People who you love married to other people
By advokatku
@advokatku (4033)
Indonesia
August 8, 2009 11:51pm CST
If people who you love eventually married with other people, what are you doing ? kill of the pair or just silent ?
Please anwers and give your reason
6 responses
@ranjanjec (43)
• India
28 Aug 09
The same also happened with me. At begining I thought of killing my girl friend but then thought that I loved her, then how can I harm her.
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
9 Aug 09
killing them won't change the fact that your wife no longer loves you... acceptance and letting go are the most effective way of proving to her that you loved her... well... letting go of somebody just because you wanted her to be happy is a way of showing so much unconditional love... there are reasons for everything, God wants us to be stronger... :)
@kevchua (1004)
• Malaysia
9 Aug 09
"Killing" should never be on your mind as our religion teaches us to love even our enemies. They will be punished eventually. If the person I love marries another person, I'm going to be very sad but since we both are not engaged yet, thus she still has the right to "elope" with another person; however, if we were registered and engaged, and she marries another person in the end, I'd make a report to the relevant authorities. Once a couple is engaged, it is as good as almost getting married but it could change. That's a fact.
@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
9 Aug 09
you cant predict the time, you cant hold someone's heart. if they choose to go no matter how painful it is, you have no other choice but to let them go.. it will be more painful if you keep on insisting yourself to someone. lets say he will stay with you but her mind and heart is with someone else. her time is not with you always, and that she only stay with you bcoz of pity.. so id rather let them go. besides, if it was god who will choose him for me, then no matter what happen, wither he will go to other girls or not. if our destiny is really us then god will find way to lead his way back to me... if not then maybe theres someone that god want to give you, someone's best for you. remember that god only wants what best for us. he will take out those who he think that only give us pain.