Home Alone - Do you shut the door while showering/pooping?

@submerryn (1304)
Malaysia
July 24, 2009 11:06am CST
When you are home alone and are absolutely sure that no one will be back or be around for that whole day, or at least for the next few hours. Do you shut the door while taking a shower? Do you shut the door if you need to use the bathroom? If you do shut them, do you lock them? When I am alone at home, I dont shut the door while showering or using the bathroom. I have a phobia that if I shut the door, the door will suddenly get locked and I'll be trapped in there and left to die! So I never shut the door when I am alone. If I do need to shut the door, which I NEVER, I'll never locked it! What about you?
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@vingyan06 (2486)
• Malaysia
24 Jul 09
I do exactly the same as you! Whenever I am alone, I love to bath with the door open widely, Ha Ha, more relaxing! Because when my kids are at home, I must shut and lock the door. Else they will keep on disturbing me and my bath time will never end. So I will shut the door just to avoid being disturb by my kids.
@submerryn (1304)
• Malaysia
25 Jul 09
And when you husband is around you leave it open even wider? I find it scarier to lock the door when I am alone as I wont be able to see what is going on outside...
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• Philippines
24 Jul 09
You must be fond of watching too much horror movies. :) Yes, I always make it a point to lock the door when I'm home alone no matter what my activity is - whether it be sleeping, watching tv, showering or yes, even pooping. :) I guess I'm just scared some stranger would let themselves in and well do some terrible things. Yes, the horror movies I watched have an influence on that. :) But seriously, I think as a people we have become increasingly cautious because of the increasing crime rate that's going on around us. We can never be too careful. As the saying goes, better be careful than sorry! ;)
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@submerryn (1304)
• Malaysia
25 Jul 09
Haha.. yeah those darn horror movie do give some influence on me.. But I always make sure my gate is lock and my main door and grill are lock too. My windows are all lock too.. only my washroom is not close. :)
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@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
24 Jul 09
I usually shut the door when going to the bathroom, because I can turn on the exhaust fan while I am in there, and it usually helps to confine the smell. However, when I am taking a shower, I do not usually close the door, because the mirror in the bathroom doesn't fog up as fast with the door open.
• United States
25 Jul 09
I am almost 6-feet tall and I weigh close to 250 pounds. I don't think these cheap interior doors/door frames would keep me in there very long if I really needed to get out of the bathroom. LOL
@submerryn (1304)
• Malaysia
25 Jul 09
Hehe ha ha.. The fact that I dont close my door doesnt even has anything to do with smell or watsoever. Just phobia of being lock in there.. :)
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
24 Jul 09
I shut the door because here there is no telling when someone will either be home, or awake. My fiance's father works third shift so he sometimes gets up at odd times of the day because he can't sleep. So if I leave the door open there's a chance he might see me in the bathroom or atleast hear the shower running if it's that. If my fiance and I are home alone and it's just us, and say a few minutes after his parents left, then I might leave the door open. I don't have a phobia of locked doors at home.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
24 Jul 09
We also live on a quiet road. The only sounds heard are nature, or cars coming home or from the farm...
@submerryn (1304)
• Malaysia
25 Jul 09
I love to retire in some country home! I love the peace that comes with it and the nature sounds that sings to us!
@submerryn (1304)
• Malaysia
24 Jul 09
That's nice to feel safe inside without any fear. It's good as your fiance's father is around too!
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
27 Jul 09
Dear submerryn, Have you wonder why you are fear of shutting the door? May be you have a bad experience when you are younger? I remembered when I was 7 years old, I went to my eldest sister's place..for school holiday! So, when I take my bath, I locked the door, but no one told me that the lock was faulty, and I am alone all by myself! I tried and tried to open the door but to no avail. I nearly cried... and I prayed so hard in my heart... at last the door opens... I forgotten totally about it until this discussion here... For myself, I alway close the door but I do not locked unless I think I need to (for some reason...) Thanks and take care :)
@submerryn (1304)
• Malaysia
27 Jul 09
When I was 9, I got trapped in the elevator alone. I cried and prayed not to let me die there! Hahahaha.. I was only 9 then and I thought I might die if no one found me. Thankfully, my Dad realised that I was gone for sometime and went to check on me. He, being a fireman, is a pro at unleashing locked items and manage to free me. When he opened the elevator door, I was half way between two floors! Can you imagine how horrible that was? I was shaking so badly...
