Why Are Women Passive Partner's In BED?

I dont think this all happens, as without the support, help of female, male cant do anything much comfortably. In starting she might feel shy but after sometime she gives her full cooperation to reach the maximum of pleasure. I just assumed this but i am not sure as i am still virgin. Happy mylotting!

i also agree u r point because now the girls who are all went to job are physically tired .

I am submissive to my boyfriend's domination, but I wouldn't say that I'm passive...I'm always giving him tips to please me, what my likes/dislikes are. Initially, I guess you could say I was a bit passive, and just was there to enjoy the fun, but we've been together over five years now and I've learned to just be myself with him. For me, it was part fear of being misunderstood and part fear of being teased for being too noisy, doing something weird, or just being too loud. I can be aggressive--sometimes it's nice to give your partner a surprise they're not expecting because it really spices things up.

I am wonder for your age is still a virgin. I don't know behind your still a virgin but the point of our discussion is "why women passive in bed"? There is no connection about shyness on the part of the women. There are women that is very aggressive than men when it comes to love making. In the second place. Women in some countries that practices traditions is being the reason of passive of a women. Because they are affected by means of their sulture and it is psycologically impact on their minds...

May be shy or they may afraid that their partner may misunderstand, what you said the reasons are just correct.

I cant speak for everyone. But there is no way I could just lay there. You asre correct men need something more or else they will get very bored. You got to keep it exciting somewhat and just laying there aint gunna cut it. I have heard the same thing. Like ive said b4 everyone is different and I just couldnt be like that.

Hi dear! I think it is due to nature and physical attributes of women that they themselves feel shy to take initiative in the bed. They are not be blamed, it is a very common penomenon. However, once they are into it, they fully take part in the act. Yes, I agree, exceptions are always there.

Are you kidding? Not all women are 'passive' partners in bed lol. Sarcasm makes me want to say that you just know the wrong women - or your friends know the wrong women - or perhaps they have not shared their frustration with these women. Women are not mindreaders, if we don't know something directly, then we just don't know. Anyway, I guess it depends on the mood which partner will be more dominant, but it will differ, from day to day, time to time. That's not necessarily a bad thing, I mean you can always discuss it together to come up with what you both like best!

Im female and im certianly not passive or silent in the bedroom.

Well, I for one am not passive at all. We share in the fun haha. It should be about enjoying each other completely. If the woman doesn't initiate and take some of the actions, well, they aren't getting the full pleasure from the experience. There is nothing wrong with it. Although I will say that women are like that mostly because there is a stigma that goes along with it. She is often called a sl*t or other things if she admits to enjoying herself. I say, I don't care what people think. I like it and I am not going to pretend that I don't.

Goo discussion. I too had a doubt about it. I am a hindu. According to our culture and traditions, its the guy who initiates the first move, girls remain silent and exp all. Its said that, girls are shy or should remain shy, If they strat off first, they suggest that the girl would have had previous exp... But then in europe countries I don't think its like that. even girls seduce guys. I am too waiting for other responses, especially from guys. I would like to know what are the guys answer to this discusion

Watch nature in its true sense, you should get a clear cut answer. Universal law is such. Look at the animal kingdom, you will see females passive. Have you ever seen dogs play, what have you noticed? who is more aggressive?. Go to any part of the world, go back to history, you will find females passive in all walks of life. But now with the world passing through its middleage, time is changing fast and so women too have started shouting from the roof top, hey men we are coming. Passiveness of women will soon be history. Don't dare to bark at the sleeping tigress, she can be dangerous. meapas.

as a women i think that is definitely true and im not going to stick up for us women. But when it comes to giving head i think it should work both ways .

I'm both, to be honest. Sometimes i just want to be taken advantage of... And sometimes i'll just jump on top and go with it. I know it excites my husband when i jump on top and give him a good time, rather than him doing all the work. He says he likes the view, ha ha. But when i don't do it too often, i know he enjoys it more because it's like a surprise. So i don't know why women would just lay there and take it when they could enjoy themselves even more by being on top and taking control.

Honestly with all due respect to you, i find it hard to believe that you are a virgin at 45. I hope this not another trick to generate response, but all the same if that's true keep it up.

Mostly it is so, but still there are women out there who are equally active in bed...In Asian mentality, Women are taught to hide their emotions and revert to shyness or cower when her husband seeks attention but many of them are out of their shells now and are actually becoming more initiative than their counterparts...Mens, So be aware, you might just encounter a tigress the next time you are in bed.

Some are and some aren't. Also, I think it may also be affected by the culture in which one lives, but that is really just a guess since I only have experience here in the U.S. But I would say that most, maybe 70%, of women do prefer or think they or expected to prefer the man to take the lead.

I think it is how we are taught in the society - women are supposed to be passive partners. So, they keep going like that. Also, many traditional men won't like their women to be an agressive partner. Men wants to dominate and he will never want to loose his driver post. I am a person who thinks women should not be passive partners, but when it comes to bed I become a passive partner because the triditional thought is inclined too much in mind.

I beg to disagree. Some women I've met are hardcore in bed. They do what they want and do most of the actions that would please them more and me as well. I know there are still some passive women in bed but times are changing, most are more aggressive than men nowadays. Cheers to all the ladies out there!

No, not all men want agressive partners. I don't. I prefer a good mix of passive and aggressive - that will make sparks fly. So I certainly do not enjoy a woman riding me while I lie down quietly on the bed. No, not all women are passive. Whether they're passive or not depends on one important factor - their upbringing. In other words, do their cultures allow women to be agressive? Western women are quite agressive compared to Oriental and Asian women. Perhaps if you're a passive partner, it might take time to warm up and be a bit more agressive. This is possible with patience and perseverence. My wife was extremely shy at one stage. Now, she does the flirting first.