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kevchua @kevchua (1004) • Malaysia 18 Feb 10

My wife decided to dump me after 3 years. Our marriage could've been saved (though chances were slim) but all chances were lost when her parents put a stop to all forms of communication with me 2-3 weeks ago. When I called my...

divorce

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kevchua Hi mslena. Yes, you're absolutely right about the immature part. I believe she has been reporting almost every single bad deed of mine in the past to her parents because when they informed my parents about the divorce, trivial matters cropped up - which caught...

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kevchua @kevchua (1004) • Malaysia 18 Feb 10

My wife decided to dump me after 3 years. Our marriage could've been saved (though chances were slim) but all chances were lost when her parents put a stop to all forms of communication with me 2-3 weeks ago. When I called my...

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kevchua Hi lelin, you know what? People whom my parents and I have talked to said the same thing. I believe that once married, it's all up to both husband and wife to keep their marriage intact unless there's abuse or something so severe as to warrant a direct...

24 Feb 10

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kevchua @kevchua (1004) • Malaysia 18 Feb 10

My wife decided to dump me after 3 years. Our marriage could've been saved (though chances were slim) but all chances were lost when her parents put a stop to all forms of communication with me 2-3 weeks ago. When I called my...

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kevchua Hi bananamen and zoey. Thanks so much for the reply. Yeah, indeed. If she had really wanted to talk to me, she would regardless of what others say to her.

24 Feb 10

kevchua @kevchua (1004) • Malaysia 18 Feb 10

My wife decided to dump me after 3 years. Our marriage could've been saved (though chances were slim) but all chances were lost when her parents put a stop to all forms of communication with me 2-3 weeks ago. When I called my...

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kevchua @kevchua (1004) • Malaysia 27 Dec 09

When we're married, the "in-laws" come into the picture. There have been many stories about being with the in-laws. Parents-in-law dislike their daughters-in-law; sons-in-law dislike living anywhere near their parents-in-law and...

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manojach87 @manojach87 (147) • India 13 Dec 09

My point is this: Every day we hear about countries try to reach a stage where they can develop nuclear weapons to safeguard themselves! But who is going to tell them that it will kill people and everything else around them....

nuclear

nuclear weapon

weapon

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kevchua If every human loves each other, there won't be a need to have any weapon. Reality is, that doesn't happen. As time goes on, more lethal weapons will be developed because these countries want to dominate the world, and want to show the world that they're...

13 Dec 09

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priscy25 @priscy25 (71) • Canada 3 Dec 09

I am christian and i know somewhere in the bible it says to not be afraid to discipline kids with the rod, but could there be a deeper meaning to this? there are all sorts of ways to correct a kid and I really do not want to whip...

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kevchua Psychologists view using the rod as something bad and should not be practised at all in disciplining a child. They believe that it's better to talk things out. However, using the rod works on SOME kids as long as we tell them the reason for such harsh...

5 Dec 09

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smartjack @smartjack (520) • India 4 Dec 09

Many times I have seen that when a boy and a girl are best friends, they fall in love later. Isn't it possible for them to be best friends always and not fall into relationship. people always have a conclusion that a boy and a...

friend

friendship

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kevchua Yes, definitely. We can have platonic relationships even if we are best friends with a person of the opposite gender. Being a best friend, and sharing many things doesn't mean that they'll end up as married couples - it doesn't work that way all the time. For...

5 Dec 09

kevchua @kevchua (1004) • Malaysia 23 Nov 09

How do we stop spamming? I've had enough of hate messages in my shoutbox in one of my blogs. I tried to ban the IP address, but this spammer keeps coming back with even more vengeance. He uses the same nickname but it's not linked...

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kevchua OK thanks for the tip but i can only block one IP address (each time), and I can only do that from the Shoutbox home page. Is there a way to block a range of IP addresses in this case?

23 Nov 09

kevchua @kevchua (1004) • Malaysia 23 Nov 09

How do we stop spamming? I've had enough of hate messages in my shoutbox in one of my blogs. I tried to ban the IP address, but this spammer keeps coming back with even more vengeance. He uses the same nickname but it's not linked...

