Not aring about other peoples opinion abotu nyou

I don't know what people can do to not care what others think about the way they might look. I do care some times but most of the times I really don't all I would care is if I'm comfortable. The only times that I might care is when I'm expected to look good for a weading or some important party and also for an important meatting. But for everyday things or a small party I really don't care because what I think is that everybody is always going to judge the way we look and that is great because that tells us that we are important. Those people are taking times from their life to talk about mus and that is great. Happy mylotting

Hi. :) Not caring what other people think, for me, started with accepting myself for who I was. If you accept yourself, it doesn't matter if others do--you are enough for you. If you know that other people are talking about you or don't especially like you, why does it matter? Don't let other opinions push you down from where you should be. If I like the clothes I am wearing, for example, why does it matter that someone else doesn't? No matter what you wear, what you say, who you are, there is going to be at least one person in the world that doesn't approve. That's the way life works...once I accepted both that and myself, others' opinions didn't matter any longer. Who cares what they think? This is my life. :)

I can't answer what you should do, but here's what I did: I became a mother. I became sleep deprived and overworked, and got tired of obsessing over the spit-up, etc. Viola, I no longer cared what people thought about my clothes. Having said that, nothing makes me feel better than actually dressing up and knowing I will not look like a frumpy Mom. :- )