How to choose?

China
July 28, 2009 10:32am CST
I love the people he did not love me. People who love me I do not love him. Such as love,how to choose? I should continue to wait for the hope of love? Or I should accept that much love? I don't know. Can you tell me?
4 responses
ketybhagat
@ketybhagat (4123)
• India
29 Jul 09
Seems like you are going through a difficult period in your love life. You are only 20 years old and have your full life before you. Do not be in a hurry to find love, it will find you. You may like some people, but they may not like you. Its normal. Dont lose heart. It happens to all of us. We fall in and out of love and we learn by experience. Yes, out there, there will be someone who is destined for you. Chill out and enjoy yourself.
ketybhagat
@ketybhagat (4123)
• India
30 Jul 09
How is a man supposed to know you are interested in him if you do not show signs of it. So next time, be a little more friendly with the guy you like, so he knows you are interested in developing the friendship. Anyway, if that guy was interested in you, he too could have come forward, so obviously he was not, so forget him. You will learn as time goes by and things will work out fine. Thanks.
adia4577
@adia4577 (5)
• China
29 Jul 09
Thank you!You are right. 20,This is the age of learning ,and learning is most important in my daily life. I admit I am not a person who likes to learn,but I know doing the right things at right time. In the world no one knows I was fell in love with a man,includ himself Now I know I should not have illusions in this matter again
Anathulia
@Anathulia (50)
• Trinidad And Tobago
29 Jul 09
Love isn't something that you can choose to happen at any time. You have no control over it. Forcing love from someone or from your own self is not true love. You should wait and let love find you.
adia4577
@adia4577 (5)
• China
29 Jul 09
Passive waiting for love,it will slip from the side. Love as an opportunity,if we fail to seize the initiative,it is easy to lose. I belive that the world as a bunch of beautiful campanula,each of us is a bell. If you do't colsely entangled with you the impact that most beautiful bells,you will never meet his trail.
Sunil.P
@sunilparthan (6302)
• India
28 Jul 09
i love all the people and i thing they will also love me i like to think so because it will not hurt ha ha
adia4577
@adia4577 (5)
• China
29 Jul 09
There are a variety of people in the world,and you can't like everyone. I am sure this. Said you like all people is a lie. People are selfish animals,they have thier own groups,for those people in the outside,people have an instinctive rejection.
zhanjian1987
@zhanjian1987 (109)
• China
29 Jul 09
No offend to you,i don't think that you should ask others to help you choose the love way you go.Love romances is quite hard to say,and what you should do is to listen to you deep heart. It is natural that we may meet various love difficulties at a time when we will be easy to feel tough to deal with.But it is an important process that we have to experience,then we will be more mature and learn a little from relationship. No one can teach you how to choose and what to do expect yourself as everyone has different standards of love issues. Remember it:Love will come when you least expect it!!!
adia4577
@adia4577 (5)
• China
29 Jul 09
Thank you! The people who I love have gone away from me,and the person who love me have been to leave. Now I am a person alone. I have been sad and confused,now I ruturned to the sun I know I miss my love,but not forevor. I firmly believe that a man waiting for me in the future At that time,I will say "I love you" bravely,firmly grasp the happiness of my own