Talk loudly or too loud in public

I have a few friends that are very loud when ever we are out up the pub,some times i find them very funny where as other times it can be a bit annoying when you are trying to be a bit discrete.As you can think on the terms of you can feel everyone just looking at you.My friends will never be quiet.Happy Mylotting.

well i was going to say maybe she isn;t aware of her own volume because i have to admit i'm like that sometimes and someone just has to tell me that the table across the room just caught wind of what i was talking about i make a conscious effort to tone it down a bit. but maybe your friend has psychological problems, the whole volume up when it comes to men wooing her. it is a confidence booster, after all. maybe you could just show her that men wooing her shouldn't ever be the standard of looking at yourself, or at anyone else. good luck!

That sometimes happen to me too. I really get annoyed and embarrassed when someone I am with talks too loudly in a public place. That is why I try to avoid hanging out with my friends in public who are really really loud. I just don't want to attract unnecessary attention when I am outside. I tried telling a friend of mine to lower her voice. She said okay. So for a few minutes, she talks in a normal voice. But after an hour or so, she just cannot help it. So she talks in a loud voice again. So I just spent as little time as possible with her in public. I know it is bad as a friend, but I just really don't like attracting attention.

I'm the loud one. I have been blessed with a very strong voice. I did work in industry with very loud machinery for many years and it hasn't helped my hearing much. I work in an office now mainly working on the phones. My customers almost never complain about not being able to hear me. My fellow care rep shoots elastics at me whenever she thinks I'm getting too loud. I really do try to keep it from being a problem in public. It does have it's advantages though. Couple weeks ago U-haul screwed up our appointment time. My wife and I played nice customer/angry customer with them. It's amazing what my wife can accomplish being really pleasant when they know that the alternative is dealing with me.

Talikin louldy in public is mannerless.Where ever we are we should maintain some discipline and manners.The other people around came for enjoying.They didnt came to listen your conversation.What they will think if speak loudly .they will think that you illitrate people who dont know manner.You also cam for enjoying enjoy andspeak with low voice.So that otherS dont get disturb.We should bve careful of these thing hwenevr we are in place loke eatries shoping mall and multiplexes.

H, I can actually how embarrassing it is when your friends talks loudly in public. I suggest you show her some sight or someone who behaves like her or which she feels is not to be done in public and make her understand she is also doing more or less the same thing. I hope she will rectify her manner soon.

i have a friend like that UNTIL she had her hearing checked, now everything is alot lower, have her get a test, it doesn't matter how old she is things happen

I have a neighbor who used to work in a textile factory. For the high level of noise in the workshop, she gradually developed her habit of too loud voice. We keep reminding her, but with little effect. The habit is difficult to change. I give up. It is good manners to control your voice, esp in public. The habit needs be developed from childhood.

Well i have to say out of all my friends I'm probably the loudest and they always say shut up or be quiet to me because i say stuff they don't want others to hear i guess but I'm like so what if they hear. I thin sometimes i am quiet, but when i am out in public with friends and what not i can be very loud and i guess i don't notice i am being loud or what not. Well i can say i get this from my mother and her side of the family as we all are very loud and very outgoing people and sometimes we don't mean to say things out loud but it happens and oh well its life and others will get over it.

i don't normally like to talk in public not to say talking loudly because i don't like creating unnecessary attention to myself, i rather keep quiet and watch as things are going on, i don't like people who get too lousy at public events simply because they want everyone to see them

Hi, friend. You are right. This is a case with many people. It is really irritating to have the person shout loud so as to pierce your eardrum. My cousin also talks loud. And the bad thing is that we can not correct them except for just telling them they were loud. Happy Mylotting!!

I have a friend who is like that too. He is so embarassing that not many of us would love to have him as company, especially when we go dining at some fancy and expensive restaurant. We tried to talk to him about it but nothing helps, so the best action to take is to ignore him and leave him out from most our outings unless absolutely necessary.

I used to have a friend like that too. Even my husband does it! If my husband gets aggrivated with someone, he likes to make sure that everyone in the restaurant or wherever we're at can hear him, so he can try and make a huge scene. I always hate it because then everyone looks at you, and its so embarrassing when its not even a big deal what happened, but then hes got to turn it into a big deal, and make himself look like a huge jerk. He normally quiets down when i start to get upset, but still, he should know better to begin with. And my friend likes to talk loud just because she likes the attention. I tell her its not good attention, its people getting annoyed because shes so loud, but she says any attention is good attention, no matter how it comes about.

That would certainly give me an embarrassment as well. It's either i used a head phone and listen to a music at the same time while listening to her, or ask her to meet up in a more solemn place for a few people to hear. i would prefer to sleep or not see her at all if she doesn't tone her voice down. that would really upset other people getting busy with their conversations or their meal.