Do you have a Deep Dark Secret?
By patofgold23
@patofgold23 (5069)
Philippines
July 30, 2009 7:55pm CST
Have you done something in the past that you never told anyboby???
Is there a secret you are so ashamed to tell anybody about, not even your best friend, for fear she/he might not totally understand you, or look at you differently?
Have you done something really terrible you'd rather forget and not tell a soul about it?
Do you wish to keep that secret forever...? Or finally let go of it.......
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8 responses
@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
31 Jul 09
Hi there!
I believe everyone has secrets. I for one have a secret. But I did told a good friend of mine and a relative about it. I felt it's ok to tell those people my secret cause I trust them fully and they will not tell anyone. It was during the time when I needed to talk to someone, yes, to finally let it go and it was a relief.
Ciao!
@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
31 Jul 09
true, it does bring some kind of relief when you let out something you've been dying to shout out for years but hesitant to do for fear of consequences if people find out about your secret
@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
31 Jul 09
you should be thankful you have trusworthy people around you
@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
31 Jul 09
wow..i didn't know there are still people like you in this world... makes me feel like I'm a very bad person - LOLZ - i have deep dark secrets, that is
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
31 Jul 09
Wow, that is a powerful question! Have I done some terrible things in the past that I am so ashamed of that I would not want to tell anyone? I am an honest person, so yes I have. Thankfully God is very forgiving and I can now live with myself. It is unfortunate that not all of us have been taught right from wrong in early childhood and that some have been exposed and influenced by shameful things. Thankfully in later life I found the Bible and started to make positive changes in my life. I can tell you that I really enjoy having a good clean conscience. So now I work hard to keep things that way. I love going to bed at night and able to approach my Maker and speak to Him about the things of the day. Good days lead to a good night of sleep. good is good!
@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
31 Jul 09
you're right thre hopeful! you do sleep well when your conscience is clear
@windymyre (210)
• United States
31 Jul 09
I DO have a secret! How did you know?? :) I have never came out & told anyone, but I think my closest friends have an idea but have never said anything to me about it. If they ever came out & asked me about it, I think I would admit it though. I'm not ashamed & quite frankly, I'd do it again! It was something I did for me & if you don't make yourself happy in life, no one is going to do it for you!
@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
31 Jul 09
hi windy!!! everybody has secrets I guess...
I really like your respons...I guess your friend don't want to bring it up to you for fear she might hurt your feelings in any way, she's just waiting for you to open it up to her yourself...she sounds like a good friend.
I'm not ashamed about some of the things I did in the past too... and you're right about making yourself happy, coz no one would do it for you...we're the only ones who truly knows what's best for us.
other people won't understand unless they are in our shoes.
@muyue0416 (2)
• China
28 Sep 09
Maybe everybody have somethings don't want to tell others, no matter what is right or wrong. Along the age is increasing, the impressure about those things will be changed or you will speak them out or share them with others easily.If you really did some things make you fear to tell anyone, please don't worry, you could tell God and remind youself to do something compensate for them, so that you could fell better than before.
Every things will go, please take care of everything and very people around you, you will be more happier.
@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
hi muyue..thanks a lot... you are actually with everything you said there...
i do appreciate that............
take care..
and happy mylotting!
@aejey322 (1004)
• Philippines
3 Dec 12
Yes I have a secret that I have never disclosed to anybody even to my closest friend... and until now... Because just like you said, I am afraid nobody will understand me. Because I myself have not even understand my own self why I was feeling that way before. But it's not really something terrible, and it's already clear to me now, so it's not an issue anymore. When I was a teenager, I had this personality dilemma. But now I know who I am. So I'd rather have it kept and buried in the past...