If your relation don t work any more, you will try a new one, again and again?
By marianna45
@marianna45 (1399)
Romania
August 3, 2009 1:36am CST
If your relation will failed, you will have courage to try again and again until you find a good relation, right person, or just give up and never try again?
Do you think that if somebody are not lucky in a relation, will be in the next relation?
I don t think, in my opinion, if you try to have a good relation, but this relation is not good, next will be same...maybe because of you, maybe because of other person.
5 responses
@babyfiona08 (652)
• Philippines
3 Aug 09
If a relationship is no longer healthy and not working, I think the best thing to do is to end up and let each other go no matter how difficult and painful it could become. And, it's not wrong to try again but of course in the perfect timing. I think a relationship's success depends on the persons involved. There's no such thing as perfect relationship. What's important and what really matters is to understand each other, accept each one's flaws, understand each weaknesses and respect each one's ideas.
I've been in relationship before, it's no longer working, we ended up after being together for almost 3 years. Then, after couple of months, I decided to be in a relationship again and I have no regrets for doing such because I think I found the right person who can understand me in all my ways. And now, we're almost 2 years together. I'm glad, I've found someone as understanding and patient as him. It is really worth the try I did from the very start and I'm happy I've made the decision of trying to enter in a relationship again. Because If I didn't, I know I'd missed many things and times with the one who loves me so much.
@angel_rain (271)
• Philippines
3 Aug 09
I will not hop from one relationship to another.Being hurt by a relationship doesn't heal that fast.I think I will have to wait for the right person to come along.But I will not look for that person,I will wait.
@sophie_dfuss (2365)
• Philippines
3 Aug 09
There are times that a certain relationship may not work because of incompatability of the partners. I used to have many failed relationsips in the past and most after that, it takes some time for me to get in to a new relationship again. I just came from a failed relationship lately, I am not thinking of getting into a new relationship that soon but my ex-boyfriend has a new girl by now. Most of the time, my partners have cheated on me so I don't go back to my ex-bf even if they want to start all over again.
@kevchua (1004)
• Malaysia
3 Aug 09
Personally, yes I would as long as I'm still capable of doing it. Life is like that; when something doesn't work, you try again, and you've to keep trying till it works. But when it comes to relationship, sometimes you've to put a fullstop. For me, I wouldn't want to pursue a relationship when I reach 50 years old - it's a personal choice. To me, looking for a relationship is not like inventing a product.
@angime (87)
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3 Aug 09
Maybe if still single or not yet married maybe find another one, try if the relationship will work. But as for me if already married i will do all my best to work out good the relationship.