Rodlkm

@Rodlkm (123)

Malaysia • Age 61

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Rodlkm's Activity

Lost our two months' embryo!!!

tonytt2009 @tonytt2009 (1706) • China 31 Jul 09

Don't konw how to express my feeling now,our baby last week when I have saw many of mylotters said congrat to me in my last post~ Maybe the window period,many many issues~bad mood,working stress~I don't know,we just found our...

embryo

lost

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Rodlkm Hi friend. So sorry to hear that. I have gone through 2 times with my ex. I can understand how it felt. The only thing you could do now is to be there for each other, knowing that no matter what happen, you still have each other and the love for each other....

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do you like cooking

xiaowen187 @xiaowen187 (426) • China 27 Jul 09

before i have my present boyfriend, i nearly know nothing about cooking ,but after i made friends with my present boyfriend, i become to be willing to learn how to make delicious food, and now, i do it well, as well as my...

cooking

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Rodlkm Just like you, I dont' cook until I met my wife. The only thing I could cook then was to probably fry an egg. Since we married, I have develop an interest to cook and try out new recipes for her. And to my surprise, cooking is actually not difficult at all and...

29 Jul 09

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is it necessary to be a good cook if you will be a wife.??

janebeth @janebeth (2032) • Philippines 27 Jul 09

hi friends, i just want to know your side if is it really necessary to be a good cook in terms of married life.. me myself, i can't really cook so good..!! i cook but not that in high standards food like in a restaurants.. i...

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Rodlkm It will be good if you can cook but I certainly don't think that that is the most important criteria to make a good wife. I don't marry a woman just to want her to cook and wash for me. For that, I could easily hire a live-in helper, eat out at a restaurant or...

29 Jul 09

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A Baby Member

reanaclaire @reanaclaire (101) • Malaysia 29 Jul 09

My name is Reana and a "newborn" baby in myLot. This is my first topic and I hope to get more information about how and what I should do. Let me get to the point, which pays more, to be actively involved in commenting or starting...

mylot

new member

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Rodlkm Hi Reana. Daddy from babynme here. Welcome to myLot. I'm also learning and have been just posting comments on other people's discussion. It seemed I get to earn approximately USD0.01 for every comment post but I am still uncertain as to how it works. Of...

29 Jul 09

What is the cutest thing your child has done this week.

dorannmwin @dorannmwin (36392) • United States 26 Jul 09

We so often get involved in the negative things that go on in our life that we forget about the simple pleasures of childhood. So I thought I would start a fun conversation. What is the cutest thing that your child has done this...

cute

funny

kids

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Rodlkm My son has just turned one. The latest thing that he has picked up this week is putting anything that he picks up and put it against his ear as if it were his handphone. So, everytime, we wanted him to do that, all we have to is to say "Hello!" and he would...

29 Jul 09

Traffic Light - Red means STOP, Green means GO, what does YELLOW meant to YOU?

Katak @submerryn (1304) • Malaysia 28 Jul 09

My 2 year old boy loves car ride. Each time we come to a traffic light, he'll say STOP if the light is Red, or GO if the light is Green. However, we have yet to explain to him what the Yellow light meant. By right, the yellow...

traffic light

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Rodlkm You asked a very good question. For me, it's hard on the accelerator if the light has just changed and see whether I could beat it, especially if I'm driving alone. On the other hand, if my family is with me, then it's easing on the accelerator and getting...

29 Jul 09

Any plan for holiday?? Which country will you visit?

shia88 @shia88 (4571) • Malaysia 20 Jul 09

Talk about holiday, I can't wait till December. I will always have a short holiday in December with my husband and my boy. We will stopby either Kuala Lumpur or Singapore ,before going back to my hometown(Indonesia).So for the...

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Rodlkm The A(H1N1) virus has certainly wrecked up our holiday plans. I was supposed to go Atlanta and San Francisco last week but had to cancel them all. For now, we will probably stay at home and wait it out. We are currently talking of a local holiday and the one...

29 Jul 09

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Do you blog?

kharen @kharen (1488) • Philippines 28 Jul 09

Or you end up getting exhausted from less than 10 posts because you know that nobody read your blog for no one leave any comments on your posts? But if you do blog? What blogsite do you use? I have two blogs. One is an...

