You Can't Be Serious...................?

WTF????? That goes beyond retarded. That is just incredibly SICK! What the hell was this person thinking? Have they lost all of their faculties? I do hope that you catch up to this "person" and deal with them any damned way that you wish

I just can not believe there are such sick People about, have these People no heart, no compassion for others I just do not get it, how can someone be so cruel and cold hearted, I am sorry Spark, but I am speechless, I know there are nasty People about, but not to this extend, it makes me so mad I haven't got the energy to let Rip (sick again) but I will say this Whoever you are, you are one evil, nasty, cruel and terrible B

Not again??? Seriously, this is getting WAY beyond a joke now (not that it was ever one in the first place of course) I can understand your disgust and your anger 100% and I hope they're gone ASAP.

It would make me feel absolutely the same way that you do. I have not gotten a request from this person. If he or she is going down "her" list (our friends) then they will come to me as well. I will report this jerk too and find them or help in this effort to get rid of them. I have wondered for some time if the stalker you have is someone pretending to be your friend. But you and I have had so much going on as of late to bring this thought to your attention. I was going to when things settled down. It is so very sad that someone has the where-with-all and the guts to do something like this. it's a shame really. This person and others like him/her needs to just go some place else where this type of thing is okay...it is not okay here. I'm so sorry that this has happened to you. This is one of the main things you could have done without. We all can.

Daffy, This didn't happen to me but I am so angry. Send me an email and show me this persons name and what he did, please.I haven't spent as much time on Mylot as I want for physical reasons. I am so disgusted by this person very sick behavior. I'd be afraid to know what he does outside of Mylot and other internet sites. Mylot is the only site I go to for the most part. Take him down Daff. Once I get his user name, I'll be happy to help report him. Hugsss leenie

I need to review this with you to make sure i understand. You got a friend's request. I don't think I know what that is. From someone impersonating your deceased friend. So have they opened an account with her name? If so how did they find her name? If this is what happened, and really no matter what happened, I am sorry it upset you. Blesssings

this is very upsetting for you so sorry this happened hope Mylot can find them and ban them for good.

Are you freakin' serious? If you saw the discussion, I lost an online friend recently and it's freaky enough that somebody's using her computer and I can still see her online sometimes, but this really sux. I hope you DO track them down. Geez...

U go girl & get their sorry a$$. Thar is very sick, sorry & ridiculous. I don't understand how people can be so cruel but know that they can. I'm sorry, sparks, i know that had to be quite a shocker to u. If i can help- u out let me know.

poeple like this person are sick and need to taken off mylot my thought go out to the family of the person who is no longer with us and hope you get the person that has done this sick thing

Lordy. Well it's being delt with and the right people know what to watch. For crying out loud - don't people have anything better to do with their time???

that sick baztard is still pulling this crap why I would like to hang them up by their balls!

I have had some requests in here to add new friend, no emails though. I don't like how this happens, others praying on these heart felt times. There are others that may have just joined and chose that name. Now they wouldn't be emailing any of you for a add request, unless it was someone that just likes to inflict more pain into those that truly cared. I am sorry that someone is doing to you all. I pray that you all will be able to get through this and don't feed into this and become angry. Some times the best way to deal is not give it publication because that is just what some of these persons are looking for. The attention.

Ok after reading your discussion and at least half of the responses here I've done a bit of thinking and this is my suspicion. First please let me say I didn't get the honor of knowing Bella as I just joined mylot 3 months ago, and I am very sorry that a good person has passed on. I can tell Bella was a good person because I've been interacting with a few people that responded here to your discussion off and on now for 2 years over at yuwie and those few are awesome people too. From their responses it tells me that Bella was indeed a good person, and it's terrible that some wack job would take advantage of her passing this way. Now on to my suspicions. 1: It's someone that is very smart when it comes to computers and knows how to set trojans and viruses to spy on people and get their information, or an admin or staff member, or family member of Bellas that would have had access to her private email address and password. Reason I say this is because now when you join sites, many of them use that open id thing so that you can log into your email account via the site, and select your contacts that you want to invite. So whomever it is knows Bellas original email addy and password, they used that to get her contact list and have been working from there. 2: I believe there are laws against this and if I was her father I would be taking someone to court and pressing charges for stolen identity, impersination, harassment, whatever they can hammer this sicko with. 3: I understand completely your anger and frustration, this is just wrong on all levels for someone to do something like this. However for future reference you might want to leave things like "I have emailed admin about them. I have asked them to watch this discussion and take note of the people who report it. I have asked them to compare those names against my friends list" out of your discussion because now this wack job knows that you have contacted mylot, and they might be watching for him etc.. so he will be extremely careful not to get caught. There are still ways to catch him though. This is what should be done. 1: Her father or another relative that can handle matters regarding Bella needs to contact the internet crime complaint center. They work with the FBI in most cases. He needs to explain what happened and the proper authorities can then request that whatever site this person sent the invitation for, provide the ip address, and all proper computer identifying information to find out exactly who this person is and prosecute them. Here is the link to the Internet Crime Complaint Center. http://www.ic3.gov/default.aspx. 2: Everyone that received an invitation needs to take a screen shot of the invitation showing the date and time it was received. Then they need to email that to her father and he needs to keep it all on file so that if and when they do catch this person.. there is picture proof. 3: I also recommend he contact his local police department to see what kind of advice they might be able to offer. Good luck and I pray they catch this jerk and he or she gets what they deserve.

I think that is apretty lousy thing to do. I would think it was in very poor taste and should not be done at all. I think in this case the old adage proves true. "It takes all kinds." I dont know what their motivation could be for that.

That is sick. Who would want to do something like that? It is hurtful and brings up bad memories, and it's not funny at all. You're completely right and I hope you find out who did this! This person should be banned from the internet (which cannot happen...) or at least this site if possible. Sorry you had to experience this. Best wishes, and hope you find that demon who sent that out soon!

Hey sparks~ Just when I thought that people couldn't sink any lower. I don't go to any other sites except the Lot and this is just one of the reasons. I just don't trust them and putting too much personal info out there. I am so sorry to hear that some sicko would stoop so low as to use dear sweet Bella's name in vein. That is beyond sadistic and I do hope you find out who did it and make them pay! I am sorry that I won't be here to find out! I am leaving in one hour for the airport to go to Florida to see my Mom so this is the last discussion I will be able to respond to until I get back on 8/7! Please take care of yourseld and do let me know what happens. You have my email addy. There isn't any computer at Mom's, but I may try to get to the library to check in if possible. Hugs & Love, Opal

I can't beleive that some jerk is doing this AGAIN! How would I feel? I'd feel exactly as you do, disgusted and angry. Send me a link if you like and I will report it as well. I'm sorry that this person is tearing open barely healed wounds again, my thoughts are with you and all of Bella's friends and family who are targetted again by this new wave of cruelty.

Sparks- Send me a pm of the specifics please. As for what I would do? The very same thing you are doing. It is disrespectful, hurtful, and down right inappropriate (to keep it nice here and not violate TOS with words I cannot say). I am not sure what would possess someone to think that it was remotely humorous, it goes beyond "bad taste". I'm not sure what site it was on, but I'd report it to the head of the company, not just the traditional routes. I'd actually make a few phone calls. I would then file an FBI report, and provide them with all of the appropriate documentation. Have you and family notified local authorities? I assume you all have. I think you've done the right thing letting fellow Mylotters know exactly what was going on. Namaste-Anora

Could it be another person with the same name? I also understand identity theft but what could that person be trying to reap out of taking the name if it indeed is not their own?