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kevchua @kevchua (1004) • Malaysia 18 Feb 10

My wife decided to dump me after 3 years. Our marriage could've been saved (though chances were slim) but all chances were lost when her parents put a stop to all forms of communication with me 2-3 weeks ago. When I called my...

divorce

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kevchua Hi mslena. Yes, you're absolutely right about the immature part. I believe she has been reporting almost every single bad deed of mine in the past to her parents because when they informed my parents about the divorce, trivial matters cropped up - which caught...

24 Feb 10

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kevchua @kevchua (1004) • Malaysia 18 Feb 10

My wife decided to dump me after 3 years. Our marriage could've been saved (though chances were slim) but all chances were lost when her parents put a stop to all forms of communication with me 2-3 weeks ago. When I called my...

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kevchua Hi lelin, you know what? People whom my parents and I have talked to said the same thing. I believe that once married, it's all up to both husband and wife to keep their marriage intact unless there's abuse or something so severe as to warrant a direct...

24 Feb 10

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kevchua @kevchua (1004) • Malaysia 18 Feb 10

My wife decided to dump me after 3 years. Our marriage could've been saved (though chances were slim) but all chances were lost when her parents put a stop to all forms of communication with me 2-3 weeks ago. When I called my...

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kevchua Hi bananamen and zoey. Thanks so much for the reply. Yeah, indeed. If she had really wanted to talk to me, she would regardless of what others say to her.

24 Feb 10

kevchua @kevchua (1004) • Malaysia 23 Nov 09

How do we stop spamming? I've had enough of hate messages in my shoutbox in one of my blogs. I tried to ban the IP address, but this spammer keeps coming back with even more vengeance. He uses the same nickname but it's not linked...

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kevchua OK thanks for the tip but i can only block one IP address (each time), and I can only do that from the Shoutbox home page. Is there a way to block a range of IP addresses in this case?

23 Nov 09

lewishope2009 @lewishope2009 (1) • China 24 Oct 09

what is love?

love

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kevchua When two people are in love, they care, respect, empathise, share. Love is a blessing. It comes unexpectedly, and when love comes knocking at your door, let it in and treat it well or else you'll lose it. Love takes two to work; only then, love is mutual and...

25 Oct 09

kevchua @kevchua (1004) • Malaysia 4 Oct 09

Moon Cake Festival is also known as Mid-autumn Festival. Years ago when I was a kid, I used to carry lighted lanterns accompanied by my mom and my neighbours, and we walked around the block, joined by others along the way. It was...

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kevchua Shopping centres celebrate every festival (major and minor ones). Their main purpose is to attract customers or else they'd be lifeless. Of course they're there to "educate" visitors on the different cultures, too. But why does it take a shopping centre...

4 Oct 09

kevchua @kevchua (1004) • Malaysia 1 Oct 09

When you're single, they'll ask you when you're getting a girlfriend. When you already have one, they'll ask you when you're tying the knot. Once that's done, they'll ask you when you're going to have a baby. When you already have...

ask when

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kevchua That's an "interesting" way to bond. To me, it's more of a nuisance. No disrespect to them, though but they should at least learn to respect us Thanks for the response.

1 Oct 09

kevchua @kevchua (1004) • Malaysia 29 Sep 09

I heard over the radio this morning that some men do not mind being controlled by their wives because at work, they control others. Similarly, some women wouldn't mind being controlled because they're younger than their other...

dictate

spouse control

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kevchua Hmm...that's an interesting philosophy. It might work but not for all Thanks.

29 Sep 09

kevchua @kevchua (1004) • Malaysia 29 Sep 09

I heard over the radio this morning that some men do not mind being controlled by their wives because at work, they control others. Similarly, some women wouldn't mind being controlled because they're younger than their other...

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kevchua Hi, missliss. Thanks for your response. Well, I believe that a leader should exercise a little bit of control to ensure that the company visions and objectives are achieved. Ultimately, the entire workforce benefits. If you just let employees do things the way...

29 Sep 09

kevchua @kevchua (1004) • Malaysia 29 Sep 09

I heard over the radio this morning that some men do not mind being controlled by their wives because at work, they control others. Similarly, some women wouldn't mind being controlled because they're younger than their other...

