All those Questions.....unanswered
By sukumar794
@sukumar794 (5040)
Thiruvananthapuram, India
August 7, 2009 4:51am CST
Wouldn't it be irksome in realizing that none of your questions about life's sway remain unanswered? When will it happen....Where am I heading for..... Will things be alright.....Who will come to my rescue....Which opportunity will come to me .....Whose pity will be showered unto me . ???? Scores of such Wh- questions dawn on us everyday. Aren't we groping in the dark, trying to find answers to these and many more pressing Questions ??????
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@slickcut (8141)
• United States
7 Aug 09
Actually we don't know the answers to all these questions...We cannot look into the future & really "Know" what the answers are...I feel it is best not to actually worry about such things but use each day as it comes, each day holds something new...When the time comes that you need pity, and the days are dark & we do not know where we are going,,,,someone will step up to the plate & take over, and it may be someone you least expect....
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@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
10 Aug 09
Knowing that I would not get my answers, I took the easy way out. I don't ask questions. I believe that any happenings happen for a cause. There is no such things as coincidence. To mope over it will not lead anywhere. The remedy is to be thankful for what we have. Perhaps kidding ourselves with 'Very Nice' in any happening is a good way out.
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@sukumar794 (5040)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
10 Aug 09
At the outset your plan of action seems quite a tough one.Yet I'm going to make it a try....keeping unmindful of daily happenings and await a mystery to turn everything bright and cheerful.Okay.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
8 Aug 09
I think we are definitely groping in the dark when we ask these questions even though alot of people trust what a psychic says about it. I think we just have to live and wait for things to happen and keep trying to succeed on our own time.
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@sukumar794 (5040)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
10 Aug 09
I'm going to act in a similar vein.Let things turn out as it should and not worry a bit about happenings.Thanks
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
7 Aug 09
I really try not to worry about things like this. I do make plans but I know the reaons why I was born and my purpose in life. I know too that like os many people the road will not always be easy but I have faith in God. I pray frequently and ask my God to take care of me and my family. I try to love others as He loves me.
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@strawberrychocodahi (4818)
• Philippines
7 Aug 09
All of us have our own questions to ask and we can even have the answer to our own question. But no matter what, life is not that easy, we need not to complain. We live in a time that has a frame and ending. So live life to the fullest.
Nothing good will happen to a person who complains a lot. Be content of what you have and never have to compare yourself with others. If there are dark days, there will also be lightened days.
So enjoy every moment passing by, coz it will not happen again. Time will never be set back. Live for the day and be thankful always. Life is just short, but it will be good if you know how to.
@grundmang (112)
• Israel
7 Aug 09
well i belive were still far from it... if you asked someone 100 years ago how father can tech go they would say they know it all,,, and we think so today but still has a lot to find out about the world we live in...
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@jillmalitz (5131)
• United States
7 Aug 09
Those are age old questions, many of which go unanswered. Some people are able to persevere and work through things in life which give them some answers. For most Christians these questions are answered by having faith and trusting God no matter what happens. The humanist will say that we must do the best we can to learn and do in this life because that is all there is.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
7 Aug 09
I think if given the choice, we want to stop the static in our minds, the buzz that's there when we go to sleep and still present when we wake up. For some people the buzz is barely noticeable, for others it's a deafening roar. For all it's there. Everyday we bowed down with sorrow and sadness for life unanswered troubles. It is enough to take the joy out of any life, that such lives would be prison sentences of grief. What else could anyone do but come down to the knees raise our hands to ask God for mercy and plead with Him to give us a little space to breath for all our endless problems.
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@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
7 Aug 09
We shouldn't be groping, we should be answering those questions ourselves--that is what life is for, a journey of discovery! We should be asking instead, when can I make it happen, where do I want to go, how can I insure things are right, how can I avoid having to be rescued and be independent, Which opportunity can I create and how can I avoid being in a position where people will pity me?
Grab life by the horns! Create your own opportunities. I spent the first 40 years of my life asking those questions and wasted all that time, not realizing that God gave me control of my life if I would only be strong and brave enough to take the wheel.
