what would you do if you came home and found your partner in bed with someone?

Dump him and leave at once without saying a word. I would move into my own place and block his number and block his email. It would hurt bad at first. But then I do believe in Kharma and that justice will be served.I always think what happens, happens for the best.So may be he was not good enough for me and so what happened, was meant to happen. :)

Wow this is a serious situation and I am not sure what I will do if the things happened to myself. I really am unsure because all this while my partner has been faithful to me. I have never imagined how I would feel if I find my partner in bed with someone. Maybe I will ask a divorce right away? Or put a bomb and explode the bed with them on it?

Hi. shhhelia. I will say, I hope she is as good as I was. I will slam the door and I will then call the police and tell them, that an intruder is in my house. After this, I will pack all of my things and my children things up. I don't want to stay with him any longer if he has cheated on me.

i would be upset. very upset i couldn't believe what i was seeing. apparently he doesn't love me enough to be faithful so i would be its better to find out then never. i would find a better man i don't need someone like that who will cause me so much heart ack, and yes that picture is worth a thousand words. hopefully i would get over that quickly and try to be more careful with my heart. i just can't give it to anyone.

I would kick the other guy's a** and I'd also break up with my wife!

huhhh..... tough situation that ud be...if i really had good relation wid ma wife n she had backstabbed me then i donno wha i do...will lev that case to my anger to handle... if i myself was fed up of her,then like a gentlemen i ud carefully walk out so as not to disturb them...n consult a lawyer n file divorce papers...

I do not have to worry about that yet. I am still a single and prefer to stay for some more years. But, yes, it surely would be disgusting and lead to ending of relationship if such a thing happens. When there is no faith in relationship everything else tends to fall apart and seems as a mere farce. No matter how many gifts he/she has given you and how many I love yous he/she has said seem to evaporate into thin air. Even if all these things are not present but there is true faith in each other the relations will exist for a long time and there will be an advantage to each one as they know each others strength and weaknesses and can complement it with their strengths.

I don't know, I think I might kill both of them