kevchua

@kevchua (1004)

Malaysia • Age 57

Joined myLot 15 years ago

I am just human.

Responses (548)

kevchua's Responses

Why on the world do we need nuclear weapons!

manojach87 @manojach87 (147) • India 13 Dec 09

My point is this: Every day we hear about countries try to reach a stage where they can develop nuclear weapons to safeguard themselves! But who is going to tell them that it will kill people and everything else around them....

nuclear

nuclear weapon

weapon

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kevchua If every human loves each other, there won't be a need to have any weapon. Reality is, that doesn't happen. As time goes on, more lethal weapons will be developed because these countries want to dominate the world, and want to show the world that they're...

13 Dec 09

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What do you think about whipping your kid to discipline him or her

priscy25 @priscy25 (71) • Canada 3 Dec 09

I am christian and i know somewhere in the bible it says to not be afraid to discipline kids with the rod, but could there be a deeper meaning to this? there are all sorts of ways to correct a kid and I really do not want to whip...

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kevchua Psychologists view using the rod as something bad and should not be practised at all in disciplining a child. They believe that it's better to talk things out. However, using the rod works on SOME kids as long as we tell them the reason for such harsh...

5 Dec 09

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Can a boy and a girl be friends only and never fall into relationship?

smartjack @smartjack (520) • India 4 Dec 09

Many times I have seen that when a boy and a girl are best friends, they fall in love later. Isn't it possible for them to be best friends always and not fall into relationship. people always have a conclusion that a boy and a...

friend

friendship

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kevchua Yes, definitely. We can have platonic relationships even if we are best friends with a person of the opposite gender. Being a best friend, and sharing many things doesn't mean that they'll end up as married couples - it doesn't work that way all the time. For...

5 Dec 09

what did people do to get married without much money?

hobegao @hobegao (136) • China 22 Nov 09

there are many questions pop up with my age growing,love ,marriage ,houses ,and kids later(now i don't have any kid)? if i want to marry somebody ,first i must have a house then i could get married ,and if i don't have any house...

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kevchua It all has to do with what society thinks. Is having your own house really important before deciding to get married? Many will say yes because they want to live independently. Others would marry and live with their parents first while they work hard to get...

22 Nov 09

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Education vs. make money!!!

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 11 Nov 09

In our days, if we want or not, education is important just for peoples who want and understand that we must have a good education for ourself first, and for others too. But. peoples who want and like to make money, education...

life

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kevchua No matter what, some basic education is required to ensure you lead a useful life. There's no need to have a Ph.D. because it's not necessary. If you have the basic education (reading, writing and speaking), PLUS hard work and determination, and good contacts,...

12 Nov 09

Honest Opinions: Can Money Buy Happiness?

colu41 @colu41 (271) • United States 7 Nov 09

I need some honest opinions out there. My opinion is simple. I believe that money CAN buy happiness to a certain extent. Giving how you are raised, and many other situations, may change the way you feel of this. A lot...

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kevchua I used to think that money cannot buy happiness. My opinion has changed since; i've seen people being so happy when they're able to buy something at a shopping centre, when they're able to visit that very place they have been dreaming of and tell the story....

8 Nov 09

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How can I forget and forgive and start over?????

fairyprinces @fairyprinces (93) • Maldives 5 Nov 09

One of my friend was cheated by her lover. They were due to get married in 4 months and he broke of with her. He did not give her any reason, no did he answer her calls or her text. Later on she found out he was having affairs...

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kevchua It's easy to forgive, but it's not easy to forget. Whatever pain that a person has suffered will be a permanent scar. It's not impossible for anyone to forget the past, but it takes lots of understanding and compassion, something which not many people are able...

6 Nov 09

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Would you rather have eldest brother or sister?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 4 Nov 09

I have an eldest sister and I'm glad for that because she's very responsible and kind. And I was wondering what if it would be my older brother who become our eldest, it could be very hard for us since he's completely opposite to...

eldest brother or sister

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kevchua Well, I wouldn't want to be biased because both genders have different traits. It also depends on the genes. So there's generally no difference having an elder brother or an elder sister. If they know how to care, they will. If they know how to love, they will...

