are you still as judgemental on people that moved back in with family?

Everyone is having a hard time right now.. Granted most of the time the person moving in needs the help but this is not always the case.. Like a grown child moving out of an apartment to go back to live with his or her parents to help keep the farm in the families name.. I have never really judge anyone for moving back into their parents house... we all need help at one point in our lives... why put down a situation that is already hard enough?

I don't see a problem with people who are having problems or have a good reason to move back in with their family. I do have problems with people who CAN afford to live on their own and are obviously mooching off of their family & friends for extended period of time - like years.

It's been common here for people to stay living with their parents for years even before the recession because of property prices, people couldn't afford to buy property and move out. That's one plus side to it I suppose property prices will have to come down so some people will finally be able to get on the property ladder. I do think much older people who have never moved out and their parents don't need them to care for them are a bit strange, but I don't judge them on it. If you can handle your parents seeing everything you do and not feel crowded it must save you a lot of money to live at home.

I'm not judgemental on people that move BACK in with their family. The ones that kinda irk me are the ones that NEVER LEFT the nest. I guess I think that everyone has stages in their life that they must go through. I believe that leaving home and moving out into the world to live on your own is an experience that every american should experience. That's just me. I have moved back in with my folks to get back on my feet a few times in my life. Sometimes the finacial rug can be pulled out from underneath a person. And then their comes a time when a person may move back in to care for their parents, as they( the parents) get along in their years.

No I never judge people who had to go back home due to finances. Who would I be to judge. Everyone has their problems and if you don't have your family to go back to then what do you have? My daughter and husband with my grandchild has come back to live with me due to finding it hard to pay rent along with car payment and insurance. So I'm happy that they are here and I get to see my granddaughter all the time.

yes i am. i believe that it is ideal for a person if he is married to move out of their parents' home. even if he is not married but he has the means, he should move out of the house too. although there are some acceptable situations i think it's okay for a person to move back. however, generally i think it's just really ideal not to live with your parents when you've come of age. it's okay though if you parents want to live in your house. that's another story.

I wouldn't care one way or the other actually. I've been there & had to do it, first after my divorce then again for a while after moving back to Tennessee from Montana. "Stuff happens!"

No..because if any of my kids needed to move back in with me they are more then welcome....things have changed alot....so many things cost so much more then before and most people did get on that wagon of spending too much...

I can't say I'm judgmental because well i kinda did it myself. I live in my parents second house on the same farm - i enjoy my family's company so i actually spend alot of time over at the other house. I think that its a good way to save money and not be lonely...its kinda boring living by yourself and expensive too. My boyfriend lived with his parents up until 3 years ago (he had moved out and moved back in because of housing costs and distances from work) I thought it was fine - actually kinda liked it better when he lived with them cause he was easier to get a hold of! He was embarrassed to tell me he lived with his parents and for ages he referred to them as his roommates. I wasnt sure why he did that honestly.

No I am not judgemental about people moving back with there family. I was in the same boat about 3 years ago. My situation was not because of the economy. It was somewhat messy divorce. I only stayed with my parents for 1 1/2 years. The reason I stayed with them was so I could get back on my feet. Their are a lot of people who take advantage of that situation. I believe you need help sometimes, but if you a grown man or woman that delibrately want work or help around the house then yea I will judge them.

My family is hesitant to adopt a family, especially if we really do not know their real background. I a so cautious and careful if my family situation is under perils of dangers. If somebody like to ask me to stay for awhile and I know this person I will allow him, but he must leave as I cannot accommodate her. If he will insist I would refer him to a help shelter foundation who help homeless person. My homes is not too large to adopt a person and how much a family. If we are financially stable I may adopt them. But, with our current situation that our financial earning is enough only for our family. I Cannot afford another family extension, and run of troubles in feeding.

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You know there is a lot of people that are judgemental out there. I wouldn't really call myself judgemental but I did wonder why people had to move in with family members or never go out on their own to live. I will never question that again. I had to move onto my inlaws property with our camper to live in because my husband got laid off. I wish everyone the best during this lack of financial time.

No, am not. the reason for that is am one of those persons that hasn't move out yet from my parents house. but it's doesn't mean am kinda lazy or something. first, i can't send her to carehome because i have no money, then no one would look after if she can't give them salary. second, id rather take care of mom since she has done so many things for me. and probably help her in paying the bills.

Hi moon, No, not exactly that I have ever been judgmental over this issue. People have their preference and wishes. If they are staying at home or are moving on purpose makes no impact on my impression.

Economics is the main reason why some families would go back living with their family. Here in the Philippines, it is common for families to be living in one abode. But in other parts of the world, one is expected to move out when the person has a family. One should be understanding of the person's dilemma. But we should also remind them that being in the family will not excuse them for doing the household chores and should be able to share in the expenses.

No all situations are different. You never know what a person is going through.