After many failure, would you likely to give it up?
By clorissa123
@clorissa123 (4926)
United States
July 6, 2009 8:38pm CST
I think that is a common sense, and sometimes, we just afraid to fail again. If you tried to win over the love of someone, after many tries, she still not fall for your true love. Would you more likely to give it up, after many rejections and disappointments? For me, I probably will give it up after 3 strikes. That is common sense for me. And I just won't want to be ashamed myself again in such situation. What do you think?
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6 responses
@cheekysuze (254)
• United States
7 Jul 09
I would probably give up after awhile. If she didn't come around and realize what a great person I am, she doesn't deserve me. It's better to move on and be happy than to pine for someone and be alone. JMO.
@adam1980 (516)
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7 Jul 09
if you realy want somethingbadly enough and truley believe it is the right thing for you and will make you happy never give up trying, do you think that pepople got where they are today in good paid jobs and with the love of there lives by chance no it was all down to never giving up no matter what it takes or how long
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@meetvivek (226)
• India
7 Jul 09
It is just normal to give up after many rejections and disappointments but that is the real time when one can show his\her true character and just hold on to hope.
Anyone can give up ,it's the easiest thing in the world to do.But to hold it together when everyone around you thinks that you fell apart is true strength.
It's not whether you get knocked down.It's whether you get up again
@dawnymarie (15)
• United States
8 Jul 09
I think you should let your heart tell you when to give up. For some it may be after the first rejection, for others it may take several rejects. Then you have people like me who will move on but will always think something may happen in the future.
@thebox2 (15)
• United States
9 Jul 09
Give Up!? Are you nuts my friend? Look anything worth having is worth working for. Three try's is it? Honey Rome didn't get built in a day, and nither did love. If you think you might be attracted to someone, I guess the safe bet is to wait untill they seem interested....But I have never done safe. Look find out a little about the person, their interest, how they behave, what do they seem to really get excited about.... then see if it fits any of your parts, the what makes you, you, stuff. take it from that aspect. Do a little homework, and yes get to know them. Youd be surprised at how attactive you seem, when you manage to light someone else's feelings up! (cause you seem to get along so well with them) So do try more than three times, don't keep track ok