4 Nov 09

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are children smarter nowadays? It's elementary my dear grandpa.......

manong05 @manong05 (5027) • Philippines 26 Oct 09

My daughter bought a 100-pc picture jigsaw puzzle for her 4 year-old son yesterday. It was in a plastic bag and without a completed picture as a guide. I told her, how on earth can your son complete the puzzle without a guide. To...

cleverness

smart children

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kevchua Children of today are intellectually different from those of yesterday. Except for people like Mozart, who was a child prodigy, the rest grew up as normal children would. Nowadays, with the advancement in science and technolgy, children grow at a rapid rate,...

27 Oct 09

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Why do some people have the tv up soo loud?

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 24 Oct 09

I know some people have a problem with their hearing,but why do they have the tv up so loud that people in the next street can hear it?

hearing

loud

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kevchua A few reasons come to mind. First, they're hard of hearing. Second, they want to show off their new sound system. Third, they merely want to tell others that they're "king" in the neighbourhood and they don't give a damn if you complain. It's not only TV, but...

25 Oct 09

Do you like to write poem?

hotsummer @hotsummer (13837) • Philippines 25 Oct 09

I don't. but i like to read poems though specially though that sounds really well with good meanings specially when i can identify with what is written on that poem. but sometimes i wish i am good in writing poem to express my...

poem

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kevchua Yes, I do. However, I must have a reason to write one, so it's not really a hobby. I write poems to express extreme anger, disappointment and most of all, romance for a person I love. Check out my website in my personal profile. There's a link to some of my...

25 Oct 09

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A friend online want me to meet in person but I don't want to meet him...

irene3184 @irene3184 (898) • Philippines 19 Oct 09

I have a friend whom I meet online and I feel uncomfortable with him because he is too demanding to meet me in person but I never trust him. We chatted before for sometimes online and we have shared ideas but now I don't hesitate...

meet in person

meet online

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kevchua Hi Irene. You have a choice - don't talk to him (ignore) anymore, or continue chatting online but leave whenever you like without feeling obligated to respond. Some people just don't know how to respect the wishes of others. So far, yes, you've done the...

20 Oct 09

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Member's Day Sale

cwong77 @cwong77 (2010) • Malaysia 18 Oct 09

In my country, due to the economy downturn, the sales in those retail shops are just continuing.. One of those big 'excuse' for the retailer is to have the Member's Day Sale! On this day, the queue to enter the retail outlet...

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kevchua Members Day Sale at Jusco is crazy. The roads here will be packed, office workers would take half day off just to be there! Anyway, there are sales throughout the year. The only difference is the amount of discount that you get. Happy shopping! ;)

19 Oct 09

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made friends online

zkapfo123 @zkapfo123 (319) • India 17 Oct 09

hi mylotters, when you make friends online from social networking sites like facebook, twitter, hi5 and mylot etc, do you ever get to meet them in real person? I have made lots of friends online, from different countries and...

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kevchua well, i've had a couple of new friends in MyLot, but i've never got a chance to meet any of them yet. Hope that one day, I would. Cheers

18 Oct 09

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How could we get less abortions to happen?

maximax8 @maximax8 (31046) • United Kingdom 16 Oct 09

I think that in the world we could make sure everybody knows how to use birth control and that no form of it is 100% effective. I think that in the world we should show teenager diagrams of the fetus at different stages of...

abortion

reduce

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kevchua Abortions can obly be reduced if people are more responsible of their actions. They make someone pregnant, they should bring up the baby. No amount of videos, pictures or graphical images of fetuses is going to wake people up as long as they don't want to be...

16 Oct 09

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Are you a Light Sleeper? Heavy Sleeper?

patofgold23 @patofgold23 (5069) • Philippines 8 Oct 09

The slightest noise would wake me up.. unless if I'm really really tires... in fact, even if I'm so tired, I still find myself easily awakened by almost about anything... In contrast, my brother sleeps like a log... even...

heavy sleeper

light sleeper

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kevchua I sleep about 6 hours a day, and I rarely wake up after 8:00 AM even on weekends. I don't have trouble sleeping, but I guess, to me, that amount of sleep is sufficient.

10 Oct 09

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Is my degree worthless? Is yours?

LittleMrsSunshine @LittleMrsSunshine (201) 9 Oct 09

I graduated over 9 years ago, I ma one of the class of 2000 and i got a good result (2:1) but i have never used my degree apart from talking to friends on line and ordering food on holiday. My degree is in Spanish, with cultural...

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kevchua The time you had spent in the university was not wasted. You have learnt many things, and you have even changed to a more confident person. Perhaps you might want to find an alternative instead of just relying on your degree to secure a job. Nowadays, having a...

10 Oct 09

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