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
7 Aug 09
Dear submerryn, I went to check my mail inbox...wow, so many mails from myLot. As I clear line by line, I got your comments. Sorry for late reply.. Thank God you are safe, and your hero (daddy) came for the rescue...I am really proud of your father! Do you remember why you went inside the elevator alone? How it ended up in between floors? That's so scary...If I am you at that point of time, I think I 'pengsan' (fainted) already. Even though you are crying, you are still a very brave girl! Take care and all the best!
@dex1007 (556)
• Malaysia
25 Jul 09
LOL! wow.. very interesting question. but yes. i do. I feel safer. I lock it too. If i don't i want to get out fast. disturbing. lock-phobia eh? i once went to this hotel where the bathroom door was crazy. when i wanted to come out, it didn't even budge. felt really locked in. started pulling like crazy (i don't scream for my brother or sister until i know its very very bad, or they'll make fun of me for the rest of my life). after pulling for minutes. it opened. the door frame was smaller than the door or something like that. wonderful holiday. got stuck in the bathroom 3 or 4 times per day. hahahaha.
@submerryn (1304)
• Malaysia
25 Jul 09
Goodness! Didnt you request for a change of room?? If me, I'll run helter skater out of there! I wont dare to enter the bathroom anymore after that! It's just me... just that weird me..
@dex1007 (556)
• Malaysia
26 Jul 09
I had the top floor. I'm not changing my room. i got a huge balcony place to have breakfast. nah.. besides, after the first time, got used to it.
• United States
25 Jul 09
that was kinda funny and scary at the same time!
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
24 Jul 09
nope, i dont even do it when i have my kids at home. i hate wasting electricity by turning the lights on, so i leave the door open. no one usually bugs me anyways.
@submerryn (1304)
• Malaysia
24 Jul 09
How old are your kids? I have to close the door when my 2 year old boy is around. I wont want him to see me doing my business in there.. :)
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
24 Jul 09
they are older and both girls.
@daryljane (3406)
• Philippines
25 Jul 09
I do! good thing our door doesnt have that problem. But when im alone at home and have to take the shower, i lock the door. Because our next doors neighbors little boy always gets inside the house without anybody's permission, he always gets spanked because of it though, but then to prevent him from coming inside while im showering, i make sure to lock the door.
@submerryn (1304)
• Malaysia
27 Jul 09
Oh goodness, how can your neighbours little boy access your home so freely? You dont lock your main door? In my country, it is a practise to lock the main door. People dont get in and out of our house freely without ringing the bell first.
@glesil_00 (1142)
• Philippines
24 Jul 09
Even i am alone at home i shut the main door, and leave the bathroom door open. I do not know if someone will suddenly come in if i do not lock the main door. It doesn't happen yet but i am making it sure. I keep it open if i am not in the bathroom, but moist of the time i lock the main door even i am not in the bathroom and here just sitting in front of the computer.
@submerryn (1304)
• Malaysia
24 Jul 09
My main door will always be locked definitely. It's just the washroom that is my concern. Getting trapped in there is definitely not something nice. So small space with no food in there. I just cant imagine it!
@glesil_00 (1142)
• Philippines
24 Jul 09
If the main door is already lock i do not lock the bathroom. I am not afraid of being trapped because the lock is inside and you are the one who will open it and someone inside could not even they have key for it. I am saying of the door that the bathroom here do have. No one can open it except someone inside it if it is lock.
@towfay1 (43)
25 Jul 09
I always shut my doors, all the doors. I will lock the entrance doors and I will shut the bathroom door. My cat or rather my daughters cat has a phobia about closed doors and will open them. I am paranoid about leaving doors open, in fact I can not stand to have the door open when I am in the bathroom. I live with two females and it does not change anything, if I could I would lock the bathroom door. I do understand your phobia however, when my child was young, single digits young, she locked the bathroom door and decided to clean. The horror or mixed chemicals and a locked door almost ruined me about door shutting but I got over it. I believe in doing what makes you comfortable so to open up and be comfortable.
@submerryn (1304)
• Malaysia
27 Jul 09
Oh dear, I'll freaked out if my little boy did what your daughter did!
@yanzalong (18987)
• Indonesia
25 Jul 09
No matter whether or not I am alone, I always shut and lock the door. Unknown people sometimes suddenly appear in front of the door. It happened to me. They sneaked in without me knowing it.
