Cheating? Violence? liars? games?This are not acceptable in a relationship!!!

All those things that you mentioned is unacceptable to me. Forgiving is very different than forgetting and if I were to forgive..I don't think I could let it go. I would kick myself in the rear everyday wondering what was I thinking staying with a jerk like that. There are to many fish in the sea to be worried about one that does any of those things. I am all about working through problems and such but there is a place to draw the line and I am not the type of person to waste my time on such nonsense.

I would not tolerate cheating when it comes to a relationship. If a potential partner cheat he better tell it to my face, before I caught him. Lying everyone is almost guilty of it but not to the point that a partner lies you with a maximum tolerance that you feel dumb. A woman can almost sensor if a partner is loyal and still in love with her when they both honest and always maintain open talk with different topic. It is better to tell in advance if you have a secret and do not try to cover up as sooner or later it will be discover. It is best both partner remain faithful and if commit mistakes as we are only human. It is necessaryto tell the truth than suffer with the consequences.

What is unacceptable in a relationship for me is cheating,violence, and lying. I cannot be with a guy that I can't trust,or that hits me. I think that a relationship can work if both people forgive, forget, and agree to change.

hi icesmile, you are correct cheating, violence,liars and games i do not also accept

Cheating of course. That's a big no-no. Otherwise just end it.

all things you said shouldnt be part of a relationship. if they are just doing a relationship for the sake of fun, they would like to cheat and lie and yes, when angry they become violent with words, and "might" also be physical.. then you better think. get out of it while you can. because its no longer based on respect and love. ann

All the stuff that you mentioned above are things that I will not tolerate in a relationship. Beyond that, I will not tolerate a man trying to control me, and I will not tolerate posessiveness, and dominance. I am my own person, and if he doesn't like that fact, he can go find someone else.

I wont tolerate any of them in my relationship, however I do think that a relationship can come back and work if both parties are honest and work on it if they are in love. I do think that it would take alot of work on both sides thou and they would really need to discuss what went wrong and go from there.

I consdier that in a relationship we should have love, affection, faith, trust, understanding, tolerance, and frankness mutually. There is certain limit for forgiveness and compromises. Cheating, hiding things, telling lies and multiple relationships are not acceptable to me. Happy mylotting

Not acceptable to one relationship are those things that you mentioned at the top, like cheating, violence, liars and games. I hate those kind of people who possess those kind of attitude and i avoiding them.

I don't want any of those, but the one I can't tolerate the most is violence. I have had to withstand some of the other stuff and it was not fun, but I will not allow anyone to hit me or make me afraid to be with them.

Everything that you listed is unacceptable in a relationship.I believe that when you start dating someone that these are things that you look out for to let you know if this person is the one for you or not. I mean the reason for dating is to search for that one person who compliments you that you are willing to spend the rest of your life with.If not then what is the purpose in dating? A relationship and a booty call are two seperate things and people need to evaluate which one they are in. Who wants to spend their lives with a cheat? a liar? an abuser? or anyone who hurts you in anyway.We are all imperfect and tend to make mistakes. That is what forgiveness is for. However if a person hurts you with no regard to your feelings and by this I mean sleeping around or constantly lying to you, then the only option is to get out of that situation.

The best in a relationship is to forget and forgive. Be faith to each other and being a cheater or something else that brought the relationship complicated. There is unacceptable of acceptable relationship. It is depend on both sides, to materialize their relationships. If those deeds is (cheating, lying, violence and any concepts that vitiate the personality of one persons) unacceptable for you. It depend on you...?

I ll never tolerate cheating, in my opinion this is the bad, and a relation will be finished if one of them cheating. Of course that liars and violence are unacceptable in a relation, but in my opinion the bad thing can happened is cheating

I do not think that cheating and lying, or violence ect creates a romantic , loving environment. It is not safe and certainly is not good for the mental health . It is non productive, destructive and a reasonable evaluation says, No. It is not acceptable.

Hi, Ice! There is no room in a relationship for dishonesty of any kind. My husband agrees. His family has a problem with the truth, and they all seem to think you should say what people want to hear instead of whatever the truth is. He often confronts them, but sometimes there is just some eye rolling, and we know we have to check on what they say. For example, his sister's husband left her when she became pregnant, so my niece was raised thinking her mother was her sister and her grandmother was her mother, so she wouldn't be embarrassed by having no father in the picture! She was 15 years old before she found out the truth! We know, if whomever we call isn't home at the time, they may actually be there, but not in the mood to talk to you. Why not just say they'll call back later or something instead of lying? This has made us both very touchy about telling the truth.

Hello Icesmile, I would like to believe that this is not completely true. Sorry for disagreeing but it would depend on the extent of cheating, lying, games and so on. One might do such an act that does not deserve to be forgiven. Sometimes, one might do something that is wrong but is easy to forgive. Thanks and hope we never face such a situation in our relationship.