How would you react if you find out that your best friend is messing with you partner

Nigeria
July 30, 2009 10:34am CST
Who are you gonna hold responsible or blame,is it gonna be your friend or lover and what will be your next action?
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6 responses
@ledydien (85)
• Indonesia
31 Jul 09
I absolutely blame both of them... Angry to both of them... for all the fake behind me... and i absolutely dont want to meet them again
• Indonesia
3 Aug 09
yeah i know... and i already end that kinda feeling... I already meet my real soulmate and married:)
• Nigeria
1 Aug 09
I will advice you to take it easy with both of them.You leave both of them to continue with the relationship while you search for you own spouse
• United States
30 Jul 09
I would end it with my partner, and freak out on my friend, and then, I would never talk to either one of them!
• United States
30 Jul 09
I'm def in agreement with you on this one. Both are to blame because they both should know that each are OFF LIMITS! No if and or buts! So NO EXPLANATION could possibly do. I wouldn't talk to either one if this happens.
• Nigeria
1 Aug 09
What if you cant withstand the strength of your friend when it comes to fighting.I dont think that is the best thing to do.Thanks for your responce
• India
1 Aug 09
Feel very sad, that this is happening to me, and avoid them both, from my life for ever and will never forgive both of them even if they beg for forgivness.
@Elixiress (3878)
23 Aug 09
I would blame them both as it takes two to tango, but I would be more angry at my friend than my partner. As a girl, there is a "friends code" that you do not do anything with your friend's boyfriend or even ex-boyfriend without asking to make sure that it is okay first. I would finish my partner for cheating, but it wouldn't make any difference whether he was cheating with my friend or a stranger.
@srganesh (6340)
• India
1 Aug 09
Both should be blamed for having that immoral relationship,in the first hand.Second comes you who could not judge the character of your friend and partner and allowing them to have a meeting.Last and final thing to do is just forget them both and leave them to enjoy their fate and look for another nice partner.Cheers!
• Nigeria
1 Aug 09
There is no how you are gonna have a spouse without introducing him or her to your best friend.I agree with your choice of looking for a new partner.THANKS
• Philippines
31 Jul 09
lol omg.. i wish it will not happen... well, i will not going to blame anyone of them coz i cant hold the future... i will still going to treat them nicely, they will be the one to feel guilty and will be the one to feel not comfortable with me.. if i will look miserable then that will only means that i let them win and be happy... so since they treated me that way then i will reverse it... i want them to feel the pain.. and i will having fun..
• Nigeria
1 Aug 09
You have a nice heart and i think i will live by your example.I love your response and i am really grateful