ok here's one for wife to answer strip clubs ?

I would go mad not our thing at all.He does not need to look at other womans bodies and letch over them ,I don't go and watch men strip either we are quite happy with each other.I always feel if you need that type of thing you are with the wrong partner.

I'll be honest, I would have a problem with it. Even if it was only once in a blue moon. I think it depends on the people involved. I'm an insecure person and he's a person who can be easily tempted. Based on crap that has happened in the past he wouldn't be able to go. Yea, your right about going where you want cuz you're a grown man and all but if it was a problem with your wife would you still go knowing that it could potentially cause problems within the marriage?

I wouldn't want my husband going there. Heck, he doesn't need to go to those things...he's got me! LOL Seriously though, I know I can't stop him if he wanted to go to a strip club, but I would appreciate him respecting my wishes and not go. And if he did go, I'd turn the table on him and go see Chippendales (not to be confused with Chip 'n Dale, the chipmunks LOL), because I know he would hate that idea. For those of you that aren't familiar with Chippendales (and even those of you that are), here's a link so you can check them out: http://www.chippendales.com/the_men/index.php So syankee, does your wife go to strip clubs that cater to the ladies (in other words, male strip clubs)? And in not, how would you feel about her going to them, knowing there are hot sexy men there?

Allow? Like my husband would allow or disallow and if he tried, it would not work. It is entertainment. I would rather he did that and I knew it than be sneaky but my husband does really like them. I have taken him to strip clubs, for fun, and he is just not into it, but if he was, I would have no problem with it. Of course, if he spent too much time doing it and it affected our lives, that would be different, but that would be different with anything that is excessive. Apparently she is very insecure.

It's fine with me if my hubby goes wherever he wants to go, I don't ask many questions, so he's the one to tell me where he had gone, I trust him and in many years that we are married I have not encountered a single problem regarding other women. He went out with his friends and I do the same, and then we go out together, that's the way we treated each other.

I'm not yet married, but I'd freak out if my boyfriend goes to a strip club. That's because my boyfriend and I have a very exclusive relationship. Your sister-in-law doesn't have the right to freak out, and you also don't have the right to laugh at her. What is allowed and not allowed in a relationship depends on the couple. What is right for one couple may not be right for another. It all depends on a couple's agreement. That's why people should get everything straight before going into a relationship.

yeah.. I'm so happy for you that your wife is as open minded as me! Hahaha.. Honestly I don't find any reason why my husband cannot go to a strip club... just as long as he knows his limits.. I feel that its okay for him to enjoy his time with his friends and have fun, if going to a strip club is one of them and then he can go, but of course there should be limits, yeah like the lap dance thing, I don't think he should have one and also that he cannot 'take out' a girl on the strip club for a little one on one fun, if you get my drift. If its only to enjoy the time with his buddies, then I don't think there's anything wrong with that. And I do have to know where he's going and who's he with. but I'm on of the lucky gals though, my husband doesn't like going to strip clubs, even if his friends invite him, he declines, he'd rather go out and go to an eat all you can restaurant (LOLz)

No I wouldn't tell my Hubby he isn't allowed to go but I wouldn't like it if he did. I would probably get the same attitude from him...he wouldn't like me going but he wouldn't refuse to let me. I really don't get the attraction of strip clubs...I went to one before Hubby and I met and mostly it was gay men dancing. Women were drunk off their butts and acting like idiots. I doubt it's lesbians in mens strip clubs but then I don't think the men are actually getting any from these women, just window shopping I guess you could say. [b]**AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~[/b]

I am not married, but i would have no problem "allowing"..errm..i can't even yse that word with a straight face, let me try again..i would have no problem with it at all if my boyfriend informed me that he was going to a strip club. It's fun, it's exciting, and it is harmless! I would actually think it quite amusing if he told me he wanted to go *lol* But i would insist he come home and tell me all about it since i would be missing out *lol* Yes, i'll com out and admit it....i am a female who enjoys going to strip clubs...an no...not male strip clubs either..(though i have been to a few all male revues, and those have always been amusing). I have a group of three or four other girls that i get together with a couple times a year and make a girls night out with of going out for dinner, then to the strip club. No, we don't shy away and sit at one of the back tables either....seats right at the stage, piles of dollars bills ready and waiting. And before you even ask, we are all straight, but we also all can still enjoy the sexiness of another womans body...and the way they dance...amazing. We're all envious. A couple of them (no, not me) have even participated in amateurs night. It is fun, and i actually think the girls that work their like seeing us there too. We always seem to get a little bit of "extra" attention from them....i don't know if they just like to play up to us girls cause it gets the guys there more excited, or if they just appreciate being appriciated as opposed to being ogled over all the time. anywho...i have ranmbled enough now *lol*

i think i won't allow my husband to go to strip clubs either. Most of wives won't let them go either. Do i made no trust on him ? No no i do trust in him very much but i think that place is not fit for him to go . There are a lot tempt there and he might get drunk and then hurt by others . Who knows what will happen for a drunken guy ?

Eh, I don't care if my man goes to the strip club. He's not going to sleep with them or anything. Besides he might be really turned on when he gets home, and that is where he comes, home. Not to some glittered up stripper, but to me. If he wants to see me jump around in my underwear he's got to give me a dollar too =P So he might as well go have some fun watching someone else do it, and then we can have fun when he comes home =) I don't mind, he would probably ask, but he also knows I would say yes. Not really a big deal.