What are the things you love in yourself?
By vijayanths
@vijayanths (7877)
India
July 6, 2009 11:24am CST
it could be your eyes, your writing skill or anything for that matter. Similarly what are the things you hate in yourself?
again it could be something in your body or any quality.
14 responses
@cheekysuze (254)
• United States
6 Jul 09
I love my eyes and my willingness to laugh. I even love my ability to recall strange and random facts, however inappropriately.
Stuff I don't like? My abs. After having kids, I have a pooch. And my lack of confidence. I can talk myself out of most anything. I'm working on changing that though. You can't be happy if you don't take chances!
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
6 Jul 09
eyes and laughter are worth to be loved.
Be confident friend, always. Your eyes should show your confidence.
@LovingLife139 (1504)
• United States
6 Jul 09
Your willingness to laugh...I love it! Laughter is something that attracts me to people. People who are willing to laugh at themselves rather than shy away when embarrassed...people who are willing to have fun just by living. :) Laughter really is the best kind of medicine, and I don't think people do it enough. Keep laughing! :)
@clutterbug (1051)
• United States
6 Jul 09
I love that I have an ability to express myself satisfactorily with words. Also that I am loyal when it comes to keeping secrets that someones asks me not to tell. The secrets will go to my grave. What I dislike about myself is that I sometimes push myself too hard physically and mentally (my own fault), which often leaves me drained to the point of giving up a certain activity for awhile. I dislike my unruly hair at times, it is very thick and can drive me nuts. I'm thankful for the days when I can tame it, especially when it isn't raining and humid out.
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@vijayanths (7877)
• India
6 Jul 09
hahaha, nice response from you clutterbug. I do agree with you that you express yourself so nicely.Good to know that you keep secrets. No need to push yourself too hard. Learn to to be cool and take things easy.(It is not an advice but a friendly suggestion)
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@LovingLife139 (1504)
• United States
6 Jul 09
That is a rare quality you have! Loyalty and the ability to keep things to yourself that aren't yours to tell are so admirable to me. Too many people don't understand how trust works and then don't know why no one gives them their trust. I bet you have a lot of people who truly feel safe with you. Keep that up.
As for your hair...so many people don't like thick and unruly hair, but I for one think it's pretty on both men and women, and it's very individualistic. :) Plus, at least you have a lot of hair rather than too little hair.
@ds6413 (2070)
• United States
6 Jul 09
Hello vijayanths, personnaly I have heard my voice is nice. Last week I recorded in English a drop for a DJ in Los Angeles to play in his club. He requested I record for him more than one time and I don't mind doing it.I have at least one fan.He lets me do a live music broadcast out of my home but I concentrate on what music I will play other than speaking.
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@vijayanths (7877)
• India
6 Jul 09
hello da, it is so nice to have a sweet voice. It attracts many people to us. it is an asset too.
@substance (585)
• India
6 Jul 09
Something I like about myself is that I don't judge others, i am helpful, and caring.
The things i don't like about myself is my habits of getting up late in the mornings, too emotional sometimes, want to have my own way sometimes, ...
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
6 Jul 09
Not involving in others matters is good. Getting up late is not a bad habit if it suits your work and life.
@jules67 (2788)
• Philippines
6 Jul 09
I am mostly admired by my eyes. I guess they see something beautiful in it. Some say that it is soulful. I dared to stare at my eyes, and yes, it is good. One thing I value about myself is my being sincere in my dealings, whether it be friendship or not.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
6 Jul 09
I just visited your profile to look at your beautiful eyes. sincerity in love and friendship is even more beautiful than anything.
@uloveteja (41)
• India
6 Jul 09
I love the way i respond to elders when i meet them.., and i love the way i treat my friends with loads of efection and love..,and finally i love the way i am..
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@vijayanths (7877)
• India
6 Jul 09
I love the way you lve others uloveteja. You have love in your mylot name.
@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
18 Aug 09
The things I love about me is my love for my family. I love them more than myself. I can breathe normally if we don't have problems, but I am like dying when we have misunderstanding. I do everything just for my family. I am living because of them. I am true weak inside but on the external I tried to be strong for my family. That is why I always pray for our family to be strong in times of conflict. I also easy to forgive but not easy to forget. On the other side, what I hate about myself which I try to change now is being a drama queen. When I have problems I complain first before respond. I am trying to change now, because that is very negative.
