how to start?

India
July 17, 2009 8:27am CST
Am finding hard time to talk to new people cant start a conversation an i dont know what to talk about..?
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aerous
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
17 Jul 09
You don't know how to start because in some instances. As I notice about your discussions here. This is a good start to talk with people that you don't expect to talk too... There is other requirements to make a conversation my friend. You must focus on some issues that affect your personal conditions in life. Just think about your fast experience. Just think about NEWS that affect community development and other views that will help your fellow... It is easy to start any conversation or anything that you want to do in life. Think about your interest. Think about your boyfriend, family, friend and other that surrounds you... Didn't you see how people here in mylot, start conversation and how they answer about the discussions...? That is a good start...reviews all the discussions and learn how they can do it...hope you get my points. Take care
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Chysom Scott
@CJscott (4187)
• Portage La Prairie, Manitoba
17 Jul 09
It is "simple" to start any conversation, it is not always "easy." Maybe for you, you can just go up and talk to any one about anything, and that is good. I would imagine you know no other way. But some folks, have to work very hard at getting over our fear of being made fun of just for the way we say hello, or some other silly thing, that people used to make fun of us for when we were young. It takes a lot of courage and confidence building for most people to start a conversation with a complete stranger. Even though, the topics are abundant, and the folks maybe well be the kindest most interesting people in the world, we still have the "fear of rejection" embedded in our minds. Cheers.
aerous
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
18 Jul 09
Hello CJscott, Thanks for your response on the discussions. My view on telling that starting a discussion is to encourage the persons telling that she don't know how to start. Want her to inspire by telling it easy to start. If I said it hard, how can we encourage her to make the best for her. How she dealing with the hardest point when she doubts to make it. That "easy words" is just an encouragement and ease her doubt...because doubt is one of the factor we can't start what we want to do... If you found any discouragement in my views my friend. Please tell me so that I can correct on it... Thanks
kevchua
@kevchua (1004)
• Malaysia
17 Jul 09
I know what you mean because I'm like you too. Well, what I'd normallly do is to gather enough courage to smile at the person whom I want to talk to. If he returns the smile, that's a very good start. If not, maybe another day. Once the smile is given, you could ask questions about the weather (yeah, I know too "normal", but it's a good start).. you'd be surprise that one thing could lead to another if the person you're talking to is a bit more talkative. Don't be too shy. You need to open up a bit because others might think that you're a snob if you don't open your mouth. They are scared too.
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vdamor
@vdamor (12)
• India
17 Jul 09
it is simple first of all dont think about what to talk . . . .naturally v begin with introductin n end in when to meet next its a simple way to tlk , , , in betwwen you can know about each other . . . whateveru talk it doesnt matter main thing is that how you taik to your new one your speech reflcts many thing if ur god speeaker . .then no matter you speak . . . still it is good for first communication n offcourse to make new freinds . . . . .
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