Do you prefer single or married life??
By shia88
@shia88 (4571)
Malaysia
July 8, 2009 12:29pm CST
Single life is full of freedom and frankly speaking, I miss my single life moments...whereby I can go to any places I want,no full responsibility.
Once get married, my life has changed,full of responsibility and once stay with PIL,become more inflexible,can't have freedoom anymore. Totally another life for me...So how about you guys?
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9 responses
@rmorefield (941)
• United States
8 Jul 09
I totally miss my married life. I miss having someone to share my children's milestones with. I miss having someone to hold me at the end of the day and tell me that everything will be alright. I miss having someone to share those intimate moments with. I miss having someone to joke with. I miss my husband terribly.
@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
28 Sep 09
Hey,
Well to tell you the truth, I like being single because you are really free, it is quite good because you can do anything you want. But on the other hand, it isn't that good, because you have no partner. I prefer being married though. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
29 Sep 09
Hi Eliteuser,
Married life and single life has its pros and cons.
Being single is good,in the sense that you have more freedom,you can just fly here and there without need to get someone permission,not much responsibility.
After married, the life is totlly different,no more freedom,have to respect your spouse.However, you will always have someone at your side to share your sadness and happiness. That kind of feeling is undescribable.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
21 Sep 09
Hello shia. I prefer my married life as I have more responsibilites for my family and I love to take the responsibilities as the backbone in the family. I think that life is more fulfilling to me with the building of my family after getting married though we can enjoy more free time and don't have so many responsibilites if we are single...
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
28 Sep 09
HI William,
Glad to hear that you enjoy your married life,it is a blessing to have a happy family,being a father for our kids and being a husband for your wife.
Of course, single life has more fredom and don't have so many responsibility,we can go whereever we want.However,married life also has the advantages,we have someone at our side to share our sadness and happiness.After having a kid, that is the most exciting part, we can play with them.See their smiles make our life happier forever !
@vingyan06 (2486)
• Malaysia
16 Jul 09
Me too miss my single life. My single life is more simple and freely compare my married life. Now I have married for 4 years and I have 2 babies with me. My life now is more delightful and I am happy to watch my 2 babies grow up everyday. I am so proud of being a mother !
@Rodlkm (123)
• Malaysia
15 Jul 09
Being single has it's advantages that I still do miss. Living life without a care in the world except yourself. Being able to make decision on the spot without worrying how your partner or family will be affected is definitely fun. Pick up the bag and you are on the road with your buddies. Stop when and where you like. However, married life comes with a whole lot of different beauty. The joy of having someone whom you know loves you and will even give her life for you. The joy of knowing that she will be there no matter what. And above all, the little angel that cuddles up to you at night, gave his little yawn and then snuggles into your arms and continue his beauty sleep. Those moments are priceless. So, I do miss my single life but I am loving every minute of my married life.
@tonyllenium (6252)
• Italy
8 Jul 09
i think they cna be ok both so in many cases it depends from various things!!i think married life it would be nice but surely it depends from wife and so also behaviour and relationship status..single is ok that you have much freedom but may be in some moments you need also a person on who you can count in life too!!So i think n both cases have positive and negative aspects..in many cases depends from different people,situations ,lives...
@clutterbug (1051)
• United States
8 Jul 09
I prefer to be married, I have a great husband. I have been truly blessed. There are so many guys today who aren't serious, but they only want to shack up, and that's okay for them, but I like to be married. My mother-in-law lives many states away, so she doesn't live with us (yet).
@celineml (126)
• Malaysia
30 Oct 09
Me also more miss my single life, full freedom and frankly speaking. But after my married is still ok now. But me no stay with hubby and me stay with my father and mother. Because me dun like stay with PIL. For me better is stay own house is more perfer and also got freedom. If stay with PIL than nice also will become no nice too.Because we stay with PIL must will get the thing no good for we. Like no ngam feel thing or talk thing. Than we hubby also hard to make people because when we angry with PIL or PIL no like we talk what. Than hubby also dun know want help who, one is own father and one is own wife. So for me more good is stay at own house or own mother they.