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hobegao @hobegao (136) • China 22 Nov 09

there are many questions pop up with my age growing,love ,marriage ,houses ,and kids later(now i don't have any kid)? if i want to marry somebody ,first i must have a house then i could get married ,and if i don't have any house...

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kevchua It all has to do with what society thinks. Is having your own house really important before deciding to get married? Many will say yes because they want to live independently. Others would marry and live with their parents first while they work hard to get...

22 Nov 09

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icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 11 Nov 09

In our days, if we want or not, education is important just for peoples who want and understand that we must have a good education for ourself first, and for others too. But. peoples who want and like to make money, education...

life

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kevchua No matter what, some basic education is required to ensure you lead a useful life. There's no need to have a Ph.D. because it's not necessary. If you have the basic education (reading, writing and speaking), PLUS hard work and determination, and good contacts,...

12 Nov 09

colu41 @colu41 (271) • United States 7 Nov 09

I need some honest opinions out there. My opinion is simple. I believe that money CAN buy happiness to a certain extent. Giving how you are raised, and many other situations, may change the way you feel of this. A lot...

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kevchua I used to think that money cannot buy happiness. My opinion has changed since; i've seen people being so happy when they're able to buy something at a shopping centre, when they're able to visit that very place they have been dreaming of and tell the story....

8 Nov 09

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kevchua @kevchua (1004) • Malaysia 8 Nov 09

Tell me a person who has never heard of Nostradamus. But who is he actually? How is it possible that an "ordinary human" is able to see what's going to happen hundreds of years or perhaps even thousands of years later? Are his...

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fairyprinces @fairyprinces (93) • Maldives 5 Nov 09

One of my friend was cheated by her lover. They were due to get married in 4 months and he broke of with her. He did not give her any reason, no did he answer her calls or her text. Later on she found out he was having affairs...

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kevchua It's easy to forgive, but it's not easy to forget. Whatever pain that a person has suffered will be a permanent scar. It's not impossible for anyone to forget the past, but it takes lots of understanding and compassion, something which not many people are able...

6 Nov 09

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careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 4 Nov 09

I have an eldest sister and I'm glad for that because she's very responsible and kind. And I was wondering what if it would be my older brother who become our eldest, it could be very hard for us since he's completely opposite to...

eldest brother or sister

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kevchua Well, I wouldn't want to be biased because both genders have different traits. It also depends on the genes. So there's generally no difference having an elder brother or an elder sister. If they know how to care, they will. If they know how to love, they will...

4 Nov 09

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manong05 @manong05 (5027) • Philippines 26 Oct 09

My daughter bought a 100-pc picture jigsaw puzzle for her 4 year-old son yesterday. It was in a plastic bag and without a completed picture as a guide. I told her, how on earth can your son complete the puzzle without a guide. To...

cleverness

smart children

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kevchua Children of today are intellectually different from those of yesterday. Except for people like Mozart, who was a child prodigy, the rest grew up as normal children would. Nowadays, with the advancement in science and technolgy, children grow at a rapid rate,...

27 Oct 09

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kevchua @kevchua (1004) • Malaysia 25 Oct 09

There seem to be a lot more horror movies in Asian cinemas (and perhaps even in western ones) lately compared to the past 5 years. It makes me wonder if movie producers have actually run out of ideas and plots that the only way to...

horror movies

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jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 24 Oct 09

I know some people have a problem with their hearing,but why do they have the tv up so loud that people in the next street can hear it?

hearing

loud

tv

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kevchua A few reasons come to mind. First, they're hard of hearing. Second, they want to show off their new sound system. Third, they merely want to tell others that they're "king" in the neighbourhood and they don't give a damn if you complain. It's not only TV, but...

25 Oct 09

hotsummer @hotsummer (13837) • Philippines 25 Oct 09

I don't. but i like to read poems though specially though that sounds really well with good meanings specially when i can identify with what is written on that poem. but sometimes i wish i am good in writing poem to express my...

poem

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kevchua Yes, I do. However, I must have a reason to write one, so it's not really a hobby. I write poems to express extreme anger, disappointment and most of all, romance for a person I love. Check out my website in my personal profile. There's a link to some of my...

25 Oct 09

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