Does a cheater BF/GF/HUSBAND/WIFE can really change?
By arunmails
@arunmails (3011)
India
July 31, 2009 8:16pm CST
What do you think about cheating? Does really a cheater can change and live like a good one?
If a Boy Friend of a Girl/Girl Friend of a Boy/Husband of a Wife/Wife of a Husband have a wrong relationship with another one cheating their dear, is it possible for them to leave such relationship and start a new life with their dear ones?
Write your views about it, surely it will help me and others...
4 responses
@CraftyCorner (5600)
• United States
2 Aug 09
Real change is rare in cheaters. Such is done after much soul searching and usually in therapy. The one cheated on also is in need of help in order not to repeat the pattern of being in a cheated on relationship. The watch word is dysfunction.
@CraftyCorner (5600)
• United States
4 Aug 09
It is sad, but it isn't hopeless, at least there is help to be had.
@ericajoyce (1746)
• Philippines
2 Aug 09
Hello arunmails. I dont approve of cheating. Why would a person cheat on his/her partner if he/she loves her/him so much? People should not cheat on their partners. If they want to end the relationship better do it in a proper way than cheat on your partner. Yes, I believe they can change just as long as they as sincere in changing their old ways. Anything is possible as long as they believe.
@arunmails (3011)
• India
4 Aug 09
Who will approve cheating, even the cheater will not accept cheating him...
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
1 Aug 09
..well, sure I do.. I believe everyone deserves a second chance.. But first, they have to learn a lesson from that mistake so they won't do it again.. life can really be unfair sometimes.. but we have to be strong to face the reality.. there's no perfect life.. there always be challenges to be meet.. Cheating is the terrible thing that could happen in a relationship.. that's why we have to be wary about it.. but if we want our partner to be true to us, then let's be true to them..
@arunmails (3011)
• India
4 Aug 09
You are telling that probably there will not be a purest person here...
@savypat (20216)
• United States
1 Aug 09
No if he/she cheats on someone else you can bet they will cheat on you. Also I think that if your relationship is going through a rough patch they are more likely to cheat.