@submerryn (1304)
• Malaysia
25 Jul 09
How did they manage to get inside your house in the first place? Do you leave with others or alone?
@kcoregon (302)
• United States
26 Jul 09
Well I can always hear my husband or daughters when they come into the house. That is unless I am taking a shower. But I always take one in the morning, mostly, when I am at home alone with my toddler. I leave the door open and she usually sits on the potty and entertains me with her singing. I don't want to be stuck in a bathroom with the door shut, taking a shower, and the lights burning out. This would freak me out!
@submerryn (1304)
• Malaysia
27 Jul 09
Oh gosh, I've never thought about being trapped inside and the lights burning out! Now, you gave me another reason to freak out!
• Denmark
25 Jul 09
When others are in the house i lock it. When I am home alone I MOSTLY close it, but sometimes I leave it open. But then I need to be in a hurry.. when I shower it is always closed and mostly locked, I am naked though. But when on the WC, not allways d:
@submerryn (1304)
• Malaysia
26 Jul 09
Good for you. I'll sometimes leave it half open, half close. Dont know if it makes any difference from being wide open though. Just some mental problem I have.. haha..
• United States
25 Jul 09
well when im home alone i always shut the door because im scared that there will be someone always looking at me,even though theres no one home! i just feel safer wierd huh!
@submerryn (1304)
• Malaysia
25 Jul 09
The walls have ears but never heard that they have eyes! Hahaha.. I know what you meant! I sometimes get paranoid and prefer to have my back against the wall when I am alone so that I know, there will be no one behind me! Haha
• India
25 Jul 09
Hi friend, I always shut the door while showering.I feel uncomfortable if i don't shut the doors.Without shutting the door i can't go to bathroom.See friend keep one thing in mind,living and dying is not exactly in our hands.These two are controlled by only one person ie.God.So why to fear friend.Don't fear for anything.Keep faith in him and do each thing bravely.All the best. Have a nice day
@submerryn (1304)
• Malaysia
25 Jul 09
Hi there, I am not exactly afraid to die, just more afraid to get trapped in there for a very long time without being found! Hence the need to let it open when I am alone.. thanx. :)
@iwinagain (545)
25 Jul 09
I always lock the door when I'm showering because that makes me feel safe. Sometimes relatives or my family's friends will come over, ya never know when there's company coming. I just feel safer when I lock the door, I'm scared that someone will bust in through the door and see me naked. lol When I'm on the toilet, it's different. I do close the door but I don't lock it because who would want to see someone taking a crap or peeing? I wouldn't. Plus, there is nothing good to see when I'm on the toilet. lol
@busky5 (3164)
• Thailand
25 Jul 09
My home is closely everyday.I don't like to open the door because it has many mosquitoes come in my house.I often stay alone.however i never closed my shower door when i shower, Although i will stay alone or not.
@submerryn (1304)
• Malaysia
25 Jul 09
busky, you leave the door ajar even when people are around in your house? Cool! Hahaha..
• Indonesia
25 Jul 09
No, I'll let the door open because actually I love the wind from other house room enter the bathroom. I always feel hot inside bathroom since my bathroom is not large. If there's other people I always lock the door. My bathroom door is quiree uniq,,haha, I can open it from inside by spoon or fork(in case it's lock by itself and can't be open
@submerryn (1304)
• Malaysia
25 Jul 09
Wow, that's cool! I'll try to pry open my door with spoon or fork and see if it works. But I doubt it will work for my door as it is not as special as yours!
@grace118224 (1038)
• China
25 Jul 09
i will shut the door even if i'm at home alone . This should be a habit for me . i love to hide myself sometimes and shutting the door makes me feel safe .And then i can enjoy taking shower inside for as long as i want . The feeling is good. With the door open i just keep thinking whether there's sb who will come in soon . That make me feel uncomfortably.
@submerryn (1304)
• Malaysia
25 Jul 09
Yes, so shutting the door gives you the peace of mind to enjoy your long luxury bath. Nice. I love long luxury bath too... It is rejuvenating!
• United States
25 Jul 09
I always, without question, close the door when I'm showering or using the bathroom. Maybe that might change once I have a place of my own, but right now I'm sharing an apartment with two other people and I like to have my privacy.
@submerryn (1304)
• Malaysia
25 Jul 09
Of course, of course. You are sharing an apartment, it is understood for you to keep the door shut. Your roomies might feel weird if you leave them ajar! Hahhaa..