Pyscho ex girlfiend

@djnz69 (33)
United States
July 24, 2009 4:10pm CST
How do you handle a crazy ex-girlfriend without makin the situation worst?
5 responses
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
25 Aug 09
Hi djnz60 Your ex is not crazy, she is young, sounds to me from your response to the post down there she is young and immature there is a huge difference, a lot of woman mature pretty quick your ex is clearly not one of them, just let her know you moved on simple as that, she may yell at you who cares, she will find someone else, I would not worry , her priorities are all jacked up you don't need someone like that in your life,let her know you moved on if you don't want to be friends and leave it at that.
@djnz69 (33)
• United States
30 Aug 09
Thanks for the explanation
@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
25 Jul 09
either sedate her to calm her down, leave her and move on, or go to a couple therapist to get help on ur relationship.
@djnz69 (33)
• United States
27 Jul 09
All these comments made me feel better that I kick her to the curb since she shows her true colors
@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
24 Jul 09
I think avoiding all contact with her and make it very clear that it is over. If she still doesn't get the hint, document her crazy behavior and get a restraining order.
• United States
24 Jul 09
I think it depends on HOW crazy she is. If she is a functioning crazy then you might be able to talk to her. Ask her what you need to do to get her out of your life? Whatever she asks (unless it is harmful, of course), you should attempt to do it or at least compromise with her. Find out how to make an agreement about a situation. If she is REALLY crazy (smashing car windows, showing up places you would be, etc.) I would make it a legal thing. Get a restraining order on her and make sure that you keep up with it. Sometimes, its worth it to get the law involved if you really want her to leave you alone. You don't know what someone could do to you if you allow them to get away with it. Your last option is kind of out there, but sometimes, you just need to move. I'm sorry to say it, but usually the key is "out of sight, out of mind". Move addresses (i know this isnt that easy, it just really depends on HOW CRAZY she is), change your phone numbers, email adresses, and things of that nature. This also may hurt you, but don't talk or hang around your mutual friends as much. This helps because someone won't actually slip and tell her what you are doing or where you are or who you are with. The last two obviously won't make the situation better, but sometimes that is the only way. Some people won't listen to reason or won't compromise, but at least you can say that you tried. But answer these questions to yourself: Was there cheating involved in your break-up? Was there any closure? Does she rely on you for anything? Is it a possibility that she might be pregnant? How long was this relationship? Sometimes, longer relationships are more difficult for someone to just let go of, you might have to invest a lot of time dealing with the break up than you originally thought especially if you were together for a long period of time. Imagine if you were in love with someone for years and all of sudden without warning they don't love you anymore? It would hurt and be very difficult to deal with right? Take your time and figure it out. I hope some of this helps.
@djnz69 (33)
• United States
24 Jul 09
I couldn't tell if this girl cheated on me or not because her story is just not right she can't get her head straight
• Denmark
24 Jul 09
That really depends on how the ex is crazy. You can be crazy in many ways. If the ex is some kind of mental sick person, I would go to the police and erase the ex from my phone, facebook, e-mail and so on - if I felt my life was in danger. If the ex is just 'crazy' about me - I would explain that I would not have anything to do with him - and then if he did not get it - I would ignore him totally.
@djnz69 (33)
• United States
24 Jul 09
This girl says a whole lot of things that doesn't make sense I mean how can she was 16 and talking about she is engage to some guy in boston for 2 years when she was with other guys now this girl is 17 and swears that everything gets underneath her skin. First she cursed me out for no reason on valetines day talking about she going out on a date. So I turned my back then weeks later I get a txt saying hey gimme a call what's up with that? Then after months later i get exploded at and I told her in an email don't ever talk to me again! I honestly tried and tried again until I got exhausted now I graduated from high school and she is in the same grade she was in when I entered that school! what do I do now? Do I look for a new gf or wait for one to come my way (I've been single since oct of last year on my birthday right on that friday she got angry about some accusation of me cheating on her how can I cheat on her when I don't talk to any other girl? Worst birthday ever I ended up leaving that state to go back to NY