Line Up Forms on the Left to Slap Sparks Upside the Head........
By Sparks
@sparkofinsanity (20471)
Regina, Saskatchewan
July 30, 2009 1:48pm CST
The mystery of the account on another website, from which invites were sent to friends and family of our beloved deceased friend here has now been solved.
I have been contacted by the person responsible, and my bad, but it was an honest mistake on their part and NOT intended to cause anyone any pain.
I over reacted. My apologies. My only excuse is that it was such a shock and as my own grieving for our bella is not yet complete, I let my Irish run away with me.
So that means the user who showed up admitting to being responsible is truly a troll and still has a sick sense of humor by admitting to being responsible for (in the trolls case) deliberately hurting people in this way. The REAL person responsible is NOT a troll however and my apologies to them for all the fuss.
So a big lesson learned here by me at least. Before I react to things that I perceive to be the work of trolls, I will step back and watch and wait and see how it plays out before I get on my high horse again.
Like I said.........line up forms on the left to slap Sparks upside the head. Who's first? LOL
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@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
30 Jul 09
You got that right! ROFL
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@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
30 Jul 09
You get 'left' a lot don't you frank? LOL
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
31 Jul 09
No slaps but am throwing Doobies and brownies at you..lmao...
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@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
31 Jul 09
Well BR to you for showing some sound good sense!
THANK YOU!
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@AnnieOakley1 (5596)
• Canada
31 Jul 09
Now that's the best idea I've heard in weeks. I'll 2nd that! I know I could sure use some.
*goes off to find her doobie*
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
31 Jul 09
I am really confused on what just happened here but you will only get hugs from me, Sparks. {{{{HUGS}}}}}}. I'm sure you remember not to long ago when I over-reacted to someone that I thought was dissing Bella. I felt so bad. You were so sweet. Be easy on yourself and stop inviting slaps on your little head!
@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
1 Aug 09
No worries sweets, it's all sorted now and yes I remember when you.............and we got that sorted too. All's well that ends well, though my head isn't so little anymore with all the slaps I've gotten that have made it swell up! ROFL
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@cynicalandoutspoken (4725)
• United States
31 Jul 09
After slapping you they can slap me, but my head has suffered enough trauma they are going to have to take the paddle to my behind.
Had I just sucked it up and called to verify it would have been clear from the start.
My apologies to you for allowing the situation to go unchecked.
@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
1 Aug 09
Oh cyn.......no slaps for you at all! I'm pretty sure I understand where your head is at.....I was going to let it go as we discussed, until I saw Barry's name and comment on the profile and that's when I lost it. So few words, but such pain in what he said I couldn't ignore it. So the slaps all go to me ok?
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@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
31 Jul 09
Hey, with things that go on the way they do it's an honest mistake. You've said your sorries and honestly woman, you just like the head slappen! 
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@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
1 Aug 09
Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! You're giving away state secrets! LOL
I be a head banger from away back, I be, I be! ROFL
Growing up with brothers it's inevitable! LOL
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@olydove (1209)
• United States
31 Jul 09
Sparks no need for slapping sweets, you went off like you did out of love for your dear friend and I would have done the same exact thing as would have millions of other people. It's very brave of you to admit your mistake and apologize here like you are and you have my total respect for that ( Not that my respect matters more than anyone else's LOL but hey we can all use a little right? )
So, have your pint, hide from the slaps and make sure you have plenty of Tylenol for tomorrow morning ROFLMAO!
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@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
1 Aug 09
Man did I have a migraine last night! LOL
And your respect DOES SO mean a lot! Respect is a precious gift we give, and you certainly have mine after the lovely comment you left for mandor......
Seeing Bella's real name like that, after such a time, and then seeing how her father reacted on the website, I just couldn't let it slide on by and not do anything, but I am so glad it turned out the way it did and we DON'T have a troll...
Hugs......
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@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
30 Jul 09
Me too Gabs.
And in a way I think the 'fuss' I caused brought the person responsible forward and now we can move on. A silver lining in every cloud don't you know! lol
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@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
30 Jul 09
It's a gift..................LOL
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@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
30 Jul 09
Leave it to Sparky to flush out the silver lining!!! 
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@Riptide (2756)
• United States
31 Jul 09
I can't slap you upside the head, my hand still hurts from slapping my lazy coworkers upside the head LOL.
You made an honest mistake, because you were shocked and hurt. I think it's very big of you to admit it.
But that troll, who I missed, still needs an azzwhooping LOL.
But that troll, who I missed, still needs an azzwhooping LOL.@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
31 Jul 09
Oh, come on, you can do it! We always one more slap left in our hand! LOL
As for the troll...........turns out even the troll was a phony troll! ROFL
Like, can we spell irony folks?
