Do you blame other people ?
By ysobelle
@ysobelle (202)
Philippines
July 30, 2009 12:42am CST
Sometimes, but at the end of the day i still realize that I should not blame other people because whatever happen to us, it is still our choice.
Happy mylotting and God bless !
2 responses
@kevchua (1004)
• Malaysia
30 Jul 09
It's not good to blame others because if you blame one person, you've to blame all the rest connected to that person or to that incident. It's a cycle. When something bad happpens, find out the cause and look for a solution, preferably collaboratively so that the solution is obtained quicker. It's always been a human habit to blame others (except themselves) when things go wrong, not realising that sometimes, things just happen unexpectedly and no one is to be blamed. People who blame others are to a certain extent, cowards, because they're afraid to admit their mistakes.
Cheers!
@doinkyroinky (162)
• Philippines
30 Jul 09
Sometimes I do blame other people to veer away from examining my own failures but right now i am slowly beginning to change that coz I believe that before you can put the blame on others, one must first learn to deal with his own shortcomings and be able to turn those into positive ways of living and becoming a better person in the process.