do you get upset if someone else check out your spouce or b/f or gf
By syankee525
@syankee525 (6261)
United States
August 1, 2009 8:36pm CST
ok i hear this all the time, man i wanted to kick this butt because he was looking at my wife or girl. or i wanted to kick this chick butt because she was checking out my man. how stuipd.
now i tell them there is no reason to get upset over this, unless they are laughing at them, or the dude trying to like pick up thier woman up.
ok to me if someone is looking at my wife and checking her out i take it as compliment i dont get upset. i am yeah that right she's all my
so you get upset when other people check out your wife, g/f, or husband or b/f.
to me as long they aren't trying to pick them up, it like thanks i got good taste for sure
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18 responses
@Ingkingderders (3832)
• Philippines
2 Aug 09
I think it's a good thing if people are checking out your partner, I mean this tells a lot about your taste right?! LOL. Anyway, I don't stress myself when someone looks at my boyfriend, sometimes I even tease him about it.. I'm not really protective of him, because that is how I want him to be with me also.. Sometimes we even do, boy or girl watching.. we would comment if a girl or a boy really looks good, or has a good body.. I think that makes our relationship more open, and the communication lines are always good..
@BambooPanda13 (867)
• United States
2 Aug 09
Lol I tease my man about it too. But mostly because I'm bi and I'll say stuff like, "Oh wow, she is so hot, and she is checking you out." But he never turns around or anything, he's so sweet. He just says stuff like, "I don't care, I got you." =P Then we get all mushy and lovey lol
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@BambooPanda13 (867)
• United States
2 Aug 09
No, because I know he's sexy too, but I'm the one his arm is around, so I just think "yeah you wish." And besides, when I look at him, he's not looking at them, he's looking at me. And if guys are looking at me, he thinks that is a good thing, cuz he thinks I look good, and he knows I'm his, not some other guy.
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@milagrosdavila47 (107)
• United States
2 Aug 09
I won't front I used to get pissed when someone checked out my man. After 8 years though it's kind of a game now. He'll be like get away you're messing up my game and of course I'll make a big show about his kids this and his kids that calling him honey and stuff like that. Now if you step up to him and start trying to talk nonsense then yea we gonna have some words cuz that is straight up direspectful.
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@anoop_ultimates (69)
• India
2 Aug 09
hey i really get upset about that.But still its something which I cant do anything about it.I am really possesive abt my girlfriend so i hate if someone looks to checkout my girl friend
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
2 Aug 09
I should be proud that someone has the interest to look at my partner despite his not too handsome face. We can't stop the roving eyes from looking at our partners. Doesn't it tell you that you have made the right choice in choosing him/her. Others will only set their eyes on beautiful people so it only proof that we got a good catch in our partner as others are admiring them too. There is nothing wrong with it as I know at the end of the day he comes back to me. 
@sarafii74 (106)
• Australia
2 Aug 09
Hello, syankee. Ok, I don't want to admit this but.....yes, at the very begining, I was very very worry about some other girls will rob my boy. And he as well, also upset because other boys were looking at me.
After several months, we've already used to each other, and there is nothing happended. We get quite well to each other and no worry about this kind of stupid thing any more.
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@suzzy3 (8341)
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5 Aug 09
I think it is a compliment from a stranger.We are just so close we tell each other ,you've pulled I say.He just laughs it does do his ego good and keeps me on my toes.It is the same for me ,it is nice to see another man fancy me.No touching is our motto ,just smile and walk on ,if someone comes up to me ,my husband is soon by my side introducing himself,not that it happens much these days ,getting old now.I think everyone is flattered by someones attention if they are honest.My husband says he has good taste as well,he says he is the luckiest man in the world,and yes I say, you are.
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
2 Aug 09
yeah touching then i would have an issues. but when my wife and i were dating we went to the ocean and it was night time so we're sitting on these boxes on the beach and these two guys came up and started to talk to my wife. so i sat up and was like thank i think she's hot too. yep they ran. lol.
@mimuche (163)
• Canada
3 Aug 09
I truly believe there is no reason to get upset over such things. Me and my boyfriend have turned this matter into more of a competition as to who gets more of it. And whoever does pays for the dinner. You are right, it is way better to take it as a compliment. I think when you have enough confidence and trust in your relationship there is no room for doubt or getting angry over such things.
I agree with you. I want to scold them.You may have a pretty girlfriend or wife.If My spouse is smart and handsome so that i will pretend blind eyes when someone else check out my spouse.
@jaizhi (260)
• Philippines
2 Aug 09
I would say it depends on how they are checking my husband... LOL if they are jsut looking it okay with me. Sometimes I even envy them more by hugging and kissing my husband. Showing them that I own this man and you can just droule with envy. LOL but if they are checking out my husband like provoking or ahowing their stuff or really making moves to show their interest that when I get pissed of but still the only thing I can do is make them jealous.
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
2 Aug 09
yeah i agree if they were strangers then i would have issues. but we got good friends we all give each other hugs. and one older give my wife a kiss on the cheeck which is cool since he's like a second dad.
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@Striker7 (5)
• United States
2 Aug 09
It's one of those things you don't have a lot of control over in my opinion. I say just let it go in most cases because it's not really worth getting mad over. It's okay to be bothered a little, but it is true that you can take it as a compliment about your taste. Also, sometimes people might mistaken someone "checking out" their b/f or g/f for the person just looking in that direction or something. I know if I'm just standing or walking around I look at most of the things around me as well.
@tweety007121 (57)
• India
2 Aug 09
yes, i used to. But now i don't mind as....1. i cant control everybody's eyes, 2. It makes me feel proud that i have something that others only covet.
@sommercoker (3)
• United States
2 Aug 09
It definately bothers me if someone is checking out my husband...Maybe that is weird to some people...I guess I am just an insecure person...