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@moondancer (7433)
• United States
31 Jul 09
Can I just give you a much needed hug instead? It was a harrowing thing for you to find that in your inbox. I do not know anyone else that would have reacted any differently.
We all make mistakes sometimes, at least you are making it right.
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@moondancer (7433)
• United States
31 Jul 09
You give good hugs too, yes of course you make good on mistakes. You would not be you if you did not. lol
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@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
1 Aug 09
Thanks sweets. You're the best in my book too! Love you.......
@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
31 Jul 09
I always try to make good on my mistakes.............so thanks for noticing that sweets. And I'll accept the hugs..........you give such GOOD hugs!
@AnnieOakley1 (5596)
• Canada
31 Jul 09
I'll be first. But I'll kiss it better right afterwards.
*HUGS*
We are all human. We all make mistakes.
It takes a big person to admit it right away. So you are big in my eyes sweetie.
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@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
1 Aug 09
Uh........Annie? I know we're good friends and all, but kissin' cousins we ain't. Just how stoned are you?
ROFL
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@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
31 Jul 09
You're the first one to offer to kiss it better afterwards, so I'll let you get in a slap or two, or three or four, if I get a kiss for each one! LOL Hugs to you..
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@AnnieOakley1 (5596)
• Canada
31 Jul 09
I'll give you 2 for each then. So, I go to the front of the line now, then?
*giggles*
Cool!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
30 Jul 09
OH knock it off. We all jump to wrong conclusions. But you can slap yourself if it will make you happy.
@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
30 Jul 09
LOL Did you see the tags on this discussion? Already have slapped myself. LOL
@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
30 Jul 09
OMG, that will make her ever soooo happy!!! We can't be making Sparky happy...may I slap her for you??? 
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@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
31 Jul 09
Oh yes please, do elbow that pushy LadyM out of first place! I've quite the headache from all her slaps! ROFL
@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
1 Aug 09
A knuckle noogie?
Oh my poor aching butt.............though I'm actually surprise you could find it Jerz! ROFL
@tamarafireheart (15384)
•
30 Jul 09
Hi spark,
Oh, spark, you always have good attention so no need to slap you upside down on the head, lol Love and hugs.
Tamara
xxxx
@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
31 Jul 09
Gosh, love and hugs to you too tamara. You always, always make me feel better with so few words.
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@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
30 Jul 09
ME, ME, ME I hope!!! I'm responding from my email so I can't see who has responded!!! (Slaps Sparky 3 times....for good measure!!!)
I'm responding from my email so I can't see who has responded!!! (Slaps Sparky 3 times....for good measure!!!) 3 people like this
@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
30 Jul 09
Why am I not surprised that YOU would be the first to slap me huh? ROFL
I haven't named the person, and I won't because it was an honest mistake on their part.
And by the way...................OUCH!
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@TheGreatWhiteBuffalo (4822)
• United States
31 Jul 09
Let me guess that someone is planning to build a site so that others get to Know Bella and then they can help her children???
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@TheGreatWhiteBuffalo (4822)
• United States
2 Aug 09
I'll look again but I do think that I was already there a while ago...
@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
31 Jul 09
Glad to find out your "mystery" was solved...still confused though...just emailed you to find out more....as for slaps???
I just wish the Lady wouldn't be hogging the front of the line....I'm trying to get to you to slap you silly but she's determined to be first--so if I can ever get her to move out of the way...I have a good bit of slapping and flinging wet noodles at ya...want some pasta sauce with those noodles?
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@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
31 Jul 09
Got the email and responded...........
Hold the sauce, but yes please, more noodles! LOL
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
30 Jul 09
noT ME SPARKS, wHAT U DID & SAID WAS STRAIGHT FROM YOUR HEART W/THE LOVE U FELT FOR BELLA. i'M GLAD U FOUND OUT WHAT WAS GOING ON. wISH WE ALL COULD STRANGLE THE TROLL. hE IS ONE SICK A$$HOLE.If u find out who he is i will help u strangle him.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
31 Jul 09
Does that mean that I may not have a horrible person on my friend’s list? Whew…That’s a relief!
I can’t slap you! You care so much Sparks and if that’s a fault then you are guilty as charged!
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@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
1 Aug 09
I confess,
I made the mess,
But it's ok,
We saved the day............
Ok, I'm no rhyming poet, but you get the gist.
Thanks sweets.
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@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
31 Jul 09
Hahahahaha just like that video that the lamb posted on his account, about a burglar apologizing to the house owner when he failed to steal his laptop and xbox. well, you always extent your observation before you conclude if that person is a devil troll or not.@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
31 Jul 09
Hi Letran........I look at it this way: If I didn't make mistakes this site wouldn't be nearly so much fun! ROFL
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