why do we fall sometimes to people who dont love us?

because we want something we can't have. i hate doing that i always fall for the guys who have no feelings for me. and guys always get the wrong idea of me and like me. its like we look for signs out of everything the person we like do with us. but truly there probably just kidding and being friendly it sucks but thats just life. i hope once we get older things will change. there will not be a chase that we can never win. thats why i say women and men can never be friends....

I was listening to a radio show, I'm pretty sure it was Dr. Laura, and she had a caller who was in a similar situation as yours. Dr. Laura said to the caller: Don't blind yourself because you want to see the happy ending - it's does hurt when someone doesn't feel the same about you as you do them. Anyway, I think this has happened to lots and lots of people.