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kevchua Hi lelin, you've a good point there. Indeed, at work, there should not be too much of control. However a little is necessary to ensure the office runs smoothly. At home - no way.

29 Sep 09

Katak @submerryn (1304) • Malaysia 16 Aug 09

Hello myLotters. It's time to get a new desktop for me. My current desktop is like 10 years old? I am quite a PC 'idiot' and I dont know much about computer stuffs. All I know is, there has been lots of promotion going on amongst...

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kevchua PC Fair? Nah, I'd only buy accessories from there. Certainly not mainboards or the entire PC. People have been duped there, too. If you want to buy a desktop it's best you pay a personal visit to the a reliable PC Store near you. Sometimes... i said...

28 Sep 09

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kevchua @kevchua (1004) • Malaysia 24 Sep 09

I use the elevator all the time to get to my office. Not every one using the elevator is going the same direction as you. That's fine, but what annoys me most is when you're going down, for instance, there will be people entering...

elevator

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kevchua Yup, that's another thing i really hate. Youngsters especially, they'd be waiting right in front of the door so that when the door opens they'll be staring at you straight in the face and you have to make way for them to enter the elevator. We are living...

25 Sep 09

kevchua @kevchua (1004) • Malaysia 22 Sep 09

I don't cook much, but when I do, I'd try to make my food taste good. Somehow, the taste just couldn't match the same dish prepared at restaurants. I believe the tastiness in restaurant food comes from monosodium glutamate...

food additive

msg

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kevchua Thanks for the tip. Hmm, people seem to suggest using sugar. Cool, never thought it could add more "interesting" taste in cooked food other than making it sweet. Salt, yes. Yeah, chicken stock too. MSG? Well, if I've to drink plenty of water, or if my...

23 Sep 09

kevchua @kevchua (1004) • Malaysia 22 Sep 09

I don't cook much, but when I do, I'd try to make my food taste good. Somehow, the taste just couldn't match the same dish prepared at restaurants. I believe the tastiness in restaurant food comes from monosodium glutamate...

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kevchua Hi there...great tip you have there. Yup, "umami" is indeed the new taste which I believe the Japanese discovered. People always associated tastiness with MSG, which was why I brought up this discussion topic. I guess I've found the answer. Food could still...

23 Sep 09

koalapenguin @koalapenguin (2707) • Philippines 18 Sep 09

Can you start one without pressing the -/! button? I believe that this place lacks arguments. Because they or we are afraid to make someone angry as it may affect our reputation. But, is it...

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kevchua The problem is that there are people who WANT to be right and believe that everyone MUST agree with them. Those who oppose will be labelled "bad" and would be given a negative comment or feedback or affected in some other negative ways. In a discussion,...

18 Sep 09

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kevchua @kevchua (1004) • Malaysia 16 Sep 09

Friends are important - yeah, that's true. However, these people may just be taking advantage of you. I've had colleagues coming to me begging for help: "Please, damsel in distress!" or [i]"Thanks for your help, I love...

desperate friends

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kevchua Hi cwong77, i like your last statement. Yup, it clearly shows that being a socialite doesn't mean that you've lots of good friends. Most of them are just there to complement your life; they're not there to be your best friends. I'll learn not to expect...

17 Sep 09

kevchua @kevchua (1004) • Malaysia 15 Sep 09

We have seen how fashion changes; what women used to wear, men wear them now - for instance, earrings and bangles. Men also want to possess good skin textures like some women have. As such, they've now resorted to doing facials -...

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kevchua Negative response accepted for that's what discussions are all about. If everything is positive, then it won't be much fun as there's nothing to discuss. Men who do facials to look clean and fresh are fine. I think they've the right to look...

16 Sep 09

kevchua @kevchua (1004) • Malaysia 16 Sep 09

Friends are important - yeah, that's true. However, these people may just be taking advantage of you. I've had colleagues coming to me begging for help: "Please, damsel in distress!" or [i]"Thanks for your help, I love...

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kevchua Yes, komikomi. That's true; it's better to have just a handful of trustworthy friends. However, they're not able to be with you all the time. So that is when we need those other friends or "friends" - I guess it is a common thing to happen anywhere.

16 Sep 09

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