When a family member is getting married for 3rd time do you need to give a gift?

I personally wouldnt see the need to get them anything this time around unless you want too. Im sorry but for me it is for people starting out more then not. At this rate they should be happy people are coming over and over to see them once again get married. If you must or feel you must how about a card with a 20 in it?

Gift for third time marriage is a little bit over according to me and I never appreciate such a kind of things. In my country even if you are married for the second time it is quite uncommon in our society. If it is a third time marriage, i would never mind even to attend the function. Hence thers is aqbsolutely no chances of Gifting those couples even with a small Key chain. But these kind of things are common in Some of the European and American societies I suppose.

I could be wrong but the way I see it is you don't have to give them anything if you don't want to. Gifts are not mandatory no matter if you are invited or not, there is no written law or rule saying you need to gift another..the only thing that might come of it is that your friend gets upset. I think it is fair though that if you have gifted her before and she is remarrying the same person that a card is plenty good enough.

Are you serious? well i don't think they get married just for getting the gifts. but if they really earn a lot from that and constantly get married and devorcing then it might be suspicious -.-

i first time heard of same people married for 3 times, good news for them, perhaps this would be the last time. I think you should give them a gift, after all, it still a wedding party, and you are invited. but, may be you can give something meaningful but not expensive. how about a book ?

That's a toughy! I haven't been in this situation before, but maybe you could make something for them? A collage of the two of them together in an artsy homemade frame? Pottery from one of those places you can decorate yourself? I'm assuming they have everything already, so you don't need to do anything extravagant. I'm interested to see what other people have to say about this. Good luck!

I would go for something funny - like a ball and chain and a big padlock! Something to keep them together. Do you have a local tradition of a 'bride price' or dowry? I went to a friends wedding and he was from Rhodesia where you have to pay the bride's father 'lobola' for his daughter, usually in cattle and goats. At the reception they had a pantomime 'cow' costume rampaging through the tables of guests! Quite a hoot! I hope it all goes well

Well I most likely wouldn't get them a toaster or something, lol. I think getting a gift still shows your appreciation and love. I suggest just getting a trinket. Something small, maybe even a basket with some goodies in it, like chocolate, or baked goods. Or a basket to spice up the honeymoon. Chances are she probably has gifts from her previous marriages from you in her house

wow, they dissed the first gift? Regardless of weather they liked it or not they should have appreciated the time and effort that went into making it. I wouldn't do much more that a card. Maybe a gift certificate for a nice dinner or a favorite store of theirs?