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@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
7 Aug 09
often we never find that answer so it's how we deal with all those questions and seek if there could be a leason that we might be able to learn from all the negtive things as well as postive things
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@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
7 Aug 09
If none of your questions remain unanswered...doesn't that mean that they ARE answered? Unfortunately, most questions about life can only be answered after the fact. If they were answered up front, then none of us would have anything to hope and pray for. I for one would like the winning lottery numbers in advance. That would take care of a lot of my questions before I had to ask them...lol.
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@thokius (426)
• Austria
7 Aug 09
Nothing is true and everything is permited. Those are the words of the philoypher Hashshashin. If you understand them maybe some of your questions will be answered. According to me the answer is that everything is a lie. If you try to define truth in anyway you'll just return to the original questions. So in other words you can't get the answer when it doesn't exist. You have to make the answer. Anything you believe in will come to reality...
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@mehajjaa (1)
• India
7 Aug 09
everything will become allright sukumar,if we believe it that way. but we can't long for someone to extend the olive branch. but if we believe in our god and in ourselves, there will be so many positive oppurtunities coming in our way ... much , much better than we ever imagined !
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@Aussies2007 (5336)
• Australia
7 Aug 09
Rule 1: Life is not fair - get used to it!
Rule 2 : The world won't care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself.
Rule 3 : You will NOT make $60,000 a year right out of high school. You won't be a vice-president with a car phone until you earn both.
Rule 4 : If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss
Rule 5 : Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your Grandparents had a different word for burger flipping: they called it opportunity.
Rule 6: If you mess up, it's not your parents ' fault, so don't whine about your mistakes, learn from them.
Rule 7: Before you were born, your parents weren't as boring as they are now. They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and listening to you talk about how cool you thought you were. So, before you save the rain forest from the parasites of your parent's generation, try delousing the closet in your own room.
Rule 8: Your school may have done away with winners and losers, but life HAS NOT. In some schools, they have abolished failing grades and they'll give you as MANY TIMES as you want to get the right answer. This doesn't bear the slightest resemblance to ANYTHING in real life.
Rule 9: Life is not divided into semesters. You don't get summers off and very few employers are interested in helping you FIND YOURSELF. Do that on your own time.
Rule 10: Television is NOT real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs.
Rule 11: Be nice to nerds. Chances are you'll end up working for one.
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@maggiesunjuan (554)
• China
25 Aug 09
Hi sukumar, the following words are what I wanna say to you: First, life is a journey full of mystery, you are the only one to finish this long journey, parents, friends are all those who accompany you,it's sad, but we have to grope in the dark, aren't we? But it is also a good thing because along this journey we learnt so much, we got much experience, we did wrong things, right things, we hurt and being hurt, then we know this is life. Second, I think you are a couscious person, you want to know more about life, you wanna explore life, so many questions means you are not satisfied with current situation. Actually, I'm the same with you, I have many questions to life too, I also hope that I could lead a good life.
Good luck to you my friend!
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
7 Aug 09
Hi sukumar, It's true that life is filled with questions and if we kept thinking about them constantly, we would probably go insane. I have found it better to be grateful for each new day and to always expect the best. Life has a way of taking care of things if we are willing to trust ourselves in it's care. Blessings.
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@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
7 Aug 09
I relate to your questions and I have been asking myself the same quite a lot lately and of course I am still clueless!
The fact is that we don’t know and that is the hardest thing for humans to accept; the unknown, we hate not having control and the mere fact that so many of these questions remain unanswered goes to prove how little control we have over anything.
It used to make me feel quite depressed until, one day I gave up the fight and allowed life to move through me at its own will and pace. It is scary but I guess I got tired of trying to figure it out. Anything could happen to any of us, anything at all and there is not a darn thing we can do about it so why fight?
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@maygodblessu44 (7336)
• India
24 Aug 09
Hello my friend sukumar794 Ji,
A night falls and day breaks. Everyone has to weight for day to break. It comes as a
cycle . But one must not sleep at that time, but make use of time. There is hope. One
shold never loose hope. A great fellow in form of GOD controls everything in our lives
and HE only would make verything Ok and answered. Have patience. A dawn is very near.
never get tired of waiting. Waiting brings fruitful results.
May God bless You and have a great time.