Would you help someone who has hurt you?
By riani2009
@riani2009 (581)
Indonesia
August 6, 2009 1:45am CST
If you have a powerful position would you help someone who had hurt you? Do you think the person who has helped someone who has hurt you is a powerful person?
6 responses
@vklancer (135)
• India
6 Aug 09
it depends,like some people are too close to you,for example my sister has hurt me sometimes and even i have hurt her on few occasions but still we help each other.
sometimes in a hurry we might say something that hurts others feelings and similarly we might get hurt for something our loved ones say.
but if someone hurts repeatedly then i would not help that person
@riani2009 (581)
• Indonesia
10 Aug 09
You are right. Opportunity to forgive someone takes time and process. I like the wise words say "to forget and forgive". How can we become a person who is easily to forget hurts and easily forgive the person who has hurt us.
@grace12bueno (140)
• Philippines
4 Sep 09
Yes, i would love to.
I am not the kind of person that bury hatred in my heart. And I believe in the saying that "cast a bread to the one who cast you a stone."
I think doing good deeds to the one who hurt you is much better to do. It is one way for him to be guilty why he have done you bad things. And he will come up in realization not to do it again.
@sritrinity (629)
• India
6 Aug 09
If the person who hurt me was remorseful and admitted the error of his ways, I would definitely help him.
@ssjf2009 (43)
• China
6 Aug 09
this nothing like hitting big brother from an early age,do not help each other the same?exchange of blows friendship grows a lot of good friends are their!Occasionally even hurt you!In their most difficult times will help him,and this is the so-called man!Real man!
@tintukm (1102)
• India
20 Aug 09
People aren't rated by their appearance for sure,any one who has troubled us anytime anywhere,and all of a sudden if he/she requires a very urgent help from our side then we must decide on what kind of a person he really is even though he as given us pain or sadness.Helping is to be done to anyone who's in need,still judging on a person with previous bad experience would need a lot of thinking ,it depends on what way the person has had bad experience with us the last time.If helping him/her solves the case then I would surely say help help help...For the guy to change that would be good.
@Robin114 (23)
• United States
20 Aug 09
I have been known to help people that has hurt me, that is because I am soft hearted and silly, I say anyone that help people that hurt others should really step back and think, that same person that I helped did not change they still hurt people and when they are in a position to help others they don't, just think twice before you do it, 9 times out of ten that person will not change.
