How can I make hubby feel better?

Well there is nothing that you can specifically do to make it all go away. It's not as if you say abra cadabra, that all his problems would go away, because then everybody would be lining up infront of you. Tell him you get angry at times and it's just because of hormonal changes. Tell him your sorry and just be there for him. Give him warm food, give him hugs&kisses, and support him. If he starts to see that you believe in him, he will feel stronger, and strength helps to fight his sickness away. All the best. :)

You never want to treat him like he IS sick, because that will just encourage him to feel worse- maybe sorry for himself. What he needs is a good optimistic view coming from you. Let him know how much you love him by giving him affection like random hugs and kisses & maybe renting a movie to cuddle up to.. or his favorite action movie to watch together. Little things you know he likes- if you incorporate them into your together-time, its very likely to help :]. Just make sure you never throw anything that you do for him in his face if you two get into a fight. One of the biggest things here is the need for patience. Just be patient when he gets upset with things and understand that he has a lot on his plate right now.

Can you make a sign on your computer? I big sign that says I love you? Once I went to the store and got this party banner that says I appreciate you, and hung it up in the home of the person I was trying to cheer up. And the smile I saw because of that was radiant. If you can't make a sign, maybe you can buy a banner. They come cheap in Walmart. I know it isn't anything that will cure him, but it might make his heart lighter.

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You have every right to be angry right now so don't feel too bad about it. This is happening to both of you! He is the one that's sick, but being on the sidelines watching and helpless is no picnic. I know. Snuggle up with him every chance you get. Snuggling is always good. I really advise snuggling. did I mention a snuggle? snuggle good.

I think you should ask the doctor how you could make him feel better physically, but emotionally, you must let him know that you are there for him. Be strong when you are around him and say positive things. Let him know you love him and show him how much. Keep him strong and ready for anything. Talk to him and take time out to be with him. I think that is the best you can do. I wish you the BEST of luck with everything, i wish him luck too.

Being at his side can already make him feel better. Just be with him all the time and enjoy the the moment you spend together. I hope that he'll get well sooner.

I think illnesses like this can be very hard. I know it was when my grandmother was struck with it. I have to agree with what another person said here is talk with his doctor about how to help him emotionally. Physical pain will be there and it will hurt you to see, but emotionally he needs so much more right now. And if you need to talk with a support group to get the saddness or anger out that isn't a bad thing either. I guess my first suggestion would be what would make his live easier? A special pillow that doesn't get flat when laid on for so many hours or maybe something that will be more convienecent so he has what he needs at his finger tips. I think the helpless feeling is what makes a person angry. You know your husband best so I guess I would think of little things to make it so he isn't so dependant on another for his small needs. Does that make sense? It's hard to explain, but when an illness like this strikes it's like they loose all their independance and it's hard for them to HAVE to reply on another. I guess I'd think of things and ways to help maintain himself so he still feels like a man.

I would say just be there as much as you can and treat him as if nothing is wrong while still tending to his needs to get better. My mom just went through open heart about 3 weeks ago and she's a little on edge about everything. It's also hard for me to show how much I want to be supportive but I try to relate with her emotions and talk to her a lot. Maybe you could try that? Hope he gets better soon :)

I havent been in this situation so I don't know if I can give you a good response. But I would say that think of thing you would like to be done to you if you are the one in his position? what would make you happy? then imply it to him. Since you are husband and wife somehow there is something similar with both the too of you. Be strong always.. I'll pray for you hubby and for you as well so god may give you more strenght, cause I know that if I'll be in your position. I will be the first one to be crying and crring... I might not be able to take care of him. SO lucy I admire you... keep the spirits up always.

Give him good food, massage his body and take more care.

hey make him feel dat u r always dere by his side..never make him feel dat he s suffering from ne kind of illness.. b normal.. talk about happy things around him.. control ur emotions in front of him n always b happy!!! best of luck!!

Be by his side as often as you can. Sometimes, if you're not physically there - out of town perhaps - you could send him a Get Well card, a bunch of flowers, give him a call to say you love him.... stuff like that. I think you know what I mean. I also think he understands that you need to work too and can't be with him all the time, so whatever little things that you could do (to show that you care) when you're not physically there is very helpful. Hope this helps. Take care, ok?

it is always said that the way to mans heart is always through his stomach.since he is under medication prepare some light and healthy food(those which will not interfere in his medication path) and serve it with some words of affection....hope so this works and make him feel better

a few years back, my dad went through 6 months of chemo too. My mom isn't the nurturing type too. However, the mere presence of my mom is enough to tell my dad that she cared about him. How she stayed in the hospital to be with him. The little things you can do for him will mean a lot.It need not be extravagant but try making him comfortable while he is in the hospital feeling pain. You should also have a lot of patience because they can get very cranky about every little thing.

try treating him in a normal way like what how you treat others..treat him like he is not sick, this will give him a more positive outlook towards life.., and of course, stay beside him always..dont let him feel that he is alone, let him feel that he is always loved..i wish that your husband's surgery will be successful..