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Rodlkm I've been blogging for about a year now. Started when my baby boy arrived. It's a blog on blogsite where I expresses my adventure, nightmare, joy and pain of parenthood as well as my life being a father. I'm glad to say that I've make quite a number of friends...

29 Jul 09

Am i too restrictive as a girlfriend?

abbypringles @abbypringles (1613) • Philippines 23 Jul 09

Recently, my boyf has been making mention about wanting to have a piercing on one of his ears. and i avert such things, you know guys wearing piercings or tattoos. So, i readily protested to that idea. He did comply though and...

boyfriend

relationship

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Rodlkm We all have dreams and it is important that we support each other in our dreams. In my opinion, if what he wants to do does not in any way hurts you, him or anyone else, you should let him pursue what he wants. Piercing is fad. It will pass. Discussing the...

23 Jul 09

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If your bf/gf tells you I need space, what does it mean to you?

n30wing @n30wing (4767) • Philippines 23 Jul 09

Well I'll just think she wants to find her self and answer all the question she is the one who could only answer. Busy with her work and want to focus with it first, and just don't want to be disturb, but splitting up I don't...

space and time

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Rodlkm To me, it meant that she need some breathing space from the relationship, maybe to reconsider, re-evaluate the relationship itself. It could also be that you have been too possessive, leaving her little room to do her own things, be with her own friends and...

23 Jul 09

Do you think money ruins friendship?

incredibleDNA @incredibleDNA (1742) • Philippines 21 Jul 09

Any fixed amount of money doesn't if it is real friendship. On the other hand, an ongoing business will eventually ruin any friendship, especially in these days. This will always be true if this business partnership was based...

friends

money

money ruins friendship

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Rodlkm In my opinion, money can ruin a good friendship especially if the ground rules and expectations are not set when going into a joint business venture. They said `Money is the root of all evil'. And I believe that we must never let money to become an issue and...

22 Jul 09

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Can you use chopsticks well?

colydf @colydf (913) • China 13 Jul 09

I think maybe for someone, it is really hard to use chopsticks. I am a Chinese, and I have been used chopsticks for about twenty-one years, while a few days ago, someone told me I use chopsticks in a wrong way. I think it is quite...

china

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Rodlkm I am Chinese too but unfortunately I was told that I have been using the chopstick incorrectly too. Anyway, I was brought up in a family that uses spoon and fork. No one has actually taught me how to hold the chopstick correctly. So, as long as I can get my...

22 Jul 09

Do you fear the height ????

busky5 @busky5 (3164) • Thailand 21 Jul 09

For me i feel fear everytime when i must stay the high building.I began when i was young until now.I will avoid to stay on the high place. So i don't like to go by planes because this reason. Do you think the scary...

life

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Rodlkm Yupe. Absolutely. I am fine in tall buildings but never ask me to lean over the window and look down. I will feel dizzy with this funny feeling that I'm falling. And if there is no ledge, I will not even want to walk over and have a look no matter how lovely...

22 Jul 09

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chilhood friend....

uellayu @uellayu (22) • United Arab Emirates 22 Jul 09

What would you feel if you see your grade school friend that you haven't seen for almost 2 decades? Well, isn't it funny and exciting to remember those days of ignorance and childish behavior when your still a kid. Sometimes you...

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Rodlkm It is always fun to meet back old class mates and childhood friends. Everytime, we sit down for a cup of coffee, we will be talking about the memories of the time we spent together, the games we played and the tricks we played on others, in particular the...

22 Jul 09

Tattoos Do you have any and where are they?

imsagar @imsagar (40) 22 Jul 09

Do you have one what is it and where. I have one on my upper arm of the emerald city and a purple dragon around it. If you don't have one what kind would you get?

tattoos

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Rodlkm I have no tattoos and I certainly do not intend to get one. However, my view of tattoos over the years have changed and I have learnt to appreciate them as an artform. I was brought up in a society that detest tattoos and associate tattoos with gangs and...

22 Jul 09

Why won't my get it? I am Mom to now...

serenityjuno @serenityjuno (85) • United States 22 Jul 09

I don't get it. This is what my mom tells me the other day durning a argument... "You don't know what its like. Your a Mother not a mom!" Any thoughts on this and what the heck it means?

moms

mother

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Rodlkm Maybe what she is trying to say is that you are only a biological mother to your child but did not behave or have the heart of a MOM (although both the terms to me are similar). I'm not saying you are. Just trying to figure out what she meant when she said...

22 Jul 09

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