@eshaan (6188)
• India
18 Jul 09
again ...... the matter about yourself is missing...first tell about yours....about myself, i like my disciplined nature but also sensitive at the same time, at work strict and disciplined and after that wax...which melts very easily....about skills..people say i am good cook, children admire me.....but i get irritated very easily...maybe due to my hectic schedule, i get very tired at times, and so..also forex creates many tensions....but i shout for a moment and forget the next moment this is my good quality...i dont keep things in mind.....very straight forward...so may hurt some people at times, but have to be otherwise it creates problems later ...now we would like to know something about u
@mrakobesie (1246)
• United States
7 Jul 09
there is one quality that i both love and hate about myself... i am very open hearted, i love giving and never ask for anything back. i love it because it draws people to me and because i help others, i hate it because every now and then it attracts people who want to abuse it.other then that, i love everything about me, i'm perfect :D
@raghul77ster (2132)
• India
7 Jul 09
"He who loves oneself has no rivals"
Yes, we ought to love The Divine within us to win the game of life !!
I was much surprised when my school teacher asked me this question when i was in standard 4. I replied no.
Then she asked me "How you can love others, if you don't love yourself?"
I really dint know what point she was talking about that time.
Loving ourself is completely different than loving someone else.
To my knowledge, I have given up taking anything bad often but take on certain occasions for only reason that I am still fighting against my own evils.
I really proud of myself for few things especially.
1. For the tragic story of my Life from the start
2. The winnings I obtained after accepting the challenges
3. Finally, Being a stampede wrestler, I never injured any of my opponent as well
as soft characterized in nature.
4. I had never lied to my workers, or even schoolmates, since i matured.
The possibilities of talking lies is very low for me. On that way, I love myself.
I love and care the one who loves me.
Have a nice time!
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
7 Jul 09
well, what i like about myself is also what other people likes on me...they say i am a cheerful person and have a very nice smile...this is one of my quality i like most, i always have a smile to everyone and i think i can easily adapt in the environment i am into...and i also like my devotion to my family and lots of things i like about myself...
what i do not like about me is that sometimes, i am really a lazy girl! hahaha and very transparent on my feelings...well that's all that i can think about right now...
have a nice day!
i also like myself being active in our church and have fear on God...
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
6 Jul 09
great shekhar. But don't you have anything that you dislike in you?
You are very lucky then,lol.
I salute your parents for your values.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
6 Jul 09
im a person that can be your good friend but can be your worst enemy =)) (just kidding ) but honestly,i hate liars,coz im a very transparent person,i don't hide my feelings,in love,friends,family,im not very vocal with it,but u can feel it thru my deeds.
one thing you will not like about me is,when u betrayed me,i can easily forgive but you can never win me or my trust the same way as it is before.and i even don't like it,but,what can i do...
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
6 Jul 09
I am exactly like you in a way that I will be your best friend if you are good to me and will be your worst enemy if you are against me. Now I am trying my best to forgive the people who did harm to me and forget their deeds.
If you are so good I won't bertray you.If I do it is good that you don't love me as before because I deserve that punishment (this you game is nice)
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
6 Jul 09
please don't stare at me , I seem to keep falling d
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because I am a libran. hahahahaha.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
6 Jul 09
and...i want to add..according to astrology =)) hahaha...scorpion eyes are domineering ...maybe ...that's why i don't stare to everybody...coz' they will surely fall in love in it ...joke lolzzzzzzz
@LovingLife139 (1504)
• United States
6 Jul 09
Wow, you have great ideas for posts!
Physically, my smile is my favorite part of myself. People have told me that my smile can bright up a room, and I tend to agree looking back at pictures. It's one of those contagious, cheery smiles.
Personality-wise, I love my optimism and my ability to cheer up the mood of any group of people. I love that I'm a good listener, and not only that, but I truly care about what people have to say. I think that's a rare quality that I actually have.
Skill and hobby wise, I love my creative abilities and how they show in my relationships (I make my husband a lot of anniversary gifts, for example, which made the gifts much more personal). My creativity also leads me to write stories that actually are quite good, draw beautiful pictures, and even think of new things to do.
I don't really hate anything about myself. There are things I could be better at, and things I can improve. Most of them are just little things like how I'm bad at getting back to people who leave messages, and none of them are bad enough to cause hate to stir within myself.
What about you, vijayanths? You come up with all these great discussion ideas, and I want to hear your opinion! :)