zhanjian1987

@zhanjian1987 (109)

China • Age 37

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He said "Never apologize, ,Never explain." and I am going" really, well?"

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 23 Sep 11

I was talking with a younger friend when we got on the subject of apologizing. He told me his motto was, "never apologize, never explain." I was floored as I was talking about when you have goofed royally and want to make things...

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zhanjian1987 "Never apologize,never explain??" Thoes who are always apologizing for things just make themselves look weak and stupid?? No offence,this hilarious thought makes you friend look weaker and more stupid.

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Have you been to Manila Ocean Park?

Ysabel @Ysabel (1201) • Philippines 30 Nov 09

My family went there last Saturday, but unfortunately, I was not able to join. I'm the only one missing. Anyway, i have seen their pictures and it was just great!! They also have "fish spa".. and they watched mermaid show. They...

manila ocean park

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zhanjian1987 I have never been there.Where is the Manila Ocean Park???

1 Dec 09

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Would you share your bed with snorers????

zhanjian1987 @zhanjian1987 (109) • China 1 Dec 09

I am extremely afraid of sleeping with snorers.I just can't fall asleep anyway all whole night if i share my bed with a snorer. So,how about you???? Dare you share your bed with snorers???For me,it is absolutely nightmare.

share bed

snorers

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Would you consider working at home?

deliciouslyjuicy @deliciouslyjuicy (364) • Philippines 30 Nov 09

I am kinda confused whether to quite my part time job as a college instructor or stick with my work being a freelance writer. But now I stick to working to both jobs at least I have 2 sources of income. If you are given a...

homebased job

online

teacher

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zhanjian1987 I would like to choose to work both of them.It sounds good to work at home but we need to expand our scope of life,so we need to deal with others and make new friends,which will make our life more colourful.

1 Dec 09

How doyou have to wait before the doctor can see you?

aprilten @aprilten (1966) • Philippines 29 Nov 09

Here in our country we need to wait long hours outside the doctor's clinic before the doctor can see us. Anywhere, it is that way. While it is posted on the clinic door that clinic hours is from 9 am to 12 noon, the doctor will...

check up

clinic ours

waiting in line

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zhanjian1987 Well,i don't know where you are from.And is it free for any guys to see doctor?? In China,you have to cost a fortune to see doctor even you just get a cold.And the same as you,we often have to wait for a long time line.

29 Nov 09

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I don't know how to deal with this unhappy life i am living

zhanjian1987 @zhanjian1987 (109) • China 29 Nov 09

Unfortunately,i am living an unhappy life.I just feel little happiness and even don't know how to make mysely happy. I am doing a job i don't like.It is so hectic but i have no guts to quit since it is getting harder and harder...

deal with

unhappy life

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zhanjian1987 yeah,i am in China.Where are you?

29 Nov 09

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Life with Out........

LetranKnight25 @LetranKnight25 (33121) • Philippines 27 Nov 09

hi guys, how are you there? i haven't been that active much even though am here everyday. i just wanted to know, what kind of life you would be having a life with out... Cellphones, and Computers. as for me, things are a...

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zhanjian1987 As for me,a sales man,life cannot be without cellphones and computers.I donnot think we will live a better life without them.

29 Nov 09

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I don't know how to deal with this unhappy life i am living

zhanjian1987 @zhanjian1987 (109) • China 29 Nov 09

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Chinese people is so lovely!!!!

xuhuihui @xuhuihui (70) • China 25 Nov 09

Once big thing will come ,all chinese will work together ! No matter whatever it is,disaster of nature or olypic or Expo !

chinese people

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zhanjian1987 yeah,i can't agree with you more! We all togethere to overcome any tribulations and difficulties.

28 Nov 09

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Are you always in a hurry?

sybil02 @sybil02 (185) • Philippines 24 Oct 09

Do you feel restless even if your resting..Do you get what I mean.. Your body is in state of steady but your mind is not..

hurry

restless

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zhanjian1987 yeah,i always feel so exhausted.And i can't fall a sleep quickly at night and it is very hard to get up in the morning.But i don't know how to deal with it! It is a big problem for me.

25 Oct 09

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Should Woman pay on First Dates?

fler @feodda (579) • Philippines 24 Oct 09

For me, on the First date the guy should be the one to pay for the bills. Unless for many dates you have with him, I should offer to pay for the bills. It not fair to let him pay all the time. It should be an equal treatment.

date

dating

first dates

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zhanjian1987 In China,man usually pay the bill when he has dinner with lady.It sounds a little unfair but most of men are willing to pay in order to make lady feel like that he is gentle and generous.Chinese men don't care too much about whether it is equal or not to pay...

25 Oct 09

Do you receive any junk e-mail from Mylot?

Chiniona @Chiniona (327) • China 25 Oct 09

Hi, there!Everything is OK?!! The sun is so good in fall! However, my happy mood fall down qiuckly when I open my e-mail, there are so many junk e-mail! It kills my time, it's so boring! But what can I do except for feeling...

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zhanjian1987 yeah,i usually encounter the same situation.But it is obviously not a big problem making me feel so boring.Just delete them,it is not the big deal.

25 Oct 09

What would you do when you are in a lousy mood?

Chiniona @Chiniona (327) • China 17 Oct 09

Hi,there! I'm a moonstruck boy! I may be happy this moment,but turn to be mourn next second!And the blue mood would be continue for a while or sevral days!I don't konw why? It's so boring! Every time when I'm blue,I always do...

blue mood

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zhanjian1987 How sentimental you are!!! Why not try to write and create some poems when you feel down.I do think it is a better way than have a sleep and wash.

22 Oct 09

Why men should buy flowers?

sasalove @sasalove (1709) • China 18 Oct 09

Among my male friends, most of them consider purchasing flowers to show love is cliche or commy or tacky. But most of my female friends would like to receive the suprised flowers. I am a little shy that I dont' want...

flowers

men

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zhanjian1987 I am a man who don't love to buy flowers to my beloved. i usually buy some useful gifts instead of things like flowers.

19 Oct 09

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do you know myLot.com estimate worth?

markanthonyuy @markanthonyuy (90) • Philippines 18 Oct 09

We all know that myLot is very generous for rewarding us every time we start a discussion, response to discussion, upload photos, submit blog, do tasks and referrals. But do you know how much myLot.com earn? Well thanks to us...

making money online

mylot

website

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zhanjian1987 i don't care too much about that! i just relax myself to post and response to discussion.i am having fun.That is important!I don't care about how much i can get and how much myot is worth!

19 Oct 09

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What's for Breakfast today?

Daddy Neil @neildc (17239) • Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines 18 Oct 09

Aside from normally cooked rice, combining with foods like sunny-side-up egg or hotdog or bacon or any easy to cook food, Filipinos also have "lugaw" (rice porridge) or "arroz caldo", "champorado" (rice cooked like lugaw, mixed...

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zhanjian1987 Breakfast is very important for anybody but people usually don't have breakfast regularly for various reasons. I do like to eat steamed buns with stuffing and drink soybean milk very much.I hate to eat junk food like hamburger etc.

19 Oct 09

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What makes man fall in love?

fler @feodda (579) • Philippines 18 Oct 09

Many say that when a man falls in love with a woman, he falls hard. What really make a man to fall in love? After the law of attraction and chemistry. What make him fall --and stay -- in love? What kind of woman does a man...

in love

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zhanjian1987 I just want to establish a warm family! The desire of building home makes me fall in love!

19 Oct 09

Christmas is coming...........

Rachel D Wentz @camomom (7535) • United States 18 Oct 09

Are your kids asking for gifts already? What are they asking for? My 3 year old has already been asking for gifts for about 3 months now. EVERYTHING she see's on TV, she wants. She collects My Little Pony toys. We actually...

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zhanjian1987 I am chinese and i have to point out that Christmas is becoming more and more popular to celebrate in China and we Chinese even forget our traditional days. However, i had never received any gifts at Christmas day and it is not very important for me to do...

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Are you superstitious???

zhanjian1987 @zhanjian1987 (109) • China 19 Oct 09

I guess that there should be lots of people who are a little superstitious in mylot. For me,as an Chinese,4 is an bad number which is unavoidable to be used in daily life,however,6 and 8 means good luck in Chinese.And clocks and...

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