jul 09
Well thats a funny question! In my case in order for me to even notice somebody they have to catch my attention and physical appearance is usually the first thing I see. Now physical appearance may not fully tell me what the person is about but chances are that I will be interested in that person if they were physically good looking. And also depends what I'm after.. sometimes I just want a good looking hunk for me to drool over.. but other times I want a good hearted person. It really does depend on the current circumstance. At the moment I'm single and not looking for any life partner as am happy with just being me. (been so for the past six years) So during my happy phase if I look at someone, it will definitely be the physical aspect that I will be after. When the time comes for me to look for someone I can settle down with then the good heart takes more priority than the physical part.
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• India
1 Jul 09
Well i liked your frankness and it is really nice because your answer is completely different from the rest. Lets hope that you will find you requirement well and soon. .
• Malaysia
1 Jul 09
A good heart person is the ultimate choices. When you fell in love with that good person, you'll soon realize she is beautiful in your eyes or he is charming.
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• India
1 Jul 09
Well buddy you are 100% correct because if you feel that she/he is perfect when and if she/he is really good at heart then you will find them really beautiful/charming. The way you interpreted it is mind blowing. I guess you already experienced such a feel... Am i correct???
@marguicha (222974)
• Chile
2 Jul 09
If you don´t mind, I´d rather have both. I had a wise and generous husband that was also VERY sexy. As for friends, I prefer a good heart person, a witty one, intelligent also. Fortunatly, I have that kind of friends too. I must have done something really nice in another life. I´m sure I don´t deserve themTake care
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• India
3 Jul 09
hey buddy its not because you have done something in your previous life or some thing, let me tell you one thing that what ever you have done show in your relationship with others no matter weather it is a husband or a bunch of friends. But it does show out. So if all are really good to you then it means that you are nice to them. Take Care.
• United States
1 Jul 09
Inner beauty is important.the outward appearance fades away in no time
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• India
3 Jul 09
correct.
@voldrox (7191)
• India
1 Jul 09
as boys turn to men and girls to women, it comes naturally for them to have more attraction towards the appealing ones, this is just an attraction, but in the end what matters is how the person actually is, I have seen many people out there flaunting their gorgeous bodies and their handsome looks, but they give no damn to anyone, they are more to themselves and sometimes look down upon others, would you want to spend your life with such a person, i am not trying to be a stereotype here, i believe there are people out here who are both good looking and have big hearts but, the heart is what comes first in the priority list, it is something which will always make you feel special when you are with the right kind of person, and the good hearted ones are the ones who will be always there for you... as my friend here says, with time the body will get old but the heart never goes old, you have it for life.
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• India
1 Jul 09
Your point is accepted universally as it is the attraction or lust that comes first to every one and if you can sustain yourself and overcome that attraction then you will really find your soul mate and that person will surely make your life beautiful. That is what i think.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
1 Jul 09
physical attraction is a common and natural feeling of gesture...an admiration,but as the saying goes " never judge anyone from outside looks " it is too hard to determine who's holding a good heart...a physically beautiful person or a simple one?it doesn't mean that all pretty people are not good hearted and simple people are the good ones...it takes time to discover the inner being of one person...it is time tested to proved who's one and who's not good in and out.
• India
1 Jul 09
Ya buddy you just reminded me about the saying that never judge a book by its cover just like that never judge a person by his looks etc and it sis a true philosophy of life.