Conjoined twins

@doryvien (2284)
United States
July 30, 2009 9:33am CST
I was watching a local news on TV, the report was about a mother who gave birth to a conjoined twins, the baby has two heads but one body. The doctors explained that the baby was supposed to be an identical twins (when a single fertilized egg in the mother's womb splits into two, the result is identical twins). In this case, the babies failed to develop fully, didn't separate and resulted in a baby having one body with two heads. The doctors are still trying to find out if they can be separated, one of the requisites is that both babies should have complete vital organs like the heart, kidney, liver, etc. I can feel the mother's pain while being interviewed by the media. I've read about other cases, most have two bodies joined together and save for some missing parts, they somehow look okay. Some have even managed to live normal lives. But this is the first time that I've seen one body with two heads. I jumped into thinking about how this child will deal with life when he becomes an adult. Let's face it, life is difficult enough for those who are physically okay, I can't imagine how it's gonna be for those who are not as fortunate like this baby. If you were the parent(s), would you want to see this baby grow just like any other kid? Or would rather lose it now and spare it from the harsh realities of life? Would you still think positively about the situation and hope that everything will be alright for your family and for the child in particular?
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
2 Aug 09
This is such a heart breaking thing for the family! I mean, it''s terrible having to deal with conjoint twins. You have to have lot of money to go for the surgery if at all that can make a better living for the two. To top that society comes with its taboo and stigma. Sad!! I work in a hospital and come across many parents who have kids with mal developed vales or holes in the heart. Sometimes the babes are born blue! In some cases, nothing could be done. Money has its limitations also. It doesn't work after a certain stage. I ask the families to give as much love and support as they can. That's the only way we can help the baby leave this world happily.
@doryvien (2284)
• United States
3 Aug 09
Hi Mimpi, This is one of the cases in which as you said, nothing could be done. One of the doctors handling the babies explained that this infirmity is something that just comes out, and it can't even be attributed to the mother's condition while pregnant - it's one of nature's imperfections, and science hasn't been able to pin down the true cause of this. With that information, I felt like - how could nature be so cruel to give such a challenge to a couple who couldn't even afford a doctor's check up? Can't think how the parents can even consider surgery when they don't even have enough money to buy milk for the babies. The doctors have announced already that it's not possible to separate them because they share internal organs and doing so will endanger both. Sometimes life is strange.
@seanbryan (349)
• United Arab Emirates
2 Aug 09
Hello doryvien! I actually share the same pain with the mother of the conjoined twins. It is really excruciating for somebody knowing that her child couldn't have a normal life like any other kid. Myself had gone through this agony at the early stage of my pregnancy a few months back when the doctor had announced that I am having a discordant fetal growth. One twin is suspected of a genetic aberration which means he or she is having a down syndrome or a chromosomal disorder. The thought had haunted me for quite some time that I never want to discuss it even with my husband. I was pondering how life can be so cruel, at one time it made us so excited having fraternal twins for my first pregnancy, the next time so depressing. But the reality of life somehow had ease the pain, eventually I was conditioned of the fact that still we are lucky having the other twin normal and if it is really god's will then we have to accept it. Several months after, the doctor found out the abnormal twin to be vanishing. My heart cried out but my husband had told me "if this is the best thing to happen then we should be grateful, we should lose the baby now or bring him out to the world only to suffer, at least we still have the other twin normal and this is great!". The lesson here is God will always find a way for the best thing to happen. As for the conjoined twins it would be better to leave them untouched if there is no way to separate them, let nature take its course....and HIS will be done....
@doryvien (2284)
• United States
2 Aug 09
Hi Seanbryan, This is such a heartwarming story. Not everyone is lucky to be blessed with children, some have to deal with the fact that they can never have one of their own. If only for that, us mothers should be grateful that we were chosen the bear children. On the child's infirmities in this case and yours, we can never question life or even God for that matter, we can only believe that everything happens for a reason. My heart goes out the mother of the conjoined twins, as well as to you, but I know that both of you will be strong for the sake of your babies. Thanks for sharing and this early, congratulations to you, and to your baby, welcome!
• United Arab Emirates
2 Aug 09
Thanks doryvien!
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
7 Aug 09
I really feel for the family. They must have lots of feelings felt and that can include worry, pain, fearful, very sad and many more. I am not an expert on health matters like this, but what I think is the right way to approach this is to consult closely with the doctors in question and to gain lots of opinions. Decisions can be crucial and it can affect or not..I hope the family is strong to pull this through.
@doryvien (2284)
• United States
7 Aug 09
Hi Zed, That's exactly how I feel for the family too. The parents cannot afford the treatments/surgery, and they have to rely on whatever the government and other non-gov't organizations can provide. Plus the twins cannot be separated because some internal organs are shared by both and doing so will just endanger their lives. Latest I've heard is that the parents will keep the baby despite it's infirmities, which is the best and only thing they could do for now.
• Philippines
7 Aug 09
Their is little hope for survival with this type of conjoined twins having two head in one body. i have seen a lot of conjoin twins but only their flesh are the on attach in their body like the head or the side body and they are lot of success surgeries. This is really a rarest types of conjoined twins..sad to say the family must choose to sacrifice the other twins to let the other twin survives. It is hard to grow and live with two head..life may be both difficult for them..my sincerest prayers for their recovery from emotional distress and financial help ..my wish will pour abundantly..
@doryvien (2284)
• United States
7 Aug 09
Hi neelia, This is the first time I've seen this kind of conjoined twins, and maybe you're right, this is the most difficult case because there is little possibility of being separated, and a slim hope of having normal life for both babies. Days after the babies were born some expert said cases like this don't live long, but it seems he was wrong as they are now doing fine now. I've seen a video on you tube of a girl with two heads and she seem to live a normal life. I hope these babies will have the same chance at life.