Would u tell ur ex- girl fren/boyfren........

India
July 27, 2009 2:14am CST
Given a situation that u broke up wid ur ex but still keepin in touch over phone calls on regular basis.Will u tell ur ex that u are already seeing someone or just hold the truth from her/him and still keep in touch over phone as if u are still single? And if ur present gf/bf wants you to let ur ex know that u both are together, would u tell ur ex about ur present or just ignore it/hide it for the fear of hurting ur ex feelings. what would u do...please share.. have a nice day
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5 responses
• United Arab Emirates
27 Jul 09
I think honesty is the best policy moreover it saves alot of guilty conscious later..Telling your ex the truth will probably make her/ him respect you more too.
• India
28 Jul 09
hy dorren..long time... Yes hohestly is the best policy...i would care less for my ex feelings but my present bf
@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
27 Jul 09
Hi! Well I'm the type of person who don't share my private life with my exes unless he would ask me first what has been going on with my life after him. I am also not sure if my ex would be interested to know if I'm currently in a new relationship so I would just wait for him to ask. About the feelings about exes getting hurt if they find out we are in a new relationship. I don't think they would be hurt at all cause the relationship has ended. What is more hurtful is for your current relationship. If your bf finds out that you are still having communications with your ex, he might get jealous you know. It is ok to still communicate with our exes as long as we are still single. But if you already have a new BF/GF, then we must know our limitations. Ciao!
• India
28 Jul 09
Hy iskayz..Yes the present relationship is more important and we need to work towards building this one rather than thinking bout the past and thier feelings. thanks for responding
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
27 Jul 09
yeah.. i will tell him that there is already someone else.. even if we are in contact with each other and have broken up already, i guess we just have to stay as friends and be honest with him that we can only have a friendly relationship. i dont think i would be hurting him that way because i was just honest with him.
• India
28 Jul 09
yes honesty is the best policy bt accordin to me..if its Ex..i think its better not to even stay in contact and hurt the present gf/bf..Thanks for sharing
@rsa101 (38148)
• Philippines
27 Jul 09
Why would you be concerned with your ex's feelings? I think that is why you've called it an ex's therefore there is not more intimate in the relationship you are in. I think the ex should know what's in your life if you're still in contact with them. Like any other friend you have they have the right to know what is happening with your life so that if in case he/she has plans of rekindling your past he/she would have second thought's doing so because you are in a relationship already.
• India
28 Jul 09
Hy ..i absolutely agree with you ...the very fact ex means its ex literally...thanks for sharing.
• United States
27 Jul 09
Oh that sounds familiar. My gf is best friends with her ex, who still loves her, and I have a HUGE problem with that. I've made her tell him when I was on the phone with her. I mean, if your in a commited relationship, you owe it to your significant other and everyone else to let everyone know that your taken.
• India
28 Jul 09
Same here..i have a HUGE problem as well..for me Ex means EX literally...why dwell in the past rite..thanks for sharing