when you see a person staring at your boobs

@tigeraunt (6326)
Philippines
July 6, 2009 8:14am CST
what do you feel? what if you do not know him at all? would you feel annoyed, or angry, or disgusted? how will you react when you catch a guy looking at your boobs like he's taking your blouse just by looking at it?
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@geniustiger (1694)
• Philippines
7 Jul 09
HMMMMMMMM! Hello tigeraunt! If I'm the one that he stared at , I will continue on walking as I dont see anything watching me or looking at me. It means that man attracted to your personal or physical beauty. But be careful of it , might be tend him to do something not good to you. Avoid that man, ignore and dont stare back to him. Be quiet and go on of what you go to. Some men like that and thats their part of enjoyinh themself. Not all ha.
• United States
8 Jul 09
Hi Ann. I have some mixed feelings, actually. I think it depends on the man's attitude. A quick look and smile, but no nasty remarks, can be rather flattering. Lude, long stares, and rude remarks DO bother me. I will usually give the person a pointed "look" of disapproval and walk away. If I am alone and this happens, I quickly go to where there are others, just in case the man has ill intentions. A good discussion! Karen
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
8 Jul 09
that's cool advise, geniustiger. let them stare. thank you so much for the response. happy MyLotting. ann
• Philippines
24 Jul 09
I will feel either annoyed or amused.I have a generous pair of boobs.some guys,especially when I'm wearing a top with low neckline,will look into my cleavage with a look that says,"well those are nice" but not in a sexist,maniac way.I don't like it if they look like they wanna rip my clothes off just to look at my pair.
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
24 Jul 09
hi coco, women knows an admiring way and the sexist way. the first one makes us proud but the second one is so annoying. thank you for your response. ann
6 Jul 09
Hi tigeraunt, I just tell him nicely that he would get blind stareing and call him a dirty so and so and walk off. Tamara
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
8 Jul 09
hi tamara, that would be scary. maybe if i do that, i will have to be ready with my peppermint spray just in case he does something else after i call him names before i could walk off. thank you so much for responding. ann
• United States
7 Jul 09
It doesn't bother me. *shrug* Most of the things that guys do that make girls call them pigs or dogs or whatever are just amusing to me. I think it's probably because all my life I have been more comfortable around guys than I am around other girls. So in spending most of my time as "one of the guys," I have learned that there really is no logic or reasoning behind behavior like talking to a girl's boobs, it's just a hormonal thing, half the time they don't even realize they're doing it. I've really only had one guy be blatantly obvious about it. Most guys can get away with talking to my chest because they are 9 times out of 10 a whole head and shoulders taller than me so they have to look down to talk to me anyway, what's a few inches between looking at my face and looking at my chest? But one time I was sitting on a high stool which put me almost face to face with one of my guy friends so when he practically rested his chin on his chest in order to tell my cleavage that I was looking "very nice tonight," all I could do was laugh at him. I couldn't even find the motivation to pretend I was angry or disgusted by his behavior.
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
8 Jul 09
i guess that's a good thing - not to be bothered. i wish all girls could be as calm as you are. the experience with your guy friend was kind of naughty yet funny too. thank you for sharing. ann
@lulu1220 (1006)
• United States
7 Jul 09
I don't mind too much but sometimes it makes me uncomfortable. I guess it depends on if it is a quick look or a long starre. It also depends on the shirt/blouse I am wearing. The one I am wearing today is tighter than most of mine and I have noticed some looking at me. In a way I am flattered and in another I am a little uneasy, but not too much.
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
8 Jul 09
an admiring stare can really be flattering. boosts your self esteem.. also sometimes it could also be uncomfortable. thank you so much for the response. cheers. ann
@jemxxx (48)
• Philippines
6 Jul 09
That is really annoying! In my country, that act seldom happens. We respect each other. But if someone stares at my boobs that gives a weird look at his face. That would disgust me. But if a woman looks at it, well that would only mean two things. Either she's insecure or she's a lesbian :)
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
8 Jul 09
i agree that sometimes it could be annoying. but how will you react to it, jemxx? would you be kinda physical, or would you be angry and face him point blank? or will you just let it pass? am sure its a hard to decide situation. hahaha. thank you for responding jem.
• India
17 Mar 10
Hello i have seen one woman thrashing a guy using her sandal, the guy was not only staring at her boobs but winked at her, for your information this woman was decently dressed in saree and blouse as our indian women do Bhuwan