Do your husbands still look at you all the time after married and think...--

yeah, i agree with you that men after being in a relationship for a long time forget to keep complimenting their partners. i am not sure why, but this happens in most of the cases. as i male, i can tell you one thing, even though we do no tell it explicitly outside , but within our minds, we say to ourselves ' wow, she is looking great today'. i think we tend to forget to mention that explicitly. maybe,since we are together, we immediately take you in our arms and love you. before marriage, you definitely do not have that liberty always and hence, the need to explicitly mention that. this is just a hunch from me.

i been married for 11 years and my husband still tells me how good i look , don't get me wrong he still looks at other girls all men do it's in there nature . sometimes guys think that we know what they are thinking and that we should know they we look good or pretty to them and they shouldn't have to tell us. try telling him he looks good when he does give him the complents and then just maybe he may give them back to you.tell him that you feel that you don't look pretty tp him any more and that it bothers you and see what happenes.

Well I am not married but if I was in your situation I think it would bother me too. Just out of curiosity, how long have you guys been married? I guess if it has been a long time, that would not be so surprising, as it seems men usually pay the most interest at the beginning. I do think you should speak to him and let him know how you are feeling as it is obviously upsetting you, and understandably so.

I have been with my husband for a long time and yes he does make a comment when i dress up, but i do not do it very often, he is so used to seeing me in jeans and a t-shirt. that when i put on something nice he does notice.

Marriage is the end to love. When I became his own property why do he look at me he can not do that.

I can understand where you are coming from. Guys like myself tend to take things for granted over time. Insensitive you might say, but unfortunately true. The only time guys start telling you that you are pretty is when they have another `agenda' in my mind. I am still trying to constantly remind myself of this same mistake and I guess I do owe my wife many apologies for not reminding her that I love her and that she is pretty, if not prettier than on the day she said `Yes' to me. Thanks for reminding sister.

Yes, I'm happy to say even after all these years of being married that my husband still thinks I'm pretty. In fact he's been calling me beautiful a lot lately, which always makes me feel good. Maybe you shouldn't always dress up for your husband. That way when you do so it might just make it that much more special. Just a thought.

Don't worry mermaid, it is not just your problem alone. It is indeed an Universal problem for women. Yes, men don't praise their women after marriages. It does not mean he is not loving you.It does not mean he does not care for you. he does not express much after marriage. he used to praise you a lot during dating(Infact he would have exaggerated many things) But at the same time you should try your best to stay as attractive as possible. best wishes.

i think your still pretty in your husband outlook...never ever believed that your husband doesn't like you anymore...i know that he is still love you..., maybe he just too much busy and too much things in mind..just keep the communication well and running...communication is the way to keep the relationship strong..

I think this is how many of the guys react once they are married. Your's is not a strange issue. I am lucky that my husband still appreciates me and my dressing. Men give a lot of importance to beauty I think. There are a few women who won't concetrate to maintain the beauty, physic, or dress selection once they are married. It should not happen.

Hello there MermaidIvy! I have been married for two years and for me I can say that were both sweet to each other and I always hear my husband call me hey sexy! or hello my lovely bride even if we are already married , he always say that to me whenever he gets home after work. He buys me clothes that I like to wear and even if he is against makeup, I still can buy it when I ask for it and i can see that what ever makes me feel happy, he does feel happy too. He is the one that asks me whenever i get myself perk up and beautify myself. He is always asking, honey, why are you putting makeup or why are you prettifying yourself for? it is just only me who will look at you, not anyone else. Sometimes I would feel shy when he tells me that. He said that it does not matter if i look pretty or not, he would still love me the same. It really makes my heart grow big whenever he says that and he looks straight into my eyes whenever he speak of it.

i think women are to be blamed when they do not receive such attention from their husbands after some years of marriage and that is because some women do not want to take care of themselves anymore simply because they felt they have arrived in a man's heart and home, so women should continue to look good always and they will receive much more attention from their husbands

My husband loves me very much and his eyes tell a lot. He often say "I love you!".."You are looking so beautiful"..You are so pretty"....all these words are still alive. He still stares me sometimes like a lover boy. He is so romantic person. He is a one woman man full of love and passion. Its been 5 years of our marriage now. He still loves me very much like before. Rather I would say more than that. I am so lucky woman.

Guess we on the same boat! I used to get the sweet nice praises when we newly wed. Nowadays he is like not looking at me at much especially when I want him to give me some nice comments. I'm a lil happy here, coz when he buys me new clothes, he wants me to wear it immediately when we get home and show him if his selection looks pretty on me. Hope keeps doing that forever!

My husband and I have been married 10 years soon to be 11 years.. My husband tells me all the time how pretty and beautiful I am.. I think I look at my worse and he still tells me.. However I don't need for him to tell me this because I know I look good lol I know how he feels about me so like I said I have no need to ask him if I do or don't.. When you said "he would look at me and said I am pretty but not anymore" Are you saying he is telling you your not? If so he has some serious issues.. Cause if this your picture in your avatar than the man is blind... Just saying even if he didn't lol.. I don't think you need a man though to tell you if you are or not, You should know that already and I am sure you do!

i guess i lucked out because even after 21 years of marriage, my hubby still says i am pretty and look nice when i dress up. maybe you should ask him what you can do to make yourself pretty in his eyes again.

Hellomermaidivy, I understand that. My husband rarely says that to me too. In fact he seldoms complimented me when we're courting each other and so, I am again, get used to his attitude. We have been married just like almost five years and the compliments are getting lesser and lesser. It is still alright for me if he doesn't say that I am pretty or beautiful anymore as long as he never sets eyes on other women. I am lucky too that my husband doesn't really look at other women whenever we are outside. Right now, I just want him to praise me more in other aspects like how delicious the food I cook, how good his wife is or how clever I am

Although i am not yet married, but i've heard from the people who married, saying that man are different before married and after married. That makes me afraid of marriage sometimes. But i know people are different, so i still want to believe that there is a man that will love me no matter before marriage or after marriage.. Do be sad, you can try to talk to your husband and tell him your feeling, he might have his own reason

just like you,i also want to be pretty because of my hubby,for me,my hubby and i have lived for 5 years,he also often say yes before he looks at me when i asked him,but he made my a little happy yesterday,he always follow me and want to took photo for me,because he said he found that i am very pretty yesterday,so i am happy he still know to appreciate me.

I have around two years with my husband and everything changed is a drastick way. Before he would also tell me that I look nice or pretty but now I don't even feel like dresing up nice. I guess that I stoped getting all nice and pretty because he stoped carring and so did I. But I actually feel bad because this is really not the way I am but now if I dress better and do my hair and everything he would like it but he would start makig some coments that I don't like because he would end up asking if I am interested in making other guys look at me or something like that.