Why is it hard to let go???
By ckoepf
@ckoepf (23)
United States
July 24, 2009 8:36pm CST
Why is it hard to let go to Exss Me and my ex are not together but why is it so hard to let go of the past. Evey day it gets better and better. But there were some good times and there were a lot of bad times. I stop and think of the goods time. Please tell me if this is normal?
2 responses
@jojorv (201)
• Philippines
25 Jul 09
its perfectly normal. that's the beauty of love, you're happy one day and you're hurt the next day. but always remember that we always learn something from it. soon you'll realize that you will be a stronger person once you get-over your past relationship. just give it time and it will pass.
@trickiwoo (2702)
• United States
25 Jul 09
It's definitely normal, and it does get easier. I've spent years and years being angry about the past, being sad about how past relationships ended, as well as missing the good times. Even when I was in a happy, healthy relationship with someone new, I still thought a lot about the past. This went on for years and years. Then one day I just got over it. I took a long time, but I'm in a really great place now! So just give it time, you'll